For guys who are having zero replies on okcupid....
07 Jun 2012, 7:26 am
bizboy1 wrote:
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. ____________And I think I'm less of a loser ______________ than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. _____________ I'm just stating the facts ____________ . And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. _____________ Two were Asian and one white _____________ . The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. __________ So f*ck you sir. __________
1 & 2) Highlighted above to make it easier for other posters to dissect the flaws in this argument. Quite a few and I can't be bothered to do it myself.
3) What does race have to do with anything here? You really elaborated on it?
4) That doesn't sound like the words of a laid back person! Stoned or high maybe, but not laid back!
07 Jun 2012, 7:30 am
JanuaryMan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. ____________And I think I'm less of a loser ______________ than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. _____________ I'm just stating the facts ____________ . And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. _____________ Two were Asian and one white _____________ . The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. __________ So f*ck you sir. __________
1 & 2) Highlighted above to make it easier for other posters to dissect the flaws in this argument. Quite a few and I can't be bothered to do it myself.
3) What does race have to do with anything here? You really elaborated on it?
4) That doesn't sound like the words of a laid back person! Stoned or high maybe, but not laid back!
Are you serious? What's your problem?
07 Jun 2012, 8:04 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
Please don't refer to people you don't know as losers, even if some girls on dating sites think that anyone who makes less than 500K a year, doesn't get drunk and do party drugs every weekend and doesn't live among the pretty boys in California is.
07 Jun 2012, 8:58 am
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
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Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
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07 Jun 2012, 9:11 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
07 Jun 2012, 9:14 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
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Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
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07 Jun 2012, 9:17 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
hmm...
07 Jun 2012, 9:19 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
07 Jun 2012, 9:22 am
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
I never said that people should date people they aren't attracted to, but is it really necessary to make sneering, dismissive comments like "Oh, did they stop using Myspace angles?".
MXH, think what you want. Like I said, I would not know what he's like.
*edit to add* Actually, to be fair to Bizboy, my comment was more in reaction to his comment and the comment after it, the "Myspace angles" one. Bizboy didn't actually say that the people whom he didn't find attractive didn't deserve to be with anyone.
It just really gets to me when people act as though not looking a certain way means that you can be mocked and dismissed as a person, and act as though people owe it to them to be attractive, without considering whether they themselves are that great of a catch.
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Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
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07 Jun 2012, 9:25 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
I never said that people should date people they aren't attracted to, but is it really necessary to make sneering, dismissive comments like "Oh, did they stop using Myspace angles?".
MXH, think what you want. Like I said, I would not know what he's like.
Is it unnecessary? A lot of ugly girls ln free dating sites use them to make themselves look 100 lbs lighter. To make matters worse, they blur the picture, add Photoshop filters and so on to cover up other flaws.
07 Jun 2012, 9:29 am
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
I never said that people should date people they aren't attracted to, but is it really necessary to make sneering, dismissive comments like "Oh, did they stop using Myspace angles?".
MXH, think what you want. Like I said, I would not know what he's like.
Is it unnecessary? A lot of ugly girls ln free dating sites use them to make themselves look 100 lbs lighter. To make matters worse, they blur the picture, add Photoshop filters and so on to cover up other flaws.
I don't use dating sites, but I'd imagine that a lot of people, male and female, lied or were deceptive in some way. There seems to be so much focus, at least on the internet, on when fat/ugly women do it. Why focus on them and not everyone else?
My point is that besides the fact that it's just nasty to make fun of people for being physically unattractive, is that, if you have something wrong with you (and Asperger's counts), then people are probably making the same dismissive, sneering comments about you. I'm not saying that's right, but why is it right for you to do it to other people?
_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
07 Jun 2012, 9:40 am
Anyway, Bizboy, I'm sorry. I read too much into your comment and I shouldn't have been nasty to you.
_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
07 Jun 2012, 9:44 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
I never said that people should date people they aren't attracted to, but is it really necessary to make sneering, dismissive comments like "Oh, did they stop using Myspace angles?".
MXH, think what you want. Like I said, I would not know what he's like.
Is it unnecessary? A lot of ugly girls ln free dating sites use them to make themselves look 100 lbs lighter. To make matters worse, they blur the picture, add Photoshop filters and so on to cover up other flaws.
I don't use dating sites, but I'd imagine that a lot of people, male and female, lied or were deceptive in some way. There seems to be so much focus, at least on the internet, on when fat/ugly women do it. Why focus on them and not everyone else?
Because she's deceiving the other part. Imagine of someone advertised a mint condition 1988 BMW M3, with 20" alloy wheels, a mileage of just 50,000 miles and an all leather interior for just 5,000 dollars on eBay. You reschedule your day, drive for an hour, pay for gas, toll booths and all that and when you get there, it's not an M3, but a 316 with a rusty frame, sawdust in the transmission, no alloy wheels, 220,000 miles on the odometer, lots of mold in the interior, and defective brakes, but the buyer still wants 5K for it. Wouldn't you feel angry?
Last edited by Kurgan on 07 Jun 2012, 9:48 am, edited 1 time in total.
07 Jun 2012, 9:48 am
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
bizboy1 wrote:
I've gotten two messages since I created my account. Both of them were from fat, ugly chicks.
They've stopped using MySpace angles?
*wondering if the attractive women whom he messaged are laughing about getting messages from an awkward loser...*
You must be confusing yourself with me. My mild Asperger's makes me act laid back (some say stoned) so I'm less awkward than you think. And I think I'm less of a loser than most men on dating sites. I have my issues but they really aren't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. I'm assuming you were offended by my comment. I'm sorry if that's the case. I'm just stating the facts. And with regards to messaging attractive women and them laughing at me, I only messaged three people. Two were Asian and one white. The Asian women were above average looking and had a high match rating and similar interests with me. I've had hotter Asian women interested in me before. The white woman I messaged was hot and had similar interests as me. I only messaged her after she looked at my profile like 10 times. She hasn't responded yet but I disabled my account right after and only just reactivated it. So f*ck you sir.
I did not once say that you were an awkward loser.
Tbh, your previous post almost clearly referred to him as an awkward loser.
No, I was implying that that is what neurotypicals may think of him, as you know, Asperger's, social disability...
I wouldn't know whether he is, I've never spoken to him.
For the record, I don't think being awkward makes you a loser, just as I don't think that being unattractive makes a person undateworthy (and able to be dismissed as somehow less of a person).
Dating someone you're not attracted to takes the point out of dating. You can't convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when your instincts say 'no'. If you find extremely tanned girls with platina blond hair and lots of make-up attractive (hint: 99% of guys over 14 don't), you can convince yourself that what reality shows portray as attractive is not necessarily so, but that's about it.
I never said that people should date people they aren't attracted to, but is it really necessary to make sneering, dismissive comments like "Oh, did they stop using Myspace angles?".
MXH, think what you want. Like I said, I would not know what he's like.
Is it unnecessary? A lot of ugly girls ln free dating sites use them to make themselves look 100 lbs lighter. To make matters worse, they blur the picture, add Photoshop filters and so on to cover up other flaws.
I don't use dating sites, but I'd imagine that a lot of people, male and female, lied or were deceptive in some way. There seems to be so much focus, at least on the internet, on when fat/ugly women do it. Why focus on them and not everyone else?
Because she's deceiving the other part. Imagine of someone advertised a mint condition 1988 BMW M3, with 20" alloy wheels and an all leather interior for just 5,000 dollars on eBay. You reschedule your day, drive for an hour, pay for gas, toll booths and all that and when you get there, it's not an M3, but a 316 with a rusty frame, sawdust in the transmission, no alloy wheels, lots of mold in the interior, and defective brakes, but the buyer still wants 5K for it. Wouldn't you feel angry?
But those things affect the performance of the car. Lying about your attractiveness is more like lying about the colour of the paint.
You didn't answer my question about focussing on them and not everyone else who lies.
Maybe the ones who doctor their photos are hoping that guys will get to like them as people enough that their physical unattractiveness will be less of an issue?
_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I
