waitykatie wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
Just having fun right back... and I've been single for almost 3 years now... no offers from anyone I found remotely attractive! Besides, I want more than just a roll in the hay... I'm not some horny 20-year-old anymore.
After so many years of marriage and her "not this month, dear, I have a headache" routine... I can only hope all the plumbing still functions according to spec! Maybe if someone "bangs on it hard enough?"
Yikes!
A shame your assets are going to waste, but . . . it's much the same for me (I mean, except for the, ah, equipment, of course). I think random sex is icky. It would make me feel a lot worse than none at all. On one hand, I wouldn't blame you for showing off your, ahem, "Centaur heritage" to the whole world. But then, the kind of woman you want will be turned on by your selectivity.
I agree with the both of you. My first marriage was once a month sex...which sucked obviously because it required maximum concentration to last as decent amount of time.
BlueMax, I hadn;t had sex for 4 years before I met my current fiancee a couple weeks after my 40th birthday. I ended up having "trouble" with the equipment at first and actually went, got checked out, and got some Cialis (which is awesome by the way) It came in handy to get back in the groove of things and now I don't even need it anymore.
waitykatie I agree with you too that random sex was never a turn on for me. I need to be comfortable to havve sex with someone, and of course if a man get TOO nervous, things shut down and embarassment ensues
My fiancee has had....a few more partners than me, and it's taken me awhile to be able to understand and wrap my head around it. But hey, I love her, so what are you gonna do.
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