Aspie Friend/bf is being dishonest

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My dad used to do that to his wife and us kids. When we were upset, he'd get upset about us being upset. But not in the good kind of protective parent way. It was in the yell at you for crying kind of way. Not pleasant at all. We learned to hide our feelings and not complain when he was around. I don't understand how my stepmom is still married to him. I get that you post to the forum when you're at your witt's end and need to vent about his behavior and I get that we're only getting one side of the story but I do sense unhappiness with him on your part. I'm terrified of starting a new relationship but I did have to start over when my exhusband left me and I can tell you that it's not the end of the world to lose a man who causes you trouble. In your case, you might do well by not answering the door the next time he comes calling. I can't tell you what to do because I don't know the big picture of your situation but if you're unhappy you should change that.