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I suppose it is safe to assume that you crap in a toilet as opposed to the floor, correct? That is at least one action you do that society approves of

That's good to hear. It would have been shocking, disgusting, and funny if you had said you didn't do that either.

appletheclown, quite a lot to reply to, but who you are is all relative, imo. "Who you are" is subjective. Even doing things as simple as losing weight can drastically affect "who you are." Just look at any weight loss transformation picture. For me, even losing 40-50lbs, when I got my license picture retaken after 3 years, the computer's facial recognition software didn't even recognize me as the same person. I was in essence, no longer the same person. Even though I am still me. So anyway, my philosophical rant is, "who you are" is irrelevant, as it's not static, it's changeable by circumstances and your decisions. Should I hate the girls who hated me while I was fat and ugly and unkempt, even if those same girls think I'm hot now? I think I might make a separate post about this topic, actually.

Also, I was not talking about you (not everything said on this site is personally directed towards you,) I was just saying in general, that was my experience with working out. Yes working out is awesome, no, it's not a panacea for your social problems.

As far as the used car salesman thing, again, not in reference to you (however most girls probably don't want hobos with shotguns for boyfriends or husbands.) What I mean is, just working out alone, improving your looks, etc, will basically only help you that far if nothing else is improved along with it. You can only have superficial short term interactions with girls that way, because longterm, they figure out you're "broken" because you have Aspergers, and most don't want to stay around. With superficial short term interactions, I mean, I guess it seems pretty simple. You pretty much just go "Hey, you're hot, wanna screw?" and I think it's about that easy if you're super hot. You do what is called "hooking up." In this sense, you're basically just a used car salesman selling your cock for casual sex. And no, I've never went to clubs, never really drank, never done drugs, I'm just saying from what I know and what I've been offered.

Anyway, back to dragging down the OP...

One thing, you do see a surprising proportion of the people on this site with relationships. So maybe there's hope. Or maybe not. Even then, once you get into a relationship, it can be a shitstorm anyway, as you probably know from a bunch of various people in your life. So maybe everything just sucks, since we're being pessimistic here. Is it better to be a 40 Year Old Virgin, or 40 year old divorced man with two kids he sees on the weekend, with a good portion of his money going to child support and having occasional conversations with his ex-wife, and going to bars alone looking for other random divorced/cheating women your age?

1000Knives, I think appletheclown left the site a while back. Apparently, I have earned myself an internet stalker, which is weird, most of the time, guys avoid me

Working out and becoming fit is so much more than just having a six pack or looking good
Its much more about feeling good and improving the function of your internal organs, your detoxification pathways, improved blood flow to the gonads....

Guys, guys, guys. What did I say that didn't make sense? And psychosarah, if its too much I'll stop hitting on you, did not want to creep you out at all, sorry. But getting back to the point, my outlook is a lot less hopeless, I'm not going after casual sex, and there is no such thing as settling for someone in my book. Sex is not going to be that kind of sex for me, and if I have to look for a serious relationship into my 40's I will, ladies in their 40's are still quite attractive, and the game of used car salesman script is not my game. I am the custom ordered drift racing dealer, that also sells tanks. If I was to have such a bleak outlook on life, and such a low value on exercising and other things, my life would not be nearly as happy or even would I want to do these things at all. Please, exercising doesn't get you just sex, it allows you to obtain more blue collar work, money, when paired with boxing or self defense classes you are better apt to protect yourself, yourself esteem will go up, in some cases alleviate depression caused by staying inside way too long, giving you a healthy body, exercising your heart and lungs, putting a few more years on your life and in general making your life more healthy, that is what exercising can do.

I don't do the used car salesmen thing, and I already said, I can go after women when I need to, like I haven't already. I have the ability, and I was in my first post, helping the op out anyways, not trying to argue with anyone.

If you believe you are a broken man, you are a broken man. Believing you can do with what you have the things that NT's do, that is what I think I can do. They will think I am a 'broken man'? Wolfheart, seriously you believe that load of rubbish? Being an aspie just means you will have a harder time with withe these things, it doesn't mean there are not women out there who don't think of you as a normal person. I am in no way broken, and will not waste my time with women who consider asd and autistic people as such, unless they are willing to learn. I am not broken, my no means at all. Aspeger's break me? No I will break it.