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How old were you?
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I want to! 29%  29%  [ 85 ]
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I don't want to. 4%  4%  [ 13 ]
Under -14 15%  15%  [ 44 ]
14-16 17%  17%  [ 49 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 40 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 28 ]
20-25 8%  8%  [ 22 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 8 ]
30-35 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
35-40 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 292

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05 Jun 2011, 6:34 pm

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05 Jun 2011, 6:39 pm

5. Kindergarten. I drew this girl a picture of her favourite animal (A zedbra I think) because she seemed sad, and she turned around and planted a big one on my lips. :D



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05 Jun 2011, 11:05 pm

17 and never. I keep getting rejected over and over...I kinda want to try it out to see how it feels though.


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05 Jun 2011, 11:09 pm

When I was 15. It was gross because I didn't like the guy. I wanted to date just to have that experience. The whole date went awry.


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08 Jun 2011, 10:44 am

It was just over a week before my 20th birthday. I'd liked him for about a month beforehand: we got drunk, and I clumsily told him that I really liked him, and he kissed me. It felt a bit weird, but kind of nice. It felt nicer the next day when we were both sober, but it didn't feel half as good as when he wrapped his arms round me tightly.


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08 Jun 2011, 2:48 pm

Jonsi wrote:
5. Kindergarten. I drew this girl a picture of her favourite animal (A zedbra I think) because she seemed sad, and she turned around and planted a big one on my lips. :D


Awwww! That's so cute. ^.^



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08 Jun 2011, 4:37 pm

Never been kissed and nearly 29 :(



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09 Jun 2011, 6:39 pm

19 of of this post and I still haven't

I think most of the people who responded to that poll were probably girls



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09 Jun 2011, 7:10 pm

My first kiss was when I was 5. He was 7. We were little kids so it wasn't anything hot and heavy, but we were quite decidedly in love and wanted to kiss each other. So we did. It was like a Kim Anderson photo. If you don't want to count that, my first kiss was in 6th grade to a boy who looked like Alex Lifeson (in my opinion). It was brief but intentional. Unlike my Kindergarten romance, we weren't in love. I just wanted to kiss a boy that I thought looked like Alex Lifeson and he was agreeable to kissing a girl. If you don't want to count that, my first kiss was in 7th grade with an 8th grader. We were in love and to prove it, he wrote it all over his sneakers in pen. That kiss had tongue and we went on for quite a while.

I was never a good girl. :twisted:



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09 Jun 2011, 7:20 pm

j5689 wrote:
I think most of the people who responded to that poll were probably girls


The boys I had kissed were still 7 years old, then 11 years old, then 13 years old. While kissing girls is fun, many of us did not have our first kisses with other girls, which means there were boys getting kissed at those ages.

There are late bloomers who are boys and girls so it all will even out. It's really not a big deal.



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09 Jun 2011, 7:33 pm

What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.



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09 Jun 2011, 8:00 pm

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What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.



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09 Jun 2011, 8:26 pm

wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.



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09 Jun 2011, 8:53 pm

MXH wrote:
wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.
It means a person who didn't get a particular thing until they were older than the majority of people who had already gotten it.

In this example, someone who gets the first kiss a lot later than most people.



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09 Jun 2011, 9:17 pm

j5689 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.
It means a person who didn't get a particular thing until they were older than the majority of people who had already gotten it.

In this example, someone who gets the first kiss a lot later than most people.


^ This.



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10 Jun 2011, 4:02 am

wefunction wrote:
j5689 wrote:
MXH wrote:
wefunction wrote:
MXH wrote:
What's a late bloomer supposed to be? Sounds like a kind way of saying loser to me.


My oldest son is a late bloomer so I'd watch what you associate the term with, if I were you.

Then enlighten me on what it means.
It means a person who didn't get a particular thing until they were older than the majority of people who had already gotten it.

In this example, someone who gets the first kiss a lot later than most people.


^ This.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5grbGKzdXs[/youtube]
I seriously can not resist


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