What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want?

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Sextaesada
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02 Sep 2012, 11:52 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

Then there's video games. I want my guy and I to play games together.


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lol, that would be amazing!


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02 Sep 2012, 12:01 pm

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I don't date non-feminist men
I don't date men who don't like to read
I don't date conservative men (esp. libertarian)
I don't date men who aren't invested in their continuing education
I don't date men who can't cook/wash-up/dress/take care of themselves
I don't date men who are dismissive of emotion
I don't date men who smoke (anything)
I don't date men who don't drink or who drink too much
I don't date pretentious or arrogant men
I don't date men I'm not physically attracted to
I don't date men who are not nice and kind
I don't date men who refer to human women as feeemales
I don't date, the kind of guy who derails any topics where women are talking about their preferences to either whine or mansplain whatever bio-truthy nonsense they're currently smoking, yuck


tldr: I don't date as*holes
my likes and dislikes have served me fairly well so far,


Ahh that reminds me of a list I just made now in other thread: http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts154399-start165.html



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02 Sep 2012, 12:03 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
I don't date non-feminist men
I don't date men who don't like to read
I don't date conservative men (esp. libertarian)
I don't date men who aren't invested in their continuing education
I don't date men who can't cook/wash-up/dress/take care of themselves
I don't date men who are dismissive of emotion
I don't date men who smoke (anything)
I don't date men who don't drink or who drink too much
I don't date pretentious or arrogant men
I don't date men I'm not physically attracted to
I don't date men who are not nice and kind
I don't date men who refer to human women as feeemales
I don't date, the kind of guy who derails any topics where women are talking about their preferences to either whine or mansplain whatever bio-truthy nonsense they're currently smoking, yuck


tldr: I don't date as*holes
my likes and dislikes have served me fairly well so far,


Ahh that reminds me of a list I just made now in other thread: http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts154399-start165.html


could you be any more desperate for my attention


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02 Sep 2012, 12:05 pm

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
I don't date non-feminist men
I don't date men who don't like to read
I don't date conservative men (esp. libertarian)
I don't date men who aren't invested in their continuing education
I don't date men who can't cook/wash-up/dress/take care of themselves
I don't date men who are dismissive of emotion
I don't date men who smoke (anything)
I don't date men who don't drink or who drink too much
I don't date pretentious or arrogant men
I don't date men I'm not physically attracted to
I don't date men who are not nice and kind
I don't date men who refer to human women as feeemales
I don't date, the kind of guy who derails any topics where women are talking about their preferences to either whine or mansplain whatever bio-truthy nonsense they're currently smoking, yuck


tldr: I don't date as*holes
my likes and dislikes have served me fairly well so far,


Ahh that reminds me of a list I just made now in other thread: http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts154399-start165.html


could you be any more desperate for my attention


Oh look who's talking.



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02 Sep 2012, 12:05 pm

I'll take this thread as what I don't want out of a partner.
-I don't date people who want to just use me for money.
-I don't date people who want to constantly argue for the sake of it.
-I don't date people who aren't willing to be completely honest with me.
-I don't date people who try to control me.
-I don't date people who are not egalitarian.
-I don't date someone who is not sexual.
-I don't date someone that thinks I need to be masculine, or act a certain way just because I'm male
-I don't date someone that judges me for being a Psychonaut.
- I don't date someone who is unstable, or emotional constantly.
- I don't date passive aggressive people


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02 Sep 2012, 2:18 pm

Guys who are on the computer all day because they dont have a life?



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02 Sep 2012, 2:40 pm

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Guys who are on the computer all day because they dont have a life?

I don't want a social life though. :lol:


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02 Sep 2012, 2:44 pm

Isolated men not wanting a social life?



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02 Sep 2012, 5:15 pm

curlyfry wrote:
an ***hole


This sums it up nicely. :D



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02 Sep 2012, 9:19 pm

I feel so sad for so many hurt people I dont even know where to start

People are harming themselves and harming others too much on this site.....



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02 Sep 2012, 9:24 pm

Hey...Aspies aren't that different than regular chicks....think I'm on to something here....



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02 Sep 2012, 11:08 pm

I've changed my list:

Micropenis
Sweaty balls
Snoring
Skidmarks on underwear
Guys who are on the computer all day because they dont have a life
Isolated men not wanting a social life
Harming themselves and harming others too much on this site.

There, that's better :)

No, wait, I'm flexible on a couple of those too.



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02 Sep 2012, 11:08 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
Interesting. According to the lists posted here, I am actually a pretty decent guy for dating. I wonder what is my real problem. Lack of confidence? Uncanny valley? Lack of interest (at least until it is already too late)? All of the above (even though I did not structure this message as list, which means there is no "above")? I am convinced it is actually an ancient mayan curse. :P

If I were 15 years younger and you asked me out, I'd probably assume that you were talking to a 'hot' girl behind me rather than to me. It could be some sort of body language issue, but I doubt it's lack of confidence unless it's to the degree that girls assume that you just aren't into them.


to the purpose of this thread:
anti-feminist, incurious and unreflective; homophobic, racist, or otherwise bigoted;
someone who puts other people down to bolster his own ego;
someone who doesn't like, or is cruel to animals;
someone who thinks that I have to be weak in order for him to be strong.



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03 Sep 2012, 5:21 am

I think I'm in love :heart:



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03 Sep 2012, 6:40 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
Guys who are on the computer all day because they dont have a life
Isolated men not wanting a social life

a social life is only needed for those who have low serotonin levels and are too weak to stand on their own feet with out the comfort of another human.
I'd rather pursue nirvana , than exist within a pointless rat race.


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03 Sep 2012, 7:03 am

I dont want to date a guy who's:
*Selfish/Inconsiderate
*Doesn't return phone calls/texts within a reasonable time frame (a day)
*Makes lame excuses when he doesn't return phone calls within a reasonable time frame
*Doesn't do/say spontaneously nice things just because he cares
*Doesn't help around the house
*Is dismissive of emotions
*Is overweight
*Smells
*Doesn't have hopes or dreams or aspirations to do better things
*Tells lies/is secretive
*Is as short as or shorter than me
*Doesn't listen