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17 Jun 2011, 10:46 am

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Thats polite I think it's more basic and crude then that.

"Let me just cut to the chase, no chance of f***ing me love"


IDK about that. I've found most people have much lower standards when it comes to straight up sex than they do for a partner.


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17 Jun 2011, 10:53 am

It seems to be governed by how far your willing to dehumanize someone.


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17 Jun 2011, 10:54 am

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It seems to be governed by how far your willing to dehumanize someone.


Not sure I would say that, either. I don't see unattached sex as inherently dehumanizing.


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17 Jun 2011, 11:02 am

I can only speak for myself in that regards. I just feel the less you associate the body you are sharing space with human identity like knowning a name or aspects of their person the easier it becomes to be detached.

Sounds very cold and clinical I know but I don't claim to be the norm. But i haven't enaged in anything like that in nearly 10 years and don't plan on returning to that anytime soon


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17 Jun 2011, 11:06 am

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I can only speak for myself in that regards. I just feel the less you associate the body you are sharing space with human identity like knowning a name or aspects of their person the easier it becomes to be detached.


All any of us can do is speak for ourselves.


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17 Jun 2011, 11:14 am

But some people on here seem to have some aquired wisdom of the ages that they can render judgement on vast swathes of the human race. I don't know who made these people spokesman but I have to admire the shear tenacity of claiming to speak for us all.

I blame religion. Mankinds greatest organised attempt to destroy spirituality


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17 Jun 2011, 11:15 am

Laz wrote:
But some people on here seem to have some aquired wisdom of the ages that they can render judgement on vast swathes of the human race. I don't know who made these people spokesman but I have to admire the shear tenacity of claiming to speak for us all.

I blame religion. Mankinds greatest organised attempt to destroy spirituality


That's not wisdom. :lol:


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17 Jun 2011, 11:17 am

Your just saying that cause you want to defy your fate of being generalised, en masse


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17 Jun 2011, 11:19 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Laz wrote:
I can only speak for myself in that regards. I just feel the less you associate the body you are sharing space with human identity like knowning a name or aspects of their person the easier it becomes to be detached.


All any of us can do is speak for ourselves.

way to generalize what we can do :roll:



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17 Jun 2011, 11:20 am

MXH wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Laz wrote:
I can only speak for myself in that regards. I just feel the less you associate the body you are sharing space with human identity like knowning a name or aspects of their person the easier it becomes to be detached.


All any of us can do is speak for ourselves.

way to generalize what we can do :roll:


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17 Jun 2011, 11:21 am

Laz wrote:
Your just saying that cause you want to defy your fate of being generalised, en masse


You're right. Generalizations are sexy. We all want to be sexy.


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17 Jun 2011, 11:25 am

I'm a non conformist ugly munter.


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