Is he a virgin??????
aspiesandra27 wrote:
But I understand how initially it might have come across as me wanting sex, .
You want him to know for sure your wet and throbbing for unbridled sex.
aspiesandra27 wrote:
And he doesn't want to invite me to his place. He just wants me to go to the local pub with him for a couple of hours. I suggested staying over, if not in his home in a hotel, and we would do it as friends. No need for sex. He said he didnt want to spend a night.
Say ok I won't spend the night and go for it.
I will take some guesses, its obvious your stuck. Its also obvious there are unspoken issues.
This being "socially stuck in the mud" I think it is common. I know its so frustrating.
I am thinking of this guy, I don't know if he is an aspie but he has major social issues, he cant get a date to save his life. He quotes all the "game" or "pick up artist" stuff that is out on the internet. He tells me how I am "doing it wrong" or "he's doing it wrong" bla bla bla. Of coarse my girlfriend is sitting next to me. I told to get his passport and come with us to the Philippines, don't worry about the money I'll pay for the flight. Of coarse he says something like you cant do that to get a girlfriend. The truth is he needs real experience with a real woman, reading some pick up guide does nothing if he will not take a risk and step out of his familiarity zone. You know to me guys like this have an endless supply of excuses and because of this they never get anywhere. If they would talk about there failures and keep trying different things they would make progress.
I am thinking this, you can plow right over any issue/hang-ups to get to sex barring he is gay.
You say you want to renegotiating your relationship with him, making it sexual. You really cannot just talk about this you have to just do it.
You can offer to clean his house/apartment.
At the pub you can get drunk and throw yourself on him, you can act drunker than you really are, its the perfect excuse to do and say all those naughty things.
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17 Jan 2014, 10:01 pm
