should i steal this girl from her boyfriend?

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AAAAAAA!! !! i feel like i got hit by an apple cart or something.. did someone get the license plate number? LOL

ah, i dont think you should need a book, foot massages are relatively easy. just go with the flow.

Semi-curious note-When is it acceptable to give a foot massage as far as a relationship goes? Is that an instant thing like a hug, or does it require progress?

personally i would say it depends on the attitude of the other party. you really need to play it by ear.

Aspies get told that a lot ... girls just like you (me) "as a friend".

I don't like your chances. We could start a book.
20:1 you can get her to dump her fiance
10:1 you stuff up the friendship
4:5 she just likes you "as a friend".
20:1 you get arrested and we don't see you again on WP.

That's all I'm asking for, that you don't try to trick her in any way.
I'm not being hostile towards you, just so you know.
Seeing as you have in a way already gotten your response, I'd say don't destroy what you have.
Make sure you won't upset anything if you give her a foot massage or something like that.
I'm very physical with roommate's fiancé, but I've got no romantic interest in her, so he doesn't mind.
But still, you can't expect to change someone. If you love someone, you have to accept them for who they are.
And islamist kids don't inherently grow up to be suicide bombers, or else we would have 700 million suicide bombers to worry about (not for very long, though...).

I believe that people simply have a varied acceptance of spirituality. Everyone's not the same.
Religion is imposed upon most people, but it ultimately depends on the individual if they feel the need for it or not.
I for one, have a high acceptance of spirituality, but I'm not stupid or gullible, nor do I identify myself with the religion I was born into.
I don't like the formalised doctrines and the mind control, but I do experiment with different thoughts and ideas myself.
Other people have a hard time accepting spirituality and tend to become atheistic or whatever.
It's all in some sort of thing in the brain, a chemical or something, I read somewhere.
The important thing is to not be an as*hole about it, right?

Lets see how would you feel if you were her boyfriend and the other guy wanted to give her a massage for her birthday?

I would personally want to kill any guy trying that on with my girlfriend because I would know he was doing it to try and slowly get into her pants.

My advice is to forget her, otherwise you will just waste loads of time wishing and imagining how it could have been with this girl, and doing stupid stuff like foot massage which wont get you anything except maybe a blackeye. This time could be better spent finding another girl who actually might be single and available, I realise this might be more difficult in the UAE than other places, but hey you found one, probably only another million to try, so you can have a date with a new girl every single night for around 2500 years.

This will also reveal her true feelings for you. If you stop paying her adoring attention then she will either forget you because you were nothing much to her other than a backup choice, or else she will realise what she has lost and maybe go after you.

your first question: i'd give her a foot massage -first-.. LOL

hey if you stubbornly refused to give your GF a foot massage, it's not unreasonable to expect her to get it from somewhere else... LOL

but your last paragraph makes sense though... god i wish women werent such b*****s...

Pulp Fiction, anyone?

wow LOL!! !! yeah.. i didn't realize it, but it's actually very pulp-fictionesque

hahaha ok i've got a fiver on this