how many here, will never get married

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I can't see myself ever becoming married.

I will never get married. First, I would need to sustain a relationship to get to the marriage stage. Then I would need to do the couples married thing everyday. It would take a really understanding person to deal with me. I have also found it more difficult to get to the married stage as I get older because I'm less willing to change and the other person is more demanding because they know who they are and what they want.

Women prefer a man who is taken or is popular with other women. It's a form of social proof. Women are herd animals that crave what other women possess. A girl is turned on by a guy desired by other women. It demonstrates that he has good genes. When it comes to mating humans are animals like any other. There was an experiment on birds where they placed a female decoy alongside a male. His mating opportunities sky rocketed afterwards.

Men are on the other hand are NOT attracted to an unavailable woman. Men are also NOT attracted to a woman's money/status or social popularity with other men.

Because I'm a loner and not desired or popular with women, other women look down on me. Thus is why its impossible for me to get married to a girl that isn't obese/ugly.

Probably me here, reason why? Its simple Im an aspie most NT women cant stand me being hyper repetetive and acting 10 years younger than I am. I hunch when I walk and dont maintain eye contact. In over 95% of the populous that is viewed as un desireable.

Will I marry in the future?
I don't even know if i ll be alive tomorrow...

Do I want to get married?
Well, i don't want a religious marriage, so i would only marry if this gave us tax reductions!! !!

Now serious will i ever get married?
Probably not, but that don't bother me much...

I can't see myself being in a relationship, let alone being married. The few attempts I've had with dating has been disastrous. I will not rule out having a relationship someday, though I am not actively seeking one. I think the key to happiness in my life will be in other areas.

I have no idea, kind of depends on how things go I suppose.

I know I already said no, but I felt like adding. Its a mix of knowing my lack of success in dating and then compound it by how uncommon it is for me to find a girl I like, and a big psychological things which amounts to commitment issues but goes far beyond dating. Makes for an almost sure answer of no, I'm not getting married.

I have less of a chance of getting a first date than winning the lottery...twice...on the same day.

I don't even want to think about how low the odds are of myself getting married.

As much as I'd like to be in a relationship/get married eventually, I've been coming to grips over the last year with the fact that it's not likely to happen. Every time I bring this up with my mom, the conversation always dissolves with both of us in tears.
It's hard for me not to feel extreme jealousy when I read about women with AS getting married and having children. I wonder how their having AS is different from my having it, or if that has nothing to do with it.
So many people told me to stop working so hard to meet someone, and just continue to live my life and let the chips fall where they may etc. It's been three years since I gave up, and none of it has gotten any easier, especially the loneliness part. Yet I don't want to go back out there, because when I was actively trying to find someone the blatant rejection was too much for me to handle.
It's as if I'm in some sort of limbo where part of me wants to hold out hope, and another part wants to resign as an old maid.