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20 Nov 2012, 2:55 pm

hee hee! Definitely chuckle-worthy! :D



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20 Nov 2012, 8:37 pm

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What I was mentioning in my above post that you quoted was my dismay of en being considered cheap or poor if they dont want to buy an entitled stranger coffee.


Except your approach made YOU seem like the entitled stranger demanding a free coffee - then getting weird when you didn't get it.

This felt like one step away from begging for coffee money from strangers...


...now go price-match that laptop before the offer expires. ;)

No I talk to her the week before.



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20 Nov 2012, 8:43 pm

It no big deal, folks. I also kinda of have a southern accent. So Imagine what I said with a southern accent.
oh, the whole lawyer thing. Oh, I say that to alot of people. At work I tell my co-worker,My lawyer wants to talk to you.
Gee wiz, one lady didn't want to buy me coffee, oh well. Got better things to do.



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20 Nov 2012, 8:50 pm

why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).



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20 Nov 2012, 8:57 pm

I would love to see a video of how this exchange went down. No doubt this was hilarious and awkward.



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20 Nov 2012, 9:01 pm

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I would love to see a video of how this exchange went down. No doubt this was hilarious and awkward.


well, imagine it with a southern type accent.



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20 Nov 2012, 9:02 pm

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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).


well,why not.



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20 Nov 2012, 9:03 pm

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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).
im sure you do like free coffee


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20 Nov 2012, 9:11 pm

Not for coffee. I mean, it's just a turn off if they guy isn't willing to pay if he is the one desiring to go out. The men in my area are all traditional that way. Most of my girl friends think the same way.



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20 Nov 2012, 9:12 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).
im sure you do like free coffee

Are you tellin gme that it actually works that a girl would buy a man coffee! I just don't see how that could be successful, maybe for a feminist girl.



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20 Nov 2012, 9:13 pm

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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).


well,why not.

You are the one who wants a date, so you should offer to pay. You are the one that brought it up to the woman. Why can't you buy your own anyway?



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20 Nov 2012, 9:41 pm

Evy7 wrote:
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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).
im sure you do like free coffee

Are you tellin gme that it actually works that a girl would buy a man coffee! I just don't see how that could be successful, maybe for a feminist girl.
no i think you guys should split it


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20 Nov 2012, 9:41 pm

Evy7 wrote:
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why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).


well,why not.

You are the one who wants a date, so you should offer to pay. You are the one that brought it up to the woman. Why can't you buy your own anyway?
why cant she buy her own?


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20 Nov 2012, 10:11 pm

Well, I see no problem if he said to split it. But he completely went the other way around and wanted her to buy it for him. I personally wouldn't like a guy who isn't traditional is all...and I haven't met a girl who likes that. But I guess there is. It's that way in my area, I thought it was like that everywhere, guess I'm wrong. But I think he would have better chances if he bought it, because he's the one that wants the date.



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20 Nov 2012, 10:13 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
Evy7 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Evy7 wrote:
why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).


well,why not.

You are the one who wants a date, so you should offer to pay. You are the one that brought it up to the woman. Why can't you buy your own anyway?
why cant she buy her own?

As a reply to this. I already stated why he should pay. HE is the one that wants the date, so he should pay. His chances of pleasing the opposotie sex are more likely if he pays.



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20 Nov 2012, 10:19 pm

Evy7 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
Evy7 wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Evy7 wrote:
why would you want a woman to buy you cofffee? It should be the otyher way around. Women like gentlemen who treat them, at least I do.(And I'm not saying all women are out to take all your money, I just mean it in the traditional dating sense).


well,why not.

You are the one who wants a date, so you should offer to pay. You are the one that brought it up to the woman. Why can't you buy your own anyway?
why cant she buy her own?

As a reply to this. I already stated why he should pay. HE is the one that wants the date, so he should pay. His chances of pleasing the opposotie sex are more likely if he pays.
he wants a relationship not a pity date. the whole logic behind he who asks out should pay''is bullcrap because the guy always asks. Notice I said he. Im sure she would enjoy the date more with free coffee.
I think bil should ask to go to parks or something..i getting angry thinking about the dating game now..although ijust asked a girl for coffee(and im paying) but only because of how screwed up society is...and i wants me some booteh. I respect girls who pay


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