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08 Dec 2013, 6:09 am

Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.



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08 Dec 2013, 7:02 am

They do, but we're just too ugly to get it on with them.



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08 Dec 2013, 7:20 am

blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


I don't think it's being single that bothers anyone, it's the lack of sex. Now, it could very well be that the ladies here are perfectly content without the sex as well.



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08 Dec 2013, 7:57 am

Shau wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


I don't think it's being single that bothers anyone, it's the lack of sex. Now, it could very well be that the ladies here are perfectly content without the sex as well.


Funny I was just thinking about this. My concern is that I don't have anyone to spend time with. I would love to have a male best friend, just someone I would enjoy spending time with. I suppose sex is important, but I connect with so few people that having a real friend would be amazing. I'm sure I could find someone to f--k if I really wanted to, but that's not enough for me.



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08 Dec 2013, 9:08 am

hurtloam wrote:
Shau wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


I don't think it's being single that bothers anyone, it's the lack of sex. Now, it could very well be that the ladies here are perfectly content without the sex as well.


Funny I was just thinking about this. My concern is that I don't have anyone to spend time with. I would love to have a male best friend, just someone I would enjoy spending time with. I suppose sex is important, but I connect with so few people that having a real friend would be amazing. I'm sure I could find someone to f--k if I really wanted to, but that's not enough for me.


Same. Sex alone doesn't do the trick for me.



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08 Dec 2013, 10:26 am

It is most definitely not about sex for me at least. I want someone to have an emotionally intimate relationship with, sex is a bonus.



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08 Dec 2013, 12:52 pm

blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


yeah,but how many of these single ladies,have a fwb,or some guy they been regulary seeing.
or have had many partner before in the past.



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08 Dec 2013, 2:20 pm

billiscool wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


yeah,but how many of these single ladies,have a fwb,or some guy they been regulary seeing.
or have had many partner before in the past.


It sounds to me like you're letting your libido define your entire perception of romantic relationships. That's not reasonable, man.



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08 Dec 2013, 2:29 pm

blue_bean wrote:
Single here.

Yes we are here, we're just hard to spot because we don't make a noisy woe is me deal about being single. I've found the single ladies here seem to be comfortable being so.


Forever?



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08 Dec 2013, 2:29 pm

TheGoggles wrote:

It sounds to me like you're letting your libido define your entire perception of romantic relationships. That's not reasonable, man.


there's a difference between a single person,who can't get attract anyone,sexual or romantic
and a ''single''person,who has a sexual or romantic ''friendship''with someone.

Im ''single''but I have a best female friend,that I hang out with,kiss,cuddle with.
so,Im not a ''true''single person,because I techinally have a ''partner''

Im a ''quasi''single,a ''pseudo''single



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08 Dec 2013, 2:43 pm

I do not have a partner but I do have a near constant indigestion. does that count?



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08 Dec 2013, 3:28 pm

I'm not single at the moment by choice (fiancee was killed in a car accident), and I certainly don't like being single under these circumstances, but I'm sure as heck not going to hop into a relationship with someone unsuitable just for the sake of not being alone.



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08 Dec 2013, 3:30 pm

Yes... I'm a single woman.



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08 Dec 2013, 5:25 pm

Eureka13 wrote:
I'm not single at the moment by choice (fiancee was killed in a car accident), and I certainly don't like being single under these circumstances, but I'm sure as heck not going to hop into a relationship with someone unsuitable just for the sake of not being alone.


8O I don't blame you in the slightest for not wanting to be in one right now.



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08 Dec 2013, 10:56 pm

I suppose I could modify my working hypothesis to "meaningful sex".



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08 Dec 2013, 11:58 pm

You could. I'd hypothesise, though, that the "meaningful" part is still more important than the "sex" part for a lot of us.