Worldwide Aspergian single List 2.0(Straight)

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H'okay so the site just deleted my wonderfully written introduction before I could post it. Time to try again.





I'll keep this short. I'm a 26-year-old man who recently moved back to the Merseyside, in the north-west of England. I have relatively mild Aspergers and a superficially "normal" function but I find it hard to cope with the stress of normal social interaction.

I'm looking for somebody who shares some interests in gaming, left-wing politics, craft beer, introspective and explorative conversations, comedy and humour in general.

If you want to contact me then send a PM here or email at [email protected] . If you're nervous or shy then feel free to send a short message as I really don't mind being the one to make the conversation at first!

Good luck everybody.

I guess I might give it a shot. Okay, here goes...

ABOUT ME
Age: 27
Location: northern Poland (Pomeranian Voivodeship)
Height: 176 cm (5'9'')
Body: "healthy" (but not morbidly obese)
Hair: short, brown
Interests: computers, gaming, Internet, science, trivia, watching movies (comedies being my favorite genre), listening to music, reading random things, pets (especially cats)
Smoking/drinking: I don't smoke. I drink rarely (mostly socially), but I don't really like alcohol.
Religion: Christian, but not really religious
Other things: I'm friendly and honest. I'm shy at first, but it gets better once I get to know people. If given a chance, I can show a sense of humor. I'm also a picky eater.
I'm not providing a photo for privacy reasons, but I can send one via a private message on request.

WHO AM I LOOKING FOR
I'm looking for a friendly girl to spend time with (you know, shopping, going on a walk, gaming (you don't need to be a hardcore gamer, but it would be nice if you were at least a little into video games), talking, doing sports, cuddling (but not necessarily getting intimate as soon as we meet for the first time) or whatever else couple do together) and, well, not be lonely. You can be either an Aspie or an NT who doesn't mind being with an Aspie guy - as long as you accept me the way I am, it doesn't matter.
Age: preferably around my age (it's okay if you are a little older)
Location: preferably Poland or a neighboring country. Well, the closer the better.
Height: shorter than me
Body: no preference. Not morbidly obese, at least.
Interests: probably geeky things (like me), but as long as you share some interests with me, that's okay.
Smoking/drinking: I definitely prefer non-smokers. And no heavy drinkers please.
Religion: either non-religious or someone who doesn't put their religion above everything else
Race: no preference

If you'd like to know more or chat with me, just drop me a private message.

UPDATE for Man, aged nearly 50, in East Anglia (UK), seeking women aged 35-55

I'm Martin and would like to spend time with a nice lady walking in parks/footpaths/riversides, meeting for tea/coffee, visiting museums, practical astronomy, plus whatever she is into that we can do together.

My own interests are astronomy, walking/hiking, heavy rock music, information technology, photography, cosmology, mathematical philosophy, the cat fancy and reading. I have a clean driving licence and own car, don't smoke or do drugs and drink alcohol once a week or so.

My intention is long-term dating leading hopefully to true love. You are ideally an Aspie, or NT Geek, who loves cats. If you would enjoy discussing philosophy or admiring scenery, of both the Earth and the Heavens, then perhaps if we're lucky, I am the guy you've been looking for. Why not message me so we can find out?

If you would like to know more about me, please visit my PlentyOfFish or OKCupid profiles.

*shrugs* My new year's resolution was 'do something outside of your comfort zone'. So why not? (No serial killers, please. )

Gender: Female

Age: 21, but I'll be 22 next week, so...

Location: Arizona, USA

Interests: Reading-just about anything save romance novels. Horror, classics, mystery...I haven't read too much scifi/fantasy, but I'll try almost anything if the blurb appeals. I am a shameless Sherlock Holmes fangirl, but lately I've been poking into the Batman fandom. I listen to alternative rock, indie rock, random bands...anyone out there know the Clockwork Quartet?

Quirks: Asexual, can't drive (tried it and about had a heart attack...besides, it's bad for the environment!), socially awkward/introverted-but something tells me that last isn't too uncommon here.

What I'm doing with my life: Right now I'm in the process of transferring to university from community college, but one day I'd like to go from 'self-published author' to 'famous author'.

Well. That was harder than I thought it would be.

*not dating until graduate in May

Name: L....
Gender: female
Race: caucasian
Age: 25
Physique: shoulder length brown hair, blue-green eyed, tall, a little on heavier side
Religion: none

Location: Colorado, USA

Diagnosis: high functioning autism, sensory processing disorder, mixed receptive-expressive language disorder

Personality/Characteristics: introverted, observe & analyze, calm, quiet, goofy, serious, logical, down to earth, detail oriented/organized; however, take a long time to trust people; so only goofy with people I'm really comfortable with

Viewpoints: middle ground, everything is grey, you do your part--I do my part, equity over equality, life's what you make of it

Philosophy: do best can, take what get, learn from it, move on

Interests & Hobbies: books, TV, movies, science, anime, manga, arts & crafts, people watcher, stuffed animals

Work: was a supplemental instructor for the freshmen program at my university for four semesters, this semester psychology tutor at my university

School: graduating this May with a bachelors in behavioral science with a focus in psychology & minor in criminal justice

Future Plans: postponing masters in psychology & criminal justice to fall 2016, in meantime hope to work as special education paraprofessional & tutor at local high school, final goal is to be consultant/lecturer on relationship between criminality, disability (specifically mental illness), & behavioral science (specifically psychology)

Family: mom, dad, older brother; live alone with my two beasties; M... (dog) a 7yr old small terrier mix & F........ (kitten) a 9mo old mix

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Dating History: had crushes in middle school & high school, developed interest in dating when 19yrs old, made agreement with self wouldn't date until graduated with bachelors; as a result have never dated, done one night stands, or kissed a guy

Interest: male, around my age, good character, loving heart, intelligent (as in use brains you've got to fullest extent)

Preferences: not picky about interests/hobbies, don't care about looks as long as your healthy, don't care for sex & related, it's your character & attitude that will make or break it

Ideal: goofy & loving intellect

I am female, aged 57 and living in the UK.
Never married (though have had some relationships) and no children.
As well as English I speak good Finnish and can manage in French and German, so am open to prospective partners from overseas as well.
My interests include languages, reading, North Korea, cooking and Star Trek.
I hope to meet someone compatible for a long term relationship and marriage.

Gender: Male
Location: Stockholm, Sweden
Age: 41 (As of nov 2014), i look younger than my age though.
Smoking: I cannot be around people who smoke.
Height: Tall.
Weight: Curves but not obese
Religion: Atheist. Nothing against moderate religious people, who do not let religion define them.
Interests: Computers, Psychology, Scifi/Fantasy. Games, Music, Science, Spicy food, Traveling.

What I'm doing with my life: Working as a IT Specialist. I got my own first hand contract apartment recently and i'm trying to figure out what to do with all the space in it. Could use an esthetic girls advice.

Looking for: Cute, open minded, nerdy empathic girl. Non smoker/drug user (Requirement!). i want nothing to do with people on the antisocial spectrum (ASPD, BPD, NPD) or racists.

I do not care where you live, but i'm not moving. Majority of people speak good English here since it is a compulsory second language taught in school.

I'm a sucker for girls with long black hair who wear converse, but do not consider that a requirement. I'm not a social animal and i'd prefer if you were not one either. I hope that you have no touch sensitivity problems since i want an intimate relationship.

Feel free to contact me.

Gender: Male
Age:19
Location: East Yorkshire, UK
Height: 6 Ft 1
Build: Slim
Non-Smoker
Diagnosis: Asperger's, Anxiety

Looking for: Female, Aged 18-25, preferably someone shy and quiet.

If anyone's interested feel free to PM me.

31 year old guy with Aspergers from Pickering Ontario, Canada here.

I'm a very random and nerdy person, but I'm also very romantic and fun to be around. I enjoy long walks on the beach (literally) and anything to do with nature, except long hikes on harsh terrain. I love animals. My interests include-

Computers
History
Physics
Biology
Airplanes
Cars
Motorcycles
Self Improvement

I'm 5'10 with brown eyes and brown hair. I'm Spanish (from Spain) but I was born in Canada. I'm looking for someone 25-35 with an easy going character who can be understanding of my condition, but won't take any crap. Because I don't take any crap either.

I don't drive. They took my license away. So if you drive that's 10 000 bonus points for you.

Gender: Male
Age: 23
Location: Germany
My job: Currently unemployed
I like: Not so emotional people, so a more platonic relationship is more likely to work out

Dunno what else to say

Male single 29 year old Autistic
My interests are Star Wars, Star Trek, Fantasy, Science Fiction and Roleplaying
I also like cats but have a bird, I don't care for dogs much
Live in North Bend, WA area
Have a profile on OKCupid, russdm

Gender: Male, originally
Age: 29, will be 30 in august
Dating Range: 25 to 35, due to my own age and how creepy feeling it is to consider looking for women closer to 18/19
Area: Around North Bend, WA
Religion: LDS, semi-inactive, have issues
Interests: Finding a job and working, Roleplaying Games, video games, reading books, History, Science Fiction, Geek/Nerd/Gamer interests, Cats, my bird.
Employment: Currently looking, though I have recently done some Game testing, also have college degree and certificate.
Have profile on OkCupid, but don't check it much
Personality: Loner, some asocial (I don't enjoy socializing with people I don't know that well, and I feel strongly uncomfortable talking to people I don't know since feels like I am being overly aggressive or I worry about simply being offensive in talking to them), Shy, quiet, tend to prefer books to people though with people I am close to like friends/family more inclined to interact with them than read, relaxed/laid-back so not very confrontational (I don't go out seeking confrontations, but I have issues with people saying things as facts rather than opinions that are wrong like D&D4e is WOW rather than D&D4e is like WOW[I can accept the second statement no problem, the first annoys me to no end], not terribly thrilled with my current self, like doing activities with people to get close more than just showing up to activities (friends in my mind usually do activities together rather than simply are at the same place and same time).
Smoker/Drinker: Not interested in smoking or drinking personally, accepting of mild drinking
Looking for: An original woman who hasn't changed that, and is somewhat geeky/nerdy/gamer. Beyond that, I really don't want her being more than mildly morbidly obese. Given that I am heavyset, I don't feel right complaining about this much. I would prefer she had an interest in both of us trying to lose weight or at least me more. (I am working on losing weight, its hard) So-so on women from my religion, since I have rarely seen anything about individuals with my problems/issues doing well with the women and it nearly always ends badly in some fashion.

27
Male
Have AS (low end of spectrum)
UK - Surrey
Work as a Nurse
PM if you want to know more

Gender: Female
Age: 23 coming up 24
Location: UK
Occupation: Degree student
Religion: None - atheist
Interests: Animals, music, movies, photography, traveling
Personality: Quiet/shy until I get to know someone well
Diagnosis: ASD
Looking for: Mainly friendship first. Someone around my age(23-27)