Good news for my haters: The Boo is finally devastated.

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PS: No, this isn't a parody thread like the previous one.

I've been seeing a Muslim young woman the these 2 last weeks and half, it started slowly online then met her several times and we became more and more obsessed in no time with each other, mutual communication went non-stop, even until dawn.

There was intense mutual sexual attraction, and there was strong physical contact, we talked about extreme private stuff and she was the most understanding to my quirks and shortcomings- we've became so intimate quickly, to the point that I thought I have finally found my match.

This is all collapsed yesterday when she asked me why I am not fasting (it's the Islamic fasting month) - so I've told her I am not religious and I am agnostic, almost atheist, I usually don't disclose this info that fast but I didn't want to dodge the question, plus she isn't a devout muslim (otherwise she wouldn't be involved in sexual activity during the holy month of fasting!), she's not veiled nor she practices praying, so I thought it wouldn't be a major issue - the impact was much worse than expected; I've tried to fix the damage for hours, I've told her I have no problem with other people's faiths (and I do, I am not militant atheist) and it's not like I want to change her - it was no use : everything else she liked about me evaporated in her eyes instantly at that moment, she turned out she can't tolerate a life partner who doesn't believe in religion, she suggested to remain friends instead but who am I kidding, she also suggested to start seeking for another woman.

I could dodge the question and let her know about it gradually, something that always worked before after successive experimentation - but I was big mouthed this time in a bad timing, again, I've paid the price of my blunt honesty.

I have a question to religious people here: if you liked someone and turned out not of the same faith or lacking faith, would you neglect everything else about him/her?

That's unfortunate Boo. There are people who despite not being that religious themselves, nonetheless can't accept other people who lack belief.

That's unfortunate Boo. There are people who despite not being that religious themselves, nonetheless can't accept other people who lack belief.

I don't ever hear, see, or know of atheists looking for, or researching the good things religion has done for the world. Most of what I hear is no that can't be because, or you guys are wrong, or you guys are nutjobs, all I can say for atheists is they are smart, too logical for their own good, have done good things and bad things just as any other human has. I'm not going to insult atheists, but could you tell me what good we've done, probably not. I don't hate anyone, but that is because I believe in God.

Plenty of fish in the sea boo sorry to hear that happened.

I am too old for this plenty of fish talk.

Are you sure ?
There could be a gorgeous lady-fish out there, just waiting for you to come along and make her life complete.
Sure, she might be a bit cold, wet and slimy.... and probably has a tail.... but if you truly love her, then surely you could overlook such superficial physical traits ?