Reasons why you are a GOOD catch

Post Reply New Topic

- I have a good job i enjoy and a salary which pays the bills, which means that unlike many other people i do not come home bitching about how much i hate my job.

- I look good. I know this because someone else than my mom told me that, someone that was unbiased, looked good herself and was a woman which had an opinion that mattered.

- I have integrity, i dare to have an opinion. If i am wrong i can change my mind. I am openminded towards people who are not a) religious fanatics and b) politically extremely right/left, which i think does not belong on this planet. I judge people by their actions, not by their origins or the colour of their skin.

- I know what i want out of life, and i have accomplished some cool things already. I am a very good problem solver, and unlike most others, i see solutions where many only see problems.

- I do not sit down and cry when things go badly. I learned early in life that behaviour like that is a waste of time and doesn't solve anything, and that i really should start work on the problem instead.

- In a bad situation, i'm calm and get things done, unlike the masses who stand around with their shopping bags looking at the few people who actually DO something, like calling an ambulance which seems to be so bloody complicated for most human beings.

- I respect women just as much as men. That means that i do not think they deserve any special treatment. When it comes to work, i do not care if someone has a dick or boobs, i only care about getting things done and the quality of the work.

- I do not watch sports or any frivolous stuff on TV, in fact i don't even OWN a TV. I buy series on DVD and watch them, which means that i got tonnes of free time. I have my own home "cinema" though.

- I actually want a serious relationship that is based upon love, sex and togetherness. I can give a girl lots of free time, since i need that myself. I would have no problem letting a bi girl have a girlfriend on the side.

- I live in a small part of the world which has a stable economy because it is not ruled or controlled by a mono-sided political system.

- I do not do drugs, i do not smoke and i rarely drink alcohol.

- And i can fix computers

- I am very honest and loyal. I don't hide nor and try to make sure that it doesn't seem like I'm hiding anything.
- I am very empathetic and emotionally sensitive to my significant other's needs once I develop a strong bond with him.
- I am kind and am willing to support my significant other through anything that is important to him.
- I try to understand my partner's limitations and adjust to them as well as I possibly can, as long as I don't lose my sanity over it (i.e. have a meltdown). Sometimes it's hard to judge whether I'm going too far or not, though; it can take trial-and-error.
- I am generally a positive and upbeat person with high self-esteem.
- People say that I am mature, responsible, and have good prospects in life.

I'm honest, hard-working, intelligent, fairly confident, handsome, and understanding.

1: I'm a good listener
2: I'm a good cook
3: I'm a loyal gentleman
4: I would work tirelessly to make any girlfriend feel like the most important person EVER
5: I'm trustworthy and trusting
6: My lack of social skills means I won't cheat my shyness means I won't even try
7: I'm probably more likely to be approved by parents
8: I'm quiet and don't engage in self promotion
9: I have two adorable and friendly cats
10: I'm interested in a deep meaningful long term relationship

I'm smart.
I'm decent-looking.
I love cuddling and am very verbally affectionate.
I think in more male-(stereo)typical ways.
I don't like gold or diamonds.
I don't like (real) flowers.
I don't care where the damn toilet seat is left.
I love playing video games.

Do I look like a fish?

and even if I do(though I doubt I am that ugly) I am not one, so I am not any sort of catch.

I am very sexy and I have a HUGE ego (ask emilon).

Because I've been drinking all morning

I've always been pretty bad at ball-sports.

... Eh. Why am I a good catch? I guess it's because I'm...

-Confident in myself
-Speaking of the above, I'm selfless (and stupid) enough to think that I'm arrogent/egocentric sometimes, even when everyone says otherwise.
-Loving and lovable.
-Passionate if you're the right kind of person
-Intelligent but not belligerent
-Optimistic and a fighter for my soul.
-Already taken.

(See, the last point is what'll get ladies coming in spades!)

_________________
I think you guys will like my blog. http://modestyking.wordpress.com/

Hm. Now, why am I a good catch?
- I can cook. I like to cook. I'm good at it.
- I have a great eye for clothes.
- I'm loyal and I won't cheat.
- I'm a Future Soldier. (This is a drawback for some... it is the girl I'm currently "it's complicated" with.)
- I'm in relatively good physical condition.

Unfortunately for the single ladies, I'm taken.