Can I really get a "hot" girl?

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Can I get a hot dog?

With mustard and pepper sauce.

What kind of pepper sauce?

a HOT pepper sauce.

I've got at least six different kinds of HOT pepper sauce in my 'fridge. I like either Tiger Sauce or Louisiana Hot Sauce best with HOT dogs.

OMG!! ! What happened to this thread!!

Try some Dave's Insanity hot sauce.

The answer to the question, "Do you have anything hotter?"

After about five minutes you can sort of taste the habeneros.

I'm going to attempt to ignore the off topic stuff and stick to the main question. First off, I don't find the OP's question offensive at all. He didnt describe a set of traits and say that only girls with these traits are attractive. When he said "hot" I took it to mean the type of girl he is attracted to, whatever that may mean. I like older, very intellectual men with a particular look that others would maybe not find so attractive but to me, men like that are so hot." When I was younger, I had a hard time getting men like that to notice me. I had a very highschool cheerleader look to me back then so I only attracted the muscular jock party time guys but they weren't and are still not my type. I used to be very concerned that I wouldn't find a guy who fit my version of "hot".

As I got older though I just started being more approachable so that I would attract the kind of guys I wanted. I also started going to places that men like that tend to frequent. I think that is reasonable advice for the OP. For example, If the type of girls you like go to the gym then maybe go there too. You may not be the type of all the girls but I guarantee their will be a few who will find you "hot" too.

why a hot girl? i say find one that keeps you interested. not a really attractive person. what if they lie about themselves?

I find this question rather odd, as I wouldn't be willing to go out with someone I wasn't attracted to. That said, what I'm attracted to doesn't always fit the common perception of "hot". While I certainly do find many conventionally hot guys attractive, I also find guys attractive who wouldn't necessarily be viewed that way by most people. And, looking back at the three guys I've been seriously into, I would have to admit that two of them (one of whom is the guy I'm into now right now) were not actually that good looking--at least according to conventional wisdom. And yet I still found/find them extremely attractive, which is the important thing.

Yeah, when I say "hot" I just mean attractive in general. Though I do have a tiny thing for natural blonde girls with distinct facial features.

At first, I am attracted by a girl's appearance and personality, then I get phone numbers, but never a date. I just lose attraction to some girls because of their lack of logical thinking and the fact that a lot of them expect men to do things for them. I learned that women can do almost anything for themselves but the reality is they choose not to and rely on their boyfriends or husbands to do that. I just find a lack of independence unattractive, but that's just me.