Shadowgirl and I are in love!! !

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I think everyone is bisexual inside, and some people tilt one way and some tilt the other way. Honestly, I'm not exactly sure how homosexuality works other than possibly a subconscious hatred of the opposite sex or maybe something else entirely. I've never exactly figured that one out.

So when are you going to start f***ing guys? *giggle*

The same ones that tell me that I can't find a girl tell me that I CAN find a guy? It would seem that I am not the only one whose logic has run directly into itself.

hahahahaha

I am happy for the pair of you, especially if you can understand each other and have things in common.

Haha, you just criticized yourself! *laughs at the fact that you have no girlfriend*

This girly-man likes his gf calling him by that name. I've got a tough-as-nails girlfriend and I love that about her. Thank you!

Wow, this is a fun thread!

I don't quite understand what asexuality is, because I'm not asexual. (Just like NTs don't understand Aspies and vice-versa.) I understand the basic idea of it, but I don't see exactly what it's like. But I respect it.

I sometimes wonder what it would be like to be asexual. It sounds interesting.

Urm. hmm.

Question from the resident Psychologicalist type person here.

Have either of the two love birds met in person yet?

Congratulations! May you two have wonderful times together.

I'm afraid that itself is not a relationship, it is in fact a farce.

Unfortunately although he doesn't sound right he is, in fact he's so completely right you should really listen to his advice. If you can't engage in sex then something is wrong, maybe not with anything particular but certainly intercourse is preferable for anyone.

He's 100% right, and I wouldn't term a non-sexual acquaintship a relationship, it's not. Relationships by nature are sexual, at least one that's loving. Now you say you're asexual, human beings are sexual however therefore this cannot apply to them. Asexuality is only possible in organisms that have methods of procreating without a mate.

PS I said he doesn't sound right, but I meant for you, while to me he sounds so right at first glance it's beyond imagination why you'd even argue his points. You do desire to feel different, therefore you act different, but sex is a relationship, otherwise what you have is friendship nothing more.

I think it's great that you guys can have a deep and meaningful relationship without sex.

This is just ignorant. I really don't think you're asexual, you come across more as ANTI-sexual, which is another ball-game altogether. As a proudly horny girl, I have to say that I want both quick thrills AND a long relationship. And I get both, too. As for the much-touted "faithfulness", well, that's purely a social construct, and I don't believe in it at all, horny or not. I love my husband, and he loves me, and our loyalty to each other is based on our desire to make a life together for ourselves and our daughter... NOT on what we do with our bodies, which we consider irrelevant to true loyalty. We are not each other's possession, and we do not attach inordinate importance to sex. It is a fun, exciting, sometimes deep experience, but it is certainly not what defines our relationship, so we are okay with letting each other experience it with someone else if the occasion arises. You, on the other hand, seem to think sex is extremely important. If you were truly asexual, you would not attach such importance to a girlfriend's physical "faithfulness"; you wouldn't care about it very much at all. It might even be a relief to have her physical needs taken care of by another, so the issue didn't come between you (I am speaking here of the hypothetical "horny girl" you so unfairly denigrated, not your current love).

Anyway, congratulations on finding love. Just take care not to insult and belittle others who do not share your hatred of sexuality.

I find this thread fascinating!

1. I think a true relationship is sex, pure and simple. Otherwise you don't have one.

2. If you don't feel sex is important what would happen if she suddenly began having sex with some other man, then telling you about it?

Those are a few things I was thinking about.

PS I need luVin!

Res Pysych here again.

Okay, so have the two people in question actually met?


Relationships are all part of a life that is natural, and I tell ye this, that it is important at some point in a persons life to have one...........facimile types don't work. they suck.

Uh, yes, we've met in person back in October.