Strange things that you find attractive in a man/woman

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04 Jul 2011, 10:31 pm

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Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
Nerdy (if you have a star wars cookie cutter set for example)
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


There are Star Wars Cookie Cutters?!? Do they have boba fett?!



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04 Jul 2011, 11:29 pm

BREASTS!

...only messing, I seem to like small hands for some reason.


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05 Jul 2011, 12:34 am

I don't know if I have a "type" but I occasionally find different things attractive.
Black, white, asian, slim, curvy, whatever.
Ears that stick out a bit are very cute.
Dainty hands and feet are cute too.
Left leaning in her politics.
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.
Doesn't expect big things from me socially (I'd like to meet an Aspie and see how that goes).
A brain.
I'm pretty affectionate once I'm with someone so she'd have to like spooning but for some reason I don't really get kissing.
I usually like girls who are folksy, singer/song writer types.
For some reason I really like seeing a girl curled up on a lounge in comfy warm clothes. I'll take a quiet night at home peeling dorky pyjamas off a girl next door then fighting for the attention of a prissy drama queen in a night club.



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05 Jul 2011, 12:47 am

Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.


If only every guy felt this way.



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05 Jul 2011, 1:04 am

chrissyrun wrote:
Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.


If only every guy felt this way.


I never wear it and I've never had a problem. I choose to believe this means more men think this way than we think. :)


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05 Jul 2011, 1:09 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
chrissyrun wrote:
Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.


If only every guy felt this way.


I never wear it and I've never had a problem. I choose to believe this means more men think this way than we think. :)


Me too, I used to wear lip gloss in junior high, but that only lasted for a handful of months. I actually think no make-up makes the skin better. I mean, I went through all of high school completely make-up free, and RARELY got a pimple even though I sweated daily. It's just that I don't think that will ever change because there are girls who actually like make-up.



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05 Jul 2011, 1:14 am

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05 Jul 2011, 1:26 am

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I'm like 3 hours past my usual time of falling asleep, so do forgive me if I make grammatical blunders and syntax errors.

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Do any of you find certain strange traits about a woman or a man that you find attractive? For example, I am very attracted to women who play musical instruments, the more instruments, the more attractive I find them. I'm also very attracted to women who hate cooking. I guess that would be my inner-cook wanting to come out though.

How about you guys/gals? (If I haven't confused you. D:)


I can play several musical instruments :wink:
I hate cooking when I think about Male chauvinism and women's social status :lol: :lol:



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05 Jul 2011, 1:29 am

Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
Left leaning in her politics.
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.
Doesn't expect big things from me socially (I'd like to meet an Aspie and see how that goes).
A brain.
For some reason I really like seeing a girl curled up on a lounge in comfy warm clothes. I'll take a quiet night at home .................then fighting for the attention of a prissy drama queen in a night club.


Interesting.......
Especially about Left leaning!! !! !! ! :P



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05 Jul 2011, 1:37 am

Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
I don't know if I have a "type" but I occasionally find different things attractive.
Black, white, asian, slim, curvy, whatever.
Ears that stick out a bit are very cute.
Dainty hands and feet are cute too.
Left leaning in her politics.
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.
Doesn't expect big things from me socially (I'd like to meet an Aspie and see how that goes).
A brain.
I'm pretty affectionate once I'm with someone so she'd have to like spooning but for some reason I don't really get kissing.
I usually like girls who are folksy, singer/song writer types.
For some reason I really like seeing a girl curled up on a lounge in comfy warm clothes. I'll take a quiet night at home peeling dorky pyjamas off a girl next door then fighting for the attention of a prissy drama queen in a night club.


I love how I am probably one of the most contradictory people ever....
I have dainty hands, but runners feet.
I am right leaning, but I don't wear make-up.
I am an aspie, but I still like to try my hand at socializing.
I am smart, yet people call me stupid sometimes when I take things literally or have no common sense.
I'm not physically affectionate, but I am mentally and emotionally.
I love writing songs but I am not "folksy"
I like comfy clothes, but they are different than other people's definition of comfy clothes.
I am both girls, I am a dorky PJ girl and a drama queen rolled into one.

Not trying to make this into a thread about me, but I saw metaphysics do this so I'd just like to point out that it is frustrating because I am so contradictory...it'd be cool if a guy wold be fine with that. Too bad everyone is on one side or the other of everything. They are either one thing or another of anything.



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05 Jul 2011, 1:39 am

AsteroidNap wrote:
Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


I was the best student of mathematics when I was at school :P But I am much better in history and languages..

Russian Literature?

Do you like it in general or you would prefer some particular ones?

A list of writers who I like :P

Антон Павлович Чехов??

Фёдор Михайлович Достоевский??? :P

ЛевНиколаевич Толстой? :P

Борис Леонидович Пастернек??

Александр Сергеевич Пушкин???

etc.

And Vladimir Nabokov, if we can think him as an Russian one :P



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05 Jul 2011, 1:44 am

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1. intelligence.
2. A good sense of humor.
3. charisma.
4. Having self respect for yourself.
5. Being good at math.
6. Having a love for history.
7. Being able to play mind games.
8. Taking good care of yourself.
9. Having a positive attitude.
10. Being easy to get along with.


Umm, apart from that I am not sure about 2 4 and 10 ....

I can supply other demands brilliantly :wink:



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05 Jul 2011, 2:13 am

metaphysics wrote:
Joker wrote:
1. intelligence.
2. A good sense of humor.
3. charisma.
4. Having self respect for yourself.
5. Being good at math.
6. Having a love for history.
7. Being able to play mind games.
8. Taking good care of yourself.
9. Having a positive attitude.
10. Being easy to get along with.


Umm, apart from that I am not sure about 2 4 and 10 ....

I can supply other demands brilliantly :wink:


I can apply everything but 2 6 and 7



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05 Jul 2011, 2:15 am

Gwenwyn wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
Super-intelligent women, perhaps a degree in astrophysics, mathematics, Russian literature....etc.
Nerdy (if you have a star wars cookie cutter set for example)
I also had to tell a girl once to stop speaking Tolkien Elvish to me as it was driving me crazy (in a good way).


There are Star Wars Cookie Cutters?!? Do they have boba fett?!


They do, but the cookies you make from it take 1000 years to digest.



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05 Jul 2011, 6:53 am

Dan_Undiagnosed wrote:
I don't know if I have a "type" but I occasionally find different things attractive.
Black, white, asian, slim, curvy, whatever.
Ears that stick out a bit are very cute.
Dainty hands and feet are cute too.
Left leaning in her politics.
Doesn't have to wear makeup everyday, bonus points if she rarely ever wears it.
Doesn't expect big things from me socially (I'd like to meet an Aspie and see how that goes).
A brain.
I'm pretty affectionate once I'm with someone so she'd have to like spooning but for some reason I don't really get kissing.
I usually like girls who are folksy, singer/song writer types.
For some reason I really like seeing a girl curled up on a lounge in comfy warm clothes. I'll take a quiet night at home peeling dorky pyjamas off a girl next door then fighting for the attention of a prissy drama queen in a night club.


I hope you find that aspie girl, but in the meantime you can peel my pjs any day. :p

My 'weird' thing is an attraction 'monkey men' or men with a slightly animalistic quality/ body hair, and also a thing for stationery, schedules, and a methodical approach to thinking. I also seem to always fall for musicians.



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05 Jul 2011, 4:14 pm

Physical things I notice and find attractive:

1. hands
2. voice
3. eyes
4. teeth/smile
5. legs, butt
6. penis/testicles
7. reasonably athletic

Mental/emotional things (in no particular order):

1. loves kids
2. courteous driver
3. smiles/laughs easily and often
4. sweet and thoughtful
5. protective of me and ready to defend me
6. slow to anger
7. socially conscious, environmentally aware
8. stays calm when all hell breaks loose around him
9. has strong opinions, but is tolerant of others' opinions, even if they're weird
10. adores his mother
11. hard-working
12. responsible
13. can admit when he's wrong
14. reads/writes poetry (or any literature, really)
15. self-confident but modest
16. etc, etc.