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17 Nov 2006, 7:43 pm

Er, I don't know what to do about it...



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18 Nov 2006, 2:51 am

RedMage wrote:
Er, I don't know what to do about it...


take some music lessons or something... or do some volunteer work etc... take the first step... set the ball rolling....


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18 Nov 2006, 6:29 am

It'll be a lot easier once you, and everyone around you, are 16/17. You'll find everyone will all of a sudden become a lot nicer, less judgemental and more mellow. It's a hormonal thing I think.

I used to be very reclusive, and socially extremely anxious. Now I'm confident and go out whenever I want. All I did was take it in small steps. Try to be bolder, and less shy. Even do little thigns like try sitting on the train seats that face everyone else. Progress is slow at first, but then it becomes much more relaxed and rewarding.



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18 Nov 2006, 9:14 am

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I NEVER go outside for starters...


If that's so, then I guess you'll always be lonely and depressed, since you can't manage to gather up the courage to face reality. I think you need to ge a life, so you'll be much happier than you are now.



not true plenty of guys would like to stay in with you :P



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18 Nov 2006, 12:04 pm

RedMage wrote:
I NEVER go outside for starters...

You can only change what you have control over. And changes must be made in order for your own life to change.
You have control over whether you go outside or not. You have control over many other aspects of your own life as well.



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18 Nov 2006, 8:24 pm

Thanks for the advice guys, much appreciated. Oh, and I'm no longer single. I'm dating Unknown online. :D



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18 Nov 2006, 8:39 pm

RedMage wrote:
Thanks for the advice guys, much appreciated. Oh, and I'm no longer single. I'm dating Unknown online. :D


congratulations! :heart:



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18 Nov 2006, 9:00 pm

I guess that means there's no need for this topic now.

Could someone please lock this?



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18 Nov 2006, 11:26 pm

that's funny, unknown didn't even post in this thread... while the other dogs were fighting for the bone, he sneaks in and steals it.. :)


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19 Nov 2006, 7:43 pm

Haha, yeah. :)



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11 Dec 2006, 10:36 pm

RedMage wrote:
This poor Red Mage is looking for love...

Now, since no one here is from the same place as me, a relationship will be hard. However, I am willing to have another online relationship if it all works out. The last three online relationships I had ended in me getting my heart broken, and I don't want that to happen again. If any guys are interested, just me PM and I'll tell you more.

A few things about me...:

Name's Ashleigh. I'm 15, female and I live in South Australia. I want a guy who listens to me. I have brown hair and brown eyes, and I'm just a tad bit overweight. I'm very affectionate. Also, I've never been in a real relationship before... Just over the net. Oh, and a lot of people think I'm cute. I'm actually bisexual, but I'd rather have a relationship with a guy because I don't want to get teased. I do however, find some girls attractive. ^_^


I like...:

Video games
Techno music
Drawing
LEGO Bionicle

I dislike...:

People who don't listen to me
People touching my Bionicles
Dust bunnies
People picking on me
Losing



hey ive put in heaps and heaps and heaps of replys from your other forums and that within the last 25 minutes just to make sure i get your attention, hi im lucas and i live in mannum as you may know it is only 40 km or so away so if your still looking for a relationship i live over here so yea.
i enjoy
watching movies
making them
collecting knives and sords
talking to people
walking
sometimes reading
spending money
and that sort of stuff

i went to primary school over there
what one did you go to?



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12 Dec 2006, 2:35 am

I'm surprised this thread is open........still? Red, are you still looking, cause Sir Gamester of Ninjaness, is here..........to offer advice.


You seem like a decent girls and for starters, that is not actually a bad thing. you did mention you were/are bi, that is also a good thing, but just wanting to date guys.....eh. I had a bi friend, she perfered women, and knowing her, which I (fortuanatly) no longer do, she would rather have women because she nearly got raped by a guy, and while I was the only good guy in her life, it didn't make much of a difference...........ohwowohops. off track.


Anyhow. your interests, those are about as everloving broad as a small island. branch out more, like what books, movies and all that jazz.



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12 Dec 2006, 3:59 pm

Sound nice, but I hate legos and bionicles. Quite odd, since I am a guy and am 17, but oh well. Just have never liked it....I would like a girl that would carry the conversation and not make me feel bad for not doing the same.


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12 Dec 2006, 8:04 pm

Hey. uhm.....yeah. I'm single.



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12 Dec 2006, 8:10 pm

I'm a guy. ;)


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13 Dec 2006, 2:37 am

:roll:

as am I.