How to take photos for OKCupid & Dating Sites

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Wolfheart
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05 Jan 2013, 2:54 am

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Jeez, why's everyone care so much. If you don't like Wolfheart's advice, make a snarky comment about it or something and move on with your life. There's no reason to make it some personal vendetta about Wolfheart attacking random unrelated aspects of his life. If you wanna be like "Hey Wolfheart ________ you're doing is unwise" then send him a PM. But this here seems quite less genuine concern and more just haterade, so to speak.

Besides, with his advice, as with any advice you can "take what is useful and discard what is not." And it certainly seems much is useful, based upon evidence. Also, I don't see the big deal here, all he's telling you here is not to take dark brooding depressing pictures and take a picture outside doing something. Hardly anything PUA "Alpha" whatever, it pretty much falls under common sense.


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05 Jan 2013, 2:55 am

1000Knives wrote:
Jeez, why's everyone care so much. If you don't like Wolfheart's advice, make a snarky comment about it or something and move on with your life. There's no reason to make it some personal vendetta about Wolfheart attacking random unrelated aspects of his life. If you wanna be like "Hey Wolfheart ________ you're doing is unwise" then send him a PM. But this here seems quite less genuine concern and more just haterade, so to speak.

Besides, with his advice, as with any advice you can "take what is useful and discard what is not." And it certainly seems much is useful, based upon evidence. Also, I don't see the big deal here, all he's telling you here is not to take dark brooding depressing pictures and take a picture outside doing something. Hardly anything PUA "Alpha" whatever, it pretty much falls under common sense.


The problem I think some are taking issue with is that Wolfheart is appointing himself as an example to live up to when in reality his pictures (and the rest of him) aren't all that.



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05 Jan 2013, 3:15 am

1000Knives wrote:
Jeez, why's everyone care so much. If you don't like Wolfheart's advice, make a snarky comment about it or something and move on with your life. There's no reason to make it some personal vendetta about Wolfheart attacking random unrelated aspects of his life. If you wanna be like "Hey Wolfheart ________ you're doing is unwise" then send him a PM. But this here seems quite less genuine concern and more just haterade, so to speak.

Besides, with his advice, as with any advice you can "take what is useful and discard what is not." And it certainly seems much is useful, based upon evidence. Also, I don't see the big deal here, all he's telling you here is not to take dark brooding depressing pictures and take a picture outside doing something. Hardly anything PUA "Alpha" whatever, it pretty much falls under common sense.


I don't know about MXH and some of the others, but I don't take issue with him giving out advices. This is more about something subtle that you obviously haven't noticed about Wolfheart's threads, but that I and others have independently noticed.



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05 Jan 2013, 3:40 am

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05 Jan 2013, 5:20 am

blue_bean wrote:
1000Knives wrote:
Jeez, why's everyone care so much. If you don't like Wolfheart's advice, make a snarky comment about it or something and move on with your life. There's no reason to make it some personal vendetta about Wolfheart attacking random unrelated aspects of his life. If you wanna be like "Hey Wolfheart ________ you're doing is unwise" then send him a PM. But this here seems quite less genuine concern and more just haterade, so to speak.

Besides, with his advice, as with any advice you can "take what is useful and discard what is not." And it certainly seems much is useful, based upon evidence. Also, I don't see the big deal here, all he's telling you here is not to take dark brooding depressing pictures and take a picture outside doing something. Hardly anything PUA "Alpha" whatever, it pretty much falls under common sense.


The problem I think some are taking issue with is that Wolfheart is appointing himself as an example to live up to when in reality his pictures (and the rest of him) aren't all that.


I'm not appointing myself as anything, If my photos get a lot of attention on sites like Instagram, good for them. I said it once and I'll say it again I'm not speaking as someone from the position of say Russell Brand, I'm speaking as someone that has AS and has overcome certain social difficulties. My one goal was to grow and develop, I'm happy with what I have accomplished this year, my awareness and my knowledge. If you don't like my advice, you can always take someone's advice like MXH and MR20 that tells you that you are predestined to a life alone, that you shouldn't make an effort because there are people far ahead, that you shouldn't try to overcome and persist.

Some guys have applied my advice and it has worked well for them and it worked well for me, nobody had a problem with my advice until it started working. You're right, blue_bean, you know I don't look like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp and that's what is even better, I don't need to look like them for success, I'm just a bloke who has been faced with challenges to overcome and has sought and persisted through every hard workout, through every social obstacle and I have overcome. I had to socially learn, adapt and grow as a person.



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05 Jan 2013, 5:28 am

I'm certainly not the poster boy for Love & Dating on WP, i'm just a bloke who changed his circumstances through choice, hard work and persistance and if I can do it, anyone can do, MR20 can do it!



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05 Jan 2013, 6:34 am

warning sent by PM to Wolfheart, cautioning him to keep all threads and posts honest and above-board....


also, to the members who are dogpiling Wolfheart, that isn't right either... it's bullying. you need to stop that right now.

so everyone involved is going to stop with this nonsense so Love & Dating will be that much less of a bog, amirite?


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