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They actually make special underwear for guys to wear that "intensifies" the girl rubbing on you.

It's ok, but it's more annoying because you can't do anything except sit there.

I learned something new today.

I put "Special Strip Club Pants" into Google, and it came up with this gem of a webpage -

http://jezebel.com/these-liquid-lapdance-pants-store-your-jizz-prevent-un-1138889213/1142050175

... I'm glad I don't like strip clubs. Ratchet.

For the redneck / cheap ghetto version, people could save a lot of money by just using a bit of rope to tie a rubber glove onto their cock (having slathered the glove with lard beforehand).

Oh, have you SEEN some of those Chippendales guys? Id so do it!

Dont need to imagine, that what pre-wedding parties are for. ^^ You need to add into (who is a total stranger...) "who is a total extremely hot stranger with an extremely hot chest^^"

And no it was more about funny, then uncomfortable. In the end you simply KNOW, that its just a show (At least at the pre-wedding party.), So the guy is simply a dancer, and not really trying to flirt you in an absolutely aggressive way. ^^

If a guy was actually trying to flirt with me or engage sexually with me that way, I´d feel uncomfortable, but for fun its ok. As well that as the dancer afterward showed me, its actually some pillows under his trousers that are rubbing on you. XD

As an experienced strip club player / VIP I don't understand his attitude. Its like diverting a civilian flight to Area 51. I would never insult a girlfriend like that nor even mention I am a strip clubber to a woman I was dating in a traditional relationship. I have seen guys bring their S/O into a strip club and I think unless she specifically has an interest in girls and has requested this how stupid. A lot of these women seem intimidated by the SC environment: beautiful young women, half naked, very sexually experienced, uninhibited, confident, and throwing themselves at men.

I have taken strippers as mistresses (sugar dating) over the last couple of decades. Strippers are a class of provider similar to professional escorts off sites like backpage and women off sugar dating sites looking for a man in a "mutually beneficial relationships." While a good provider can bring lots of joy to a man, I would never brag about it or discuss it with a woman in a traditional dating relationship or marriage. The current one I have been seeing for awhile, an x stripper (now paralegal) is even married.

Strip clubbing can provide a man with access to SC activities like lap dances, and sex either inside the club or outside the club with women who play (for money). This can help fill lack of experience in his dating background which may be missing because of being socially handicapped and lacking experience. I found it even boosted my confidence considerably when I was 23, considerably inexperienced with dating, and out of college struggling with the dating game plus gave me a foundation as to what I really liked and preferred in a sex partner. Providers are like a go to wide receiver vs a running back (traditional relationship). At that time I had no idea about AS (nor internet resouces to help me research what I was up against in having a hard time getting dates).

I guess for some guys it works out just right for them and that's fantastic.

I personally never want to pay for sex or for the company of a woman. Period.

I know there's also that joke that goes around saying, "We pay her to leave!"

Well, I have no response for that other than I wouldn't be spending time with her in the first place if I didn't want her around, soo... IDK.

I don't think performances by the Chippendales are comparible to lap dancing in strip clubs.
Unless the Chippendales have gone ratchet since the last time I looked and basically spend the time dry humping individuals and occasionally masturbating them directly (which it sounds like they haven't). As has already been said, their stuff seems more like a sexy show in good humour for a crowd... than an effort to engage with people individually for an extended time in order to get those individuals' rocks off.

Is lap dancing anything like that promotional video advertising the strip club pants ?
Or are the manufacturers just being silly ?

Some of those male strip joints during the bachelorette parties the bachelorette gets to play with the male strippers penis and have sex with him and suck him off and such while the groom to be is completely oblivious!

I wouldn't do it. If thats the case I'd have my GF stripping for me in a private room. Strip clubs are a single environment. If you like being in single environments then you should remain single.

Playing below his trousers was part of my show as well, but as mentioned, it was only an pillow. So the stripper had his real penis bound between his legs and the massive "bruise" in his pants, was simply a pillow. XD

Oh...weren't you disappointed?

Nope. It was a stripper for a female "before wedding party", so it was more about the fun and less about anything sexual. So he had a really hot body, but I think 50% of the time I was anyway laughing about the idea of the stripper itself and additional about the show he did. (So he did some stuff of YMCA or tried to replay Dirty Dancing with me...)

Thats what I meant: I have no prob with someone watching a show, as long as there are certain borders existing. So its actually about enjoying a show, maybe as well get in some good moods to enjoy with your partner afterwards, no prob with it. But if its about causing direct sexual interest between the dancer and an customer, in my oppinion as someone being in an relationship, thats a No-go. If you go into Ballet, I think many people might have as well some nice thoughts inside of them, so the costumes are normally pretty tight and ballet-dancers have very sporty bodies. Still its not about engaging into direct sexual interest with each other.

I went to a strip club last week. I typically go about once a year and I had a strange experience. While I was sitting there, one of the dancers came over and sat down next to me and we started talking (the main reason I go to clubs is that it's about the only time I ever get to talk to attractive women). This is typical and they usually try to talk you in to buying a lap dance from them. This girl just kept talking and we had a good conversation. Somehow the topic of my dog came up and she asked what kind of dog I had which turned out to be the same kind of dog she had and she took out her phone and started showing me pictures of her dog. Anyway, we just talked for about 20-30 minutes before she eventually asked me if I wanted a dance and I accepted because I enjoyed the talk and thought I'd pay her back.

Anyway, a song had just started so she said we'd wait until that song was over and a new one started so I'd get the most time. I was wearing my Seattle Seahawks shirt and she mentioned that she got to go to the Super Bowl and again, took her phone out and showed me pictures. When the new song started she started the lap dance and we still kept talking. Neither of us noticed exactly when the song ended so she basically gave me a free song. When that was over, we stood up and walked out of the room and I gave her the money. No big tip or anything, but she still hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. I was shocked. I've never been treated that good at a club and was this close to asking her out. Maybe she wanted me to, but I suck at body language in general so I don't know. I don't know if I could handle dating a stripper as I believe I'd be the jealous type

It is wise to recognize this and to not pursue someone into a situation you feel might be quite hard on you.