Ever had a girl who has a crush on you?

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jlsvc92
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27 May 2013, 8:35 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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There was a girl some years ago some friends said was into me but actually I wasn't sure at all.

She was very friendly but I didn't find her attractive intelectually or physically. Now she's a lesbian, which is very weird because I'm very manly.


I knew lesbians who dated men before - I think a lot of them are bisexual by default and then they lean toward a certain gender.


That's true, but I'd still find it more logic if I was effeminate but there's nothing effeminate in me, mind or body.

Anyway I'm convinced the girl had weird sexual tastes, on her facebook she has lots of drawings made by her of manga naked men with nothing on their pubis.



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27 May 2013, 9:23 am

Hmm I have a crush on a autistic guy... It's very frustrating from the NT point of view.



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27 May 2013, 10:17 am

Too many to name when I was in high school, I would rather not talk about any of them unless someone here just asks me to, it's too painful to bring all that back up, all of the opportunities I missed because I didn't see them or was just a complete idiot and blew them all. :(


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27 May 2013, 10:28 am

I've only had one girl flat out tell me she had a crush on me so far. However, I suspect two other girls have had crushes on me but I'm not for sure if they did or not. Unfortunately, only one of the three is attractive and the most attractive one is also the most confusing one and my relationship to her is sort of strange.



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27 May 2013, 10:38 am

Only one girl has told me they've had a crush on me, and I figured it out when she made the moves on me, she ended up being my first proper relationship. Apparently one of my sister's friends was interested in me a few years ago when I was about 15 and kept trying to talk to me, I was completely oblivious and wasn't interested in dating anyone so I kept politely fending her off without realizing that she had a crush on me.


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27 May 2013, 11:48 am

yes, I have.



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27 May 2013, 5:35 pm

There have mostly only been rumors.

There was a girl in 9th grade who supposedly told my friend at the time that she liked me, but I just couldn't see it. She was pretty cute, but never gave off a vibe like she liked me.

There was a girl in 11th grade where basically the same thing happened but we "went out" for like 2 days. I don't count her as a girlfriend either.

And finally, the girl last year who claimed she liked me and then stabbed me in the back.

So yeah.


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27 May 2013, 5:51 pm

There was a girl who lived a few doors down from my house a couple of years ago who was very indiscreet about finding me attractive. She would come by while walking her dog and hug me with a painful amount of force--It felt like she was going to snap my wind pipe on occasion. She seemed a bit mentally "slow" too, though I'm not sure what condition she may have had. Dating her was out of the question anyway, as she was several years younger than me.

There was also a girl in college who I found out had liked me, though I didn't really allow myself to believe it until her interest had waned. I had suspected her interest, but for various (probably dumb) reasons I never pursued it. I'm still kind of kicking myself for not taking that opportunity, because since then no one else had showed the level of interest that she had.



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27 May 2013, 9:27 pm

That I know of no.


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27 May 2013, 10:00 pm

Yes i have.I was told by this girl i knew in primary school who had a crush on me who told me that she liked me and said " i did'nt want to talk to you back in primary school because my friends told me not to talk to you because you looked depressed all the time".I was also socially akward during that time in primary school and still am when it comes to relationships.


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27 May 2013, 10:55 pm

Yes, which was kind of annoying since she was extremely stupid, tried to follow me everywhere, and I'm pretty sure she knew I'm straight. There's also a guy who hangs out at the games and comics store I work at who's liked me since March, and does stuff like randomly send a request to set his Facebook status as being engaged to me. >_>