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You're right. He should talk to her and nail her instead. Commitment's for p****s!

I didn't mean to come across as someone from bodybuilding misc or PUA forums, I was just having a moment but to be honest, realistically, I still don't know if everyone is meant for marriage but I would like to think we are capable of commitment. I have some distorted views that I am trying to sort out.

You know I certainly don't promote PUA material by any means and I don't have anything to do with the PUA community. My passions are weightlifting and art, we could have weightlifting and sports programs in schools for kids with learning difficulties, we could inspire thousands, the chance to inspire people and you know it wouldn't be through any negative means like teaching people pick up skills or to use woman, it wouldn't be for self gain.

We would be building confidence, teaching people perseverance, determination and devotion, many things that can be learned from weightlifting but we aren't going to that without a platform. I believe that weightlifting and art can help people to truly express themselves and give that platform.

Agreed, commitment and marriage is not for everyone. Other items are up for debate in another topic definitely.

OP, whatever the situation is with staring girl, either come clean and say you like her straight off, or wait til you feel it's more appropriate. Beyond that don't do anything to meddle with the relationship she has with another guy. She will make her own mind up.

Her staring could be everything or nothing as others pointed out, though. So maybe don't build too much hopes on this or think about it too much if you can help it. Might be a case of the "Aspie stare" or staring into nothingness!

She might think you're very pretty to look at
Instead of the board.


And no, No, women don't need to jump from man to man.
It doesn't work that way - even if it does sometimes.
But no more than for men.
Even less, I would say (from my experience and from what I know of life.)

Ooooh! There were plenty of pages.
I only read the first one.

Maybe she hasn't learned yet to try and not zone out while thinking in the direction of people

even i wouldnt like to have a relationship while she is with her boyfriend but i would like to at least know why is she staring at least by my opinion.Unfortunately for me since we live in an unhonest world i am not that type of guy

But you are someone from the misc, I've posted your profile from there. And by all your previous support of pua including plagiarizing articles I'm sure you have pus forum profiles. You yourself once said that you weren't looking for commitment because you couldn't see someone sticking through with you. So you started all sorts of pus things to evade that thought pattern. All you do is evade. In your life, in your thoughts and in your conversations. How many good points and questions do you constantly evade? Hell sometimes you delete parts of messages you want to evade, you've done this to me in many threads let alone to others. And now this being the third time you promos change yet you still evade doing anything about it.

Hell you even just evaded by use of lies that you yourself are a cheater.

From the sociopath handbook

Rule #1: Self-gain above all, no matter who is harmed in the process.

Rule #2: Protect yourself at all costs, no matter who is harmed in the process.

Rule #3: Say or do ANYTHING in order to get what you want, get out of trouble, deflect blame, confuse people, etc.

Rule #4: Never, EVER admit to making a mistake - deflect, blame others, make excuses or confuse them instead.

Rule #5: Harming people can be fun and profitable! They exist only for you to take from them and give to yourself.




(Note to over-literal Aspies - not to be taken seriously! Don't follow these rules unless you want to be a really, really horrible person.)

You're a real prince.

No, I just have a more positive mindset and I am willing to see people for the good they can do and not their mistakes. Arnold Schwarzenegger is one of my idols, if I judge him for one mistake he made by cheating on his wife several times instead of the good he has done for California, the sport of bodybuilding and young people? People are able to look beyond mistakes and admit they aren't perfect but you don't seem to be able to do that.

Does that make him exempt from what he did? Of course not but it shows that none of us our perfect, no matter how strong we think we are.

You need to lighten up and relax, what was done is in the past tense and as far as I am concerned. Although there were a few setbacks and obstacles, things are going ahead in a positive manner.

It isn't about glory, it's about selflessly showing people what can be overcome through perseverance and that's a war we fight everyday.

Last edited by Wolfheart on 16 Apr 2013, 1:17 am, edited 1 time in total.

It's true, he should have avoided this matter to begin with unless she doesn't truly love her boyfriend in which case, he should fight for her.

Did you really just respond to my message by evading the whole point I made about evasion and then justifying something you didn't even mention?

It is interesting that you say things being done for self-gain are somehow negative and the fact that you think that makes you superior to others is even more absurd? Many people do things for self gain, many people are willing to help themselves and people have the right to be happy, sure you can help people long along the way but it is about putting your family and yourself first.

I'm certainly not the one playing the victim, I am aware that human nature is fallible and I admit not everything I have done is perfect but the show must go on. Also if you are so concerned about justice and the welfare of others, why aren't you out protesting against real war criminals, helping criminals to rehabilitate or even out in foreign countries doing missionary instead of going on to someone that doesn't even have a criminal record, someone that is aiming to be a respectful businessman, make an honest living and a goal to help and empower others through sports and art.

I'll tell you if I was so concerned, I would be out in foreign countries or in prisons giving talks to people who really need it if I were you.

How have I evaded anything? I'm not a perfect person, I have admitted that but that doesn't the good that can be done and the change that can happen. If someone has committed a wrongdoing not a crime, should they be exempt of all the good they have done? Of course not unless you are insisting that we live in some type of extremist Islam where people are executed for such things and I think that's what you are getting at with all these messages. I believe in change, rehabilitation , love and forgiveness and you seem to believe in defining people by their mistakes.

In my heart my intentions are good and the plan is positively going ahead with my goals, to inspire others whilst making a production living doing something I love, I have learned to be more tactful and honest with myself and those I am involved with but I still wear my heart on my sleeve.

If you knew that not everyone was capable of being monogamous, would you still force monogamy on them even though you know it would lead to divorces and cheating? If you knew that not everyone is capable of being straight, would you still force them to marry a woman? It is about looking at both scenarios and making a decision or reaching a compromise based on various factors instead of jumping in with this sense of self righteousness, all that does is mask the problem by pushing it underground instead of finding a conclusion.

I can't explain why some people are gay but it happens just in the same way that I can't explain why some people are bipolar, I can't explain why some people are addicts, not everything is in black and white & not everyone has gone according to God's plan, people don't wake up one day and decide to be a certain way, nobody is perfect and people are different. It is about looking at the big picture and every factor instead of judging others. I think it's about coming from a place of love rather than a place of judgement.