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04 Aug 2011, 4:05 pm

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The thing is....

Laura surely proved that she's not a shallow NT digger-bla bla bla....

But what about Jono? Is he really not shallow (like many NT guys)?

Why did he pick this gorgeous healthy girl to ask her out? Why didn't he go for a girl with a teacher syndrome or with some other facial condition? I am sure they have support group and communities and he can be in contact with some girls with this same condition. I am sure some girls with teacher syndrome would kill to get him a bf like him( like I said before, he's really handsome for someone with that condition.)

I am not quite sure if this an ideal exemplary story of an non-shallow love. My instinct tells me otherwise.


Irrelivent. Not many girls whine here on a regular basis about shallow guys. If they did, I'd post a pic of Peirce Brosman and his wife.


Lol What?! Maybe not here, but plenty of girls in the world complain on regular basis about how shallow guys can be.



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04 Aug 2011, 4:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The thing is....

Laura surely proved that she's not a shallow NT digger-bla bla bla....

But what about Jono? Is he really not shallow (like many NT guys)?

Why did he pick this gorgeous healthy girl to ask her out? Why didn't he go for a girl with a teacher syndrome or with some other facial condition? I am sure they have support group and communities and he can be in contact with some girls with this same condition. I am sure some girls with teacher syndrome would kill to get him a bf like him( like I said before, he's really handsome for someone with that condition.)

I am not quite sure if this an ideal exemplary story of an non-shallow love. My instinct tells me otherwise.


Irrelivent. Not many girls whine here on a regular basis about shallow guys. If they did, I'd post a pic of Peirce Brosman and his wife.


Lol What?! Maybe not here, but plenty of girls in the world complain on regular basis about how shallow guys can be.


If its not on here then it's not relevant. The people who complain off here won't see it.



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04 Aug 2011, 4:26 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The thing is....

Laura surely proved that she's not a shallow NT digger-bla bla bla....

But what about Jono? Is he really not shallow (like many NT guys)?

Why did he pick this gorgeous healthy girl to ask her out? Why didn't he go for a girl with a teacher syndrome or with some other facial condition? I am sure they have support group and communities and he can be in contact with some girls with this same condition. I am sure some girls with teacher syndrome would kill to get him a bf like him( like I said before, he's really handsome for someone with that condition.)

I am not quite sure if this an ideal exemplary story of an non-shallow love. My instinct tells me otherwise.


Irrelivent. Not many girls whine here on a regular basis about shallow guys. If they did, I'd post a pic of Peirce Brosman and his wife.


Lol What?! Maybe not here, but plenty of girls in the world complain on regular basis about how shallow guys can be.


If its not on here then it's not relevant. The people who complain off here won't see it.


They do exist here too.



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04 Aug 2011, 4:47 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The thing is....

Laura surely proved that she's not a shallow NT digger-bla bla bla....

But what about Jono? Is he really not shallow (like many NT guys)?

Why did he pick this gorgeous healthy girl to ask her out? Why didn't he go for a girl with a teacher syndrome or with some other facial condition? I am sure they have support group and communities and he can be in contact with some girls with this same condition. I am sure some girls with teacher syndrome would kill to get him a bf like him( like I said before, he's really handsome for someone with that condition.)

I am not quite sure if this an ideal exemplary story of an non-shallow love. My instinct tells me otherwise.


so you're saying people with disabilities should only date within their group? that's silly.

anyway, I highly doubt that such premeditation exists when it comes to human relationships. usually they just happen *despite* apparent obstacles. maybe she just digs guys who look like walking Munch paintings? maybe he digs girls who look like pretty female versions of himself? who knows?

either way though it's a cute story.


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04 Aug 2011, 4:56 pm

anna-banana wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The thing is....

Laura surely proved that she's not a shallow NT digger-bla bla bla....

But what about Jono? Is he really not shallow (like many NT guys)?

Why did he pick this gorgeous healthy girl to ask her out? Why didn't he go for a girl with a teacher syndrome or with some other facial condition? I am sure they have support group and communities and he can be in contact with some girls with this same condition. I am sure some girls with teacher syndrome would kill to get him a bf like him( like I said before, he's really handsome for someone with that condition.)

I am not quite sure if this an ideal exemplary story of an non-shallow love. My instinct tells me otherwise.


so you're saying people with disabilities should only date within their group? that's silly.

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Not really, but it would be a nicer story :P.



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04 Aug 2011, 5:00 pm

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I am the ugly version of this dude:
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Seems pretty cute to me. :wink:


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04 Aug 2011, 7:36 pm

I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.



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04 Aug 2011, 7:40 pm

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I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.


I thought I lived in the shallow guy (and girl) capital of the world... :wink:



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04 Aug 2011, 8:06 pm

Grisha wrote:
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I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.


I thought I lived in the shallow guy (and girl) capital of the world... :wink:

nope, im in the capital. The only hills here are made of silicone.



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04 Aug 2011, 9:52 pm

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.... when I made a post here that I think seemed very desperate & kinda had a negative vibe ....


Can you post a link to that post?

I'm a little embarrassed bu here's link http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt167028.html


WOW you sound really lucky. I mean what you typed in your original post is EXACTLY what I am feeling. Yet whenever I say even half of that, I am guaranteed to turn everyone off. I just wish I could run into someone who will be able to hear everything about my desperation in its entirety AND fall for me.

When I read the first response of your now-girlfriend, she said that she never knew there is a guy who wants this and she was assuming she would have to compromise. Now, THIS is a big clue. I mean there are PLENTY of desperate guys. So could it be that whenever a guy is desperate the girl assumes that he is desperate FOR SEX; and thats why it never occured to her that there is any guy desperate for emotional closeness?

Now if thats the case then most likely the girls are wrong in assuming this. I mean take me for example. Just like you wrote, I don't care that much about sex either; but I am dying to have emotional closeness with someone. Could it be that I fail to convey it clearly enough so girls STILL assume I want sex even when its not the case? It is possible I don't convey emotions as clearly as you do since my posts tend to be more on "analytical" and "logical" side let along the fact that they are way too long. But trust me, I feel exact same thing you do. I just wish someone could look past my long winded logical posts and understand how I truly feel.


Yes, I think that's a pretty common assumption. I'm in college, so you could imagine what the dating atmosphere is like to lead me to that conclusion. Everyone is either with their high school bf/gf or just looking for a hook up :? Or they're a conservative Christian (not that there's anything wrong with that, just limits their dating opportunities to other conservative Christians).


Do you think this common assumption is the ONLY reason why girls don't want desperate guys? In your opinion, if I were to convey to girls the REAL reason for my desperation, which has nothing to do with sex, do you think I will have a good luck getting the girl I want?



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04 Aug 2011, 10:11 pm

MXH wrote:
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I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.


I thought I lived in the shallow guy (and girl) capital of the world... :wink:

nope, im in the capital. The only hills here are made of silicone.


Nope, sorry. Definitely I win.


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05 Aug 2011, 12:32 am

sagan wrote:
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I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.


I thought I lived in the shallow guy (and girl) capital of the world... :wink:

nope, im in the capital. The only hills here are made of silicone.


Nope, sorry. Definitely I win.


No you don't.

Only complex, sensitive people coming to terms with life live where you do - I've seen the movies.

They are very fond of wool accessories and carry their groceries in brown paper bags too...



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05 Aug 2011, 1:03 am

Grisha wrote:
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I live in the shallow guy capital of the world. I don't complain about them because I don't want anything to do with them. They will eventually meet an equally shallow woman and they will either live contently in their rather shallow relationship or it will eventually collimate in a rather nasty divorce.


I thought I lived in the shallow guy (and girl) capital of the world... :wink:

nope, im in the capital. The only hills here are made of silicone.


Nope, sorry. Definitely I win.


No you don't.

Only complex, sensitive people coming to terms with life live where you do - I've seen the movies.

They are very fond of wool accessories and carry their groceries in brown paper bags too...



Well you kind of have a point, wool beanies are the best, they give of that whole homeless / european / crack addict vibe. So chic.

And brown bags all the way, what would people think if you used plastic? (Uncool...) Green is the new black.


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05 Aug 2011, 9:25 am

Going to have to agree with Grisha on this one. LA seems pretty shallow.



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05 Aug 2011, 9:33 am

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Going to have to agree with Grisha on this one. LA seems pretty shallow.


Yay! LA sucks the most! 8)



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06 Aug 2011, 10:39 am

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This was directed at men in here who are all "women only want HOT men" "women only want RICH men".


While I certainly appreciate the sentiment, when certain men say those things what they really mean is "women don't want me" - the "hot/rich" thing is just a cover, they don't actually believe it themselves in most cases...


You're probably right. They try and make stupid excuses for them not being appealing, when the real reason is likely an attitude problem.



It's not stupid excuses. Who would go out with a slow, ugly, uneducated and lonely hermit that is extremely poor. If you didn't know who am I and saw me walking down a street , you'd give me a look like you'd just seen something disgusting. Hell I've seen people I've known do it.

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Attitude (in the case of some of the men here (I won't name names)) is expressed by vibes, not facial expressions. The only way of giving off the right one is changing your outlook.



Just come out and say it's me you're talking about. You don't have to hide behind vague statements. The reason I feel this way is because of people treating me a certain way all my life, and I don't see it changing unless people learn to accept me in society.