Tired of this "nice guy" and "bad boy"..

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Right. Imagine you are taken to hospital with injuries, caused by tripping over a common garden implement. You're spurting blood. The doctors treating you - should they panic? Or should they stay as calm as possible? And if they stay calm, are they human beings? Or just merely professional.

I'm not going to to explain fully. Quite frankly, if you can't cope with a picture of a garden implement, you can't cope with anything heavier.

Low blow.

I don't think you are an idiot. But, you're acting like an idiot. Big difference. Your problem, not mine.

Wow I didn't think you were that smart but yeah I guess I can be an arrogant jerk. your not the first to say that. I am sort of used to people calling me that.

At least I finally amounted to something.

otherwise I would be an untitled loser. Now I am an arrogant jerk -loser.

How? I'm not devaluing it. I'm not. It's just not what I was on about, and not what most people automatically think of when they hear the word relationships.

I said only this - you are acting like an idiot. Not all of those things. I don't know you. You don't know me. Stop it.

You are allowed to think of me what you like. This isn't about me. I am not continuing to post here, right now, for me. Really.

I'm just hoping you see what you do to yourself, so you can stop this pattern of self-loathing that has continued for the past, what, three or four days. I'm just the person you're dumping it on. And that's okay, I'm good with that, for a bit.

I couldn't care what you think of me. I don't matter. It's about you.

Last edited by octobertiger on 29 Oct 2013, 8:49 am, edited 1 time in total.

Also, for your information I obviously need a woman who can stand up to me. now that would be hot.

Someone would have to be crazy enough to spend time with me much less live with me.

Nah I usually am a pretty nice guy. I just have my moments of assholery.

= I am sorry for acting like an idiot

?

Just say it.

Look would you feel better if I "kissed and made up". Would you like that. I bet you would.

Okay, I am sorry for being a jerk. I lost it.

Seriously. I just cannot go away from this with all this anger.

But I don't know. It just does not seem right.

If I continue to be upset I guess I will lose. Because they say staying mad is just allowing the person "free rent" in your head. It is basically a resentment. Gotta let go. Otherwise if I stay mad at everyone maybe I'll just go grab a bottle of jack and drink myself silly. Then its like drinking poison and hoping something happens to the other guy. Well I am a drunk and haven't drank in 11 years.

I'm just trying to help you out here. Say your sorry and all is forgiven.

Look if someone says something to upset someone else than it does not matter if you meant it or not.

I know I acted like a total jerk and I blew things out of proportion. Just a mistake that probably half of apsies make. I guess it makes you special because you do not seem to be afflicted with the same problems as me. Many aspies do not have the same symptoms. But the "blowing things out of proportion" is pretty common.

If dealing with aspie you might as well get used to it. I have seen this type of thing happen more than once on here.

rude guys finish last

The joking gets out of hand when it starts to come across like personal attacks.

I obviously misinterpreted what you said.

I have always had this problem and it seems like its not going away anytime soon.

I have to work on it. I know. But can I help the fact that my brain is screwed up and causes me problems. It is a symptom of a disorder. I know you have to work on it but it seems like I try and I do not get better. Not sure why.

As I said there is no excuse for what I did. But I will say I was wrong and that I wish it didn't happen.

It seems your answer to everything is just to kick yourself harder. And it seems you use your intelligence against yourself, that must hurt.

There are no winners and losers here. It's not about that. Forget about me - whatever, I don't exist. If you're comment involves me and free rent - forget it, I don't work that way.

Fact - something tiny wound you up. You went silly, and now you're kicking yourself. Break the pattern. No highs, no lows - just a flat line. Like those doctors in the emergency ward.

The anger has nothing to do with me, or this non-event. It's residue from your past. It's none of my business. Carry it around with you, or drop it in a bin. Choice is yours.

Hey its not like anyone in here acts mature to begin with a lot of times. At least I see these arguments on a daily basis in here. And most people let others talk to them a certain way and they are just too passive to say anything. Well obviously you do not see someone blowing up that much. because it seems childish. But sometimes act like a child. I am not proud of it at all.

People are always trying to argue points and nothing ever gets done on here. Just a merry go round of clashing personalities.

Whenever I want a rollercoaster I go on here. it works every time.

I am just pissed because it seems someone did not like my comment. Not great idea or nothing just "keep your geekiness to yourself" What a nice comment that is.

I am not going to apologize to some little boy who feels the need to walk all over people.

I do not need this aggravation in my life.

I didn't start anything.

This post of yours - I think you could save yourself a lot of time if you printed it out, and used it to guide you. It's basically the whole core pattern you're sticking to, and what feeds your meltdowns. I think it's very honest.

That's it. No need to thank me. Bye.

I just love how people take no accountability for what they did. I did.

And me kicking myself you think its easy when you have low self esteem. I wish I could be rid of it by 'throwing it in a bin".

I have had a lifetime of bs rain down on me like napalm. It gets in soaks everything up and continues to burn. I mean that might as well be what it feels like. You don't know pain.

I just get fed up with it. If you knew what I meant you would understand.

no excuses.

I mean there is no convincing someone of a fire if they do not feel it, see it, or recognize it. You might as well be speaking gibberish to somebody.