22 Things a Woman Must Know If She Loves a Man with AS

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Wow dude, that's really insulting.

Clearly you're lonely, and clearly you're bitter about it.

But what, exactly, do you get out of this? Why is it so appealing to you to s**t all over all the most important thing in a lot of people's lives?

I'm fed up about "The Aspie Relationship & Marriage industry"! Do you really think that there are any real women, Aspie or not who would like a man with traits like those on this list? NO! She would percieve him as a weirdo!

Maybe he's still upset over what This Other Norwegian Guy did.

Very funny. We need a "how to live on little money" forum more than this one.

I'm sure some of it rings true for some people. Sure, its ignorant, generalized, and stereotyping but I do see some of it in my husband. However, the author is clearly a bitter, unhappy woman and is projecting her feelings on to others.

The part that expresses her outrage at being expected to drive 5 hours alone is absolutely ludicrious. Why would she be unable to drive on her own? I've driven 5 hours alone while my husband stayed back another day, no big deal. But then again I'm not a clingly, controlling b***h. Jesus. Why should he have to leave when she wants to? I find a lot of it annoying but that little nugget just infuriates me. This should be titled "22 Things Women Like to Nag Men About"

Then maybe you could start one.

^This, for the win!

None of those traits fit every aspie. Many of them fit most guys, aspie or not. And those that are common, and unique, to aspies can mostly be improved.

I get it. You're trying to accept the idea that you are going to be alone. You're trying to extinguish all hope of finding someone, that way it won't hurt as much if you don't. I've been tempted to do the same at times. Thank god I never did, or I wouldn't have what I do today.

But you gotta understand, expressing your frustration the way you do only serves to insult those who've found love, and dishearten those who are still hoping for it.

Very true and while I do agree many women will not be interested in a man with AS ,attraction is not an objective thing,there are some women who will love those ''weird'' traits'' that Aspie males typically have .

Women want Alpha males not weirdos!

& guys want a woman with a supermodel body instead of her having a great personality. Stereotyping a gender like that starts lots of arguments here. NOT all women want an alpha just as NOT all men want a girl who's a supermodel

Explain my gf then.

Many women want alphas. Some want weirdos. I am attracted to uniqueness even if such unique qualities may perhaps be unflattering from some perspectives. Unique = weird.

Wish I had the time to disect all the points like some of you did, I have lots more to say .. but I'm at work

# 10 rings true

Sometimes I wonder why any of you bother going to college?


You''ll end up in a corprate enviroment where boorish jocks and trust fund babies like to have long boozy lunches and high 5 each other and tell each other how wonderful they are.



When all aspie wants to do is sit alone in their office cubical. *

How do you think that will pan out ?


*And that's not going to happen they did away with the cubical in the late 90's to foster a "go team " work enviroment. Birng back the cubical!

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# 23

I like the guy his one of the very few here that does not come across as a fraud.

It seems I am surounded by Cosby Kids .

I prefer not quite Cosby aka Married with Children. More can be learned from tha show than Autism Tv, why not air that ? at least at a min I could get a laugh out of it .

What is the point of autism TV? apart from making the aspie losers of this world feel like ^&*%