My girlfriend thinks she might be pregnant?

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Okay ... I'll wait for the other shoe to drop ... but I think I already know the size, style and color of that shoe ...

When I was 17, I had a pregnancy scare, had to take Plan B (the morning-after pill) and thought, for a very difficult week and a half (Plan B made my period late), that I was pregnant. After I discovered I was not, I didn't have sex with my then-boyfriend ever again (we broke up not long after).

Even if I had been pregnant, I wouldn't have married him. His mom had married as a teenager, his sister had married as a teenager, and I was not going to let him continue that family tradition.

andriarose is right - this sort of thing tests relationships, and often they just fall through. It wasn't this event that made us break up but the stress from it did lead to fighting, which did.

I do not know of a single teenaged girl who would fake pregnancy to "trap" a guy. Not I nor any of my friends, nor anyone I know would do this. The idea of a girl needing to marry a guy is sorely outdated and a tiny minority of girls even still want to get married so young and be supported by their husbands!

What a load of bs in this thread. Teenagers don't want to get married. It is pretty rare to find a teenager that wants to get married, in the western world.

The stigma of teenage pregnancy in the same if they get married or not, in fact it is possibly worse if they get married because people think they were pressured into it.

Legal marriage should be abolished, people need to learn the difference between marriage and commitment they are not the same thing and the should not be treated as such. What the law should do is protect the family, where it is needed and bog off otherwise. The responsibility is as a parent. Marriage is irrelevant.

My cousin happy not married for many years, strong family unit with several kids.

Chances are this girl broke up with this guy, becuase of the scare, rather than some cynical reason.

The reasons get deeper than that, theres this other guy called jack, he loves her and she promised that she would not date anyone while she was away from him, attending school elsewhere, although, she did decide to date me and break it with jack, then during the holidays we went to jacks town and spent alot of time together, then I finally met jack. My ex girlfriend then tells me that she once masterbated infront of jack but regreted it. The fact that she did that, and the fact that I know that she would obviously still has some feelings for jack and that he loves her, made meeting him very akward to my mind, but he seemed to be an alright guy, but I could tell what kind of a person he was, he is a manipulative fake prick, I saw through his guise...

anyways, he said he was leaving forever to england, never to come again one friday, on that day I was leaving to go visit my family long way east, while im there, she says she might be pregnant over a text and alot of things, from reading inbetween the lines I could tell she was with jack, they lied to me, jack did not leave friday, he wasn't leaving for another two weeks, now they are both in jacks town, for two weeks without me, and she just breaks up with me. She does say although, that she would love to go out with me in the future, I just cut out all my comunication with her at that point, and changed our relationship on facebook ect ect.

Im not going to go out with her, I feel that my trust had been completely betrayed, betrayed to the ground, then she basicly asks if we could go out in the future? after jack leaves forever? I dont think so, I think thats selfish that she thinks she can get things the way she wants, thats not on, thats not commitment, when you have a boyfriend, you owe him some commitment, breaking up with him to play with some guy then getting back together is a cheap little shortcut and I dont think thats very fair, its very selfish as it satifies whatever her emotion and romantic needs are, but kills me inside, then try to act like it never happened. NO THAT IS NOT OKAY.

sorry, felt like I had to vent a little.

She is a very mysterious, strange girl, and sometimes said to be crazy, but its why I liked her in the first place, she on the outside is like what I feel on the inside, but I cant express it, maby its my AS that hinders that.

True, "One nasty female ... et cetera", but that "One Nasty Female" sure seems to get around a lot; nearly every man I know can narrate at least one similar story. Either it's just the one woman causing that much pain everywhere she goes, or for every man there is at least one woman to cause him intense grief and ruin his trust in other women.

Go ahead, ask your favorite man if he's ever been played for a chump by a woman that he loved and trusted (it isn't just men doing it to women, y'know...).

At least you can always count on Gordon Freeman, M. D. when it comes to unwanted pregnancies...



On second thought, maybe he's suited for dealing with untrustworthy people, too.