Magnus_Rex wrote:
Interesting. According to the lists posted here, I am actually a pretty decent guy for dating. I wonder what is my real problem. Lack of confidence? Uncanny valley? Lack of interest (at least until it is already too late)? All of the above (even though I did not structure this message as list, which means there is no "above")? I am convinced it is actually an ancient mayan curse.
If I were 15 years younger and you asked me out, I'd probably assume that you were talking to a 'hot' girl behind me rather than to me. It could be some sort of body language issue, but I doubt it's lack of confidence unless it's to the degree that girls assume that you just aren't into them.
to the purpose of this thread:
anti-feminist, incurious and unreflective; homophobic, racist, or otherwise bigoted;
someone who puts other people down to bolster his own ego;
someone who doesn't like, or is cruel to animals;
someone who thinks that I have to be weak in order for him to be strong.