Is feeding me a sign that she likes me?

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I think you should make an inquiry into whether or not she has a boyfriend,it wouldn't be that hard to bring up in a conversation .Her answer will tell you all that you need to know. Why should you waste time on someone who has a boyfriend and isn't going to ramp this up to the romantic level that you desire?Ask her about her boyfriend and see how she responds.

I say am happy for you and this be awasume if this all works out. The thing is i whould be cautious about this and move very slowly. Ask your self these questions. do you know if that so called boyfriend lives in japan. Or she says has a boyfriend but you don't see the evidence of him to support her claim ask why or is she lying about having one. This chould be a warning sign as this tell you she has potential to lie in the relationship unless she has her resosons but still someone should never have to lie. Or if she has one why is she feeding you is it part of japenness culture to feed a friend. If it is that it fine. But if she checking you out so she leave her boyfriend for you. And feeding you was not is not a japenaness thing that is a sign of flirting and she still with her boyfriend she is near cheating on her boyfriend. Not a good sign. If she was not interested in her boyfriend anymore. She should of broke up with him. Not go behind his back to find someone better. It not fair to her boyfriend for her to be doing this. There is nothing you did worng op if this is the case. I knew a friend like this did the very same thing go behind a person back because she was not interested in her boyfriend anymore but stayed with him while she was getting to know her new protentaly boyfriend as she did not want to alone.

All you rational autistic people have to ask "What would monkeys do?" before judging an NT girl. Testing out new boys before she leaves her old one may be dodgy in a world with a Klingon honour code but for most mammals it's perfectly reasonable, and by playing along you may find yourself with a lovely NT girlfriend.

Don't expect girls to be honourable, expect them to be awesome. They'll love you in a way that makes you feel completely new stuff if you can provide the biggest, safest world. As autistics, the big world part is EASY, we're natural big worlders. Safety would include being an awesome friend who doesn't make a move at the first opportunity.

I agree. Maybe this girl doesn't agree. Reasonable difference of opinion.

What's stopping you being just the next guy in line is your AWESOMENESS. You're the best so you get the girl. That's how life works. If you don't think you're the best why are you wasting her time?

Look at Tom Hanks' character in Big. He was a child in a man's body, so he was kind of autistic, and the woman who fell for him was previously accused of working her way through everyone in the office. It's not about morality, it's about our basic animal nature. We're different from NTs here and there is no point pretending otherwise.

My favourite girls have all been like this one (might be). Playful and intimate with everyone, happy to let their boyfriend implode or explode with jealousy because that would prove he wasn't the real thing. Maybe there are healthier girls who can leave someone before going to someone else but I don't know about that. I know there are crazier, weaker girls who pledge their troth to anyone who manipulates them and then wonder why a few months later they've become an abuse victim.

I think autistics are well suited to girls who do anything to find the real thing.

It's extremely flirtatious behaviour.

So, we have came to a conclusion that feeding is not a very good sign after all? But perhaps breast feeding then...