dating is competive. ( rewording)

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I don't need to meet them - I know neurotypicals pretty well by now.
I've seen friends of mine, and women I know as acquaintances use this more times than I can count.

If you hit on a chick, she is likely going to find a way to get out of a situation that makes her uncomfortable. The easiest and fastest way to do that is to say "I have a boyfriend" or "I have a husband", which they know will stop most men instantly from hitting on them. They use it because it works. Probably most of the time it is true, but yes, some also do lie about it too.

The point is, they are not going to tell you "I wouldn't date you even if I didn't have a boyfriend" - *even though it might be true* because they would consider that rude, and they are trying to be polite.
The boyfriend or husband excuse - whether true or not - is usually their polite way to say "Go away, stop hitting on me, I don't like you and I wouldn't date you if I were single".

You are mistaking these women being polite and civil - for an interest in you, when most of them are likely not interested at all, and simply say it to make you stop hitting on them.
And acquaintances are not the same thing as friends, in case you are confusing the two - which in all probability is the case.

married women are relaxed because they are passed the drama of dating. If they were single again, it would probably be like dating any other woman.

in fact, I actual hit on one of my female friends, and she still talks to me. I talk to her last week,
about baseball ( osu baseball btw). She told me she was married, and she still like talking to me.
and her husband, is the same husband, she told me before. So if she lying about her husband,
then she doing very good job at.

would she have date me if she was single, I can't say, all can say is she doesn't find me, threating.
in fact, we she see me, she says hi first. Hi, ''bill'' how you doing. And she seem happy talking to me,
but of couse, she probaly just faking it, she probaly really hates me, wish I would leave her alone.
She just act nice around me, to confuse me, so I stop bothering her, Im am sure, that what people here are going to say.

all my female friend are just all fakes, they just all hate me, everyone of them, they are all liars,
they are part of single women club called hates ''bill is cool'' none of them are actual married at all.
they act nice and hang out with me, because that part of their plan, to confuse me,
Gee, thanks. Thanks for knowing more about my female friend than I know ( if you guys don't get it,
I am being sarcastic)

I find it hard to believe that any of the girls you've hit on in the way you write here would even bother looking at you again let alone be friends. That you've hit on a friend or two is different than to how much you complain about taken women.

If you know they married because they have rings ... why are you hitting on them?

[quote="MXH")
So this has been so for what feels like 45 women you've hit on? (numbers based on the amount of threads made)
I highly doubt it and if so then why do you bother going after women who is really easy to tell they are in a relationship?

Also, showing you pics of a random guy doesn't mean sh**. I've played the role of fake boyfriend many times.[/quote]

I have no idea, how many women I hit on. oh, now your just being silly, um their pictures is of the girl with her husband/boyfriend.
Yeah, every women Take a pictures of her male friend and shows it, to idiots like me, to leave them alone, even though some become my friends, and other still talk to me lol.

even on their facebook, they have fake boyfriend pictures. lol.