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13 Nov 2013, 3:53 pm

date the guy, see what happens.

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13 Nov 2013, 5:01 pm

Yuzu wrote:

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Was the "international beauty pageant" thing a joke? I really don't understand what he meant by that. Does he mean to say the women are all beautiful, or that they're fake? I'm lost. Interesting dude.

No I don't think it was a joke. He just mentioned it right after the entitled vapid blonde comment. And he said "but they're all getting engineer degrees". ??? I really didn't understand what's that got to do with me.

So, was he saying that he was attracted to these women? I don't understand why he is telling you that when he's supposed to be interested in who you are. Weird people.

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13 Nov 2013, 5:06 pm

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Is it clear now?

Yes, dear ... :roll:

Great, now shake hands and kiss each other on the cheeks. Peace.

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13 Nov 2013, 5:08 pm

Yuzu wrote:

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Do you realize that you are the first female (at least in a very long time) who starts a thread about a first okcupid message?

Huh. I don't see what the big deal is...

That instead of talking it over with HIM and forming your own opinion, you picked out one isolated statement from him and talked it over with others (us) to obtain a consensus opinion.

I meant it as what the big deal is that I'm a female to do that. Are you guys saying women shouldn't do such things? I see other male posters do it. Why can't I??

I did think of messaging him back to discuss what he wrote come across as to someone like me, but since I have no interest in him I decided it would be a waste of both of our times.

See, that's jumping to defensive conclusions. That 'looks' massively insecure.
(I said "looks," I did not say you were massively insecure.)
(since you said, "you guys.." and since I've posted, that then includes me -which I find very sexist- so I am responding)

Guys are not known for their subtlety, they like loud gunz, loud truckz, explosions, shouting, fighting, doing warz, big tanks, fast jetplanes, and nukes. (generally speaking, more than women, generally speaking)

We did not make fun of Saddam Hussein's dress-wear, his hat, or things he said oddly. We went and blew him up.
If a man was trying to mean "women shouldn't do such things," most men would SAY, women shouldn't do such things.
They are exceptionally unlikely to instead say, "You're the first one that's done that for a while."

Most usually if a man wants to insult you he is exceptionally likely to use lotza loud, bold, "four-letter-words" leaving zero doubt in anyone's minds what he's trying to do.

So relax, men are easy to understand and operate, stop hunting for insults from us.

Herez some Guyz bean subtle.
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13 Nov 2013, 5:12 pm

Can he clean up after himself? Is he emotionally mature? Does he need to text you at all hours? Is he unsure but you know what he really means or wants?
Good questions to keep in mind.I got tired of cleaning up after men over the years.It's gratifying to meet and connect with another adult.It's great when adults have evolved out of the loneliness feeling.A man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to put it into motion is a keeper.

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13 Nov 2013, 7:40 pm

1401b wrote:

Wow. Just wow. Complete with a macho image with big guns and everything...
I don't even know how to respond to this. You and I will never understand each other ever.

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13 Nov 2013, 7:42 pm

Stalk wrote:

date the guy, see what happens.

I'm not a masochist.

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13 Nov 2013, 7:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Fnord wrote:

Yuzu wrote:

Is it clear now?

Yes, dear ... :roll:

Great, now shake hands and kiss each other on the cheeks. Peace.

I think we're cool.

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13 Nov 2013, 7:56 pm

Yuzu wrote:

I only get a few messages a day

but I'm out of the popular age range. And most of them just say "hi" and that's it.
The ones that indicate they've read your profile at all are very rare.

A few a day, that sounds like a lot to me. I get a message on average maybe once a week.

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14 Nov 2013, 4:44 am

yellowtamarin wrote:

Yuzu wrote:

I only get a few messages a day :( but I'm out of the popular age range. And most of them just say "hi" and that's it.
The ones that indicate they've read your profile at all are very rare.

A few a day, that sounds like a lot to me. I get a message on average maybe once a week.

Maybe that's because I just started 2 months ago. It'll probably slow down soon.
But it seems like the more you're on it the more messages you get.

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14 Nov 2013, 12:25 pm

Yuzu wrote:

Stalk wrote:

date the guy, see what happens.

I'm not a masochist.

hmmm, I'm not following... Why would you be one if you did happen to go out on one date?

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14 Nov 2013, 12:41 pm

Ugghhh... I feel for Asian women...I do. Having to suffer from the attention of jerkwads who want to date them because they think they're extra submissive. Great.

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14 Nov 2013, 1:07 pm

Stalk wrote:

Yuzu wrote:

Stalk wrote:

date the guy, see what happens.

I'm not a masochist.

hmmm, I'm not following... Why would you be one if you did happen to go out on one date?

Because I already know spending time with this guy would be a painful experience.
I'm not a masochist so I wouldn't let myself go through that.

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14 Nov 2013, 1:27 pm

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Ugghhh... I feel for Asian women...I do. Having to suffer from the attention of jerkwads who want to date them because they think they're extra submissive. Great.

It's not so much about me being Asian. It can be said of any race. If you were told that a part of attraction to you was because of your race, isn't that a real turn off? Or it's just me who think so.

However, if it's just an aesthetic preference it doesn't bother me so much.

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14 Nov 2013, 2:00 pm

so if a guy says, I like blond and blue eyes... Is that a turn off?

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14 Nov 2013, 2:05 pm

No not really.

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