Casual sex and Asperger's/autism

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I've completed my demonic duty, but good luck in your endeavors....

I have nothing against casual sex per se. I've done it a few times when I was younger. The thing with me and casual sex is that sex for me is an intimate act and I become too attached to the person. I try to abstain from it when possible.

I would like to thank Geekonychus for quoting those posts from Deluge1988.
I found them to be somewhat entertaining.


In response to his now deleted remark, I seriously doubt that anybody on the planet cares whether he gets laid or not (except him).
For the sake of the world's females, I for one am delighted that he finds not getting laid to be so enjoyable.

Did anybody else get a weird and pathetic effort at a mean playground taunt from him by PM, not long ago ?

Yeah, that's it.... run into a group of autists and use "severe autism" as a sarcastic derogatory comment. I'm thinking you may be experiencing a slight lapse in common sense and decency. I can understand, though... as an autist I suffer from the same thing.
Try a bit of stimming.... you may settle down.

And then read a book.

On social skills.

Oh, and research the meaning of "forum spam." Doing this would be very useful, as you would gain knowledge on a subject and also satisfy the urge to research something, which may very well calm you down and make you more socially presentable to an autism forum. Don't make a bonafide aspie girl have to tell you that you're lacking social skills, hun. When you have ME saying that, you're doing it wrong.

Same here.


BTW, I didn't intend this to end up as a flame war. I just wanted people's opinions on the subject, as someone who has been in relationships but is somewhat frightened of the idea of casual sex.

I support the idea and it makes perfect sense, now being aspie naturally I have a low opinion of myself (and of others of cause ) I would think less of that women , what sort of women would let me violate her? Anyway I wouldn't go through with it as I don't trust anybody their would be the very real concern of unwanted babies and icky societal diseases.

Didn't get a PM. I was about 50/50 on whether he was someone's alt. His views are hardly uncommon here..........

For me casual sex is necessary as I have no luck in sustaining a long (or even) short term relationship.

I just don't get how all these aspies are so effortlessly picking up people. if they are high-functioning enough to do that, how can they have problems anywhere else in life? the social things are about as high-functioning as one can get.

When I said it's necessary I didn't mean it happens often.

gay sex it's been offered to me with out trying "thanks but no thanks"

*looks around* What the f**k?! Did I just step into The City of Nonsense? All I know is women are beautiful, and I want to marry one someday.

good luck.

Thank you, may you have a happy marraige all of your life.

i'm workin' on it.