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09 Mar 2015, 4:31 am

why wouldn't they just seek out a great looking neurodiverse guy.

its probably not just random that all the pretty women on ok are also all red color. they also tend to follow society's rules more with who they choose to date.



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09 Mar 2015, 4:48 am

sly279 wrote:
why wouldn't they just seek out a great looking neurodiverse guy.


Mostly because they have no idea about neurodiversity, because they follow the rules of society, and because neurotypical guys are more likely to make verbal contact with them and flatter them.

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its probably not just random that all the pretty women on ok are also all red color. they also tend to follow society's rules more with who they choose to date.


All you need to do is to trigger their odd preferences in some way. By playing typical you are effectively sabotaging your chances of appealing to them, and at the same time failing to pass as NT and failing to attract them as well. It's really that simple.



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09 Mar 2015, 6:51 am

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• If she ever acknowledges you, she does it by talking about you, in the third person, with other people, right in front of you, thus dispelling any doubts that addressing you like a fellow human being is beneath her.



And strangely enough, this attitude is closely related to the PUA-concept that sometimes gets discussed on here, which is basically where you try to lead the woman to believe that you're "above them" in some form or another(i.e. make them think that you're more cool than they are).



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10 Mar 2015, 1:18 am

rdos wrote:
sly279 wrote:
why wouldn't they just seek out a great looking neurodiverse guy.


Mostly because they have no idea about neurodiversity, because they follow the rules of society, and because neurotypical guys are more likely to make verbal contact with them and flatter them.

sly279 wrote:
its probably not just random that all the pretty women on ok are also all red color. they also tend to follow society's rules more with who they choose to date.


All you need to do is to trigger their odd preferences in some way. By playing typical you are effectively sabotaging your chances of appealing to them, and at the same time failing to pass as NT and failing to attract them as well. It's really that simple.

you seem to assume all non nt women are the same and want non nt men, I don' think that is so.
personally I want a nt woman.



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10 Mar 2015, 2:47 am

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you seem to assume all non nt women are the same and want non nt men, I don' think that is so.
personally I want a nt woman.


In that case you need to learn to play along with typical dating. And even if you get one, you would probably end up being one of those asperger's types that NT women complain about. But that is your decision. I have no interest at all in NT women. They are simply boring.



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10 Mar 2015, 2:55 am

Most girls dont like aspies thats reality and I don't blame them they don't want emotional baggage or quirks but a perfect guy or gal that is it! Perfection however is a myth so its their loss they will be in many more failed relationships than us so consider ourselves lucky!


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10 Mar 2015, 3:54 am

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Most girls dont like aspies thats reality and I don't blame them they don't want emotional baggage or quirks but a perfect guy or gal that is it! Perfection however is a myth so its their loss they will be in many more failed relationships than us so consider ourselves lucky!


Most girls are NTs, so that's natural.



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10 Mar 2015, 9:21 am

Most NT girls can't handle our awesomeness that's why, so they settle for less awesome NT guys.



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10 Mar 2015, 9:31 am

34. She contacts store security after she catches you peeking at her while she's trying on some clothes.


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10 Mar 2015, 5:26 pm

rdos wrote:
sly279 wrote:
you seem to assume all non nt women are the same and want non nt men, I don' think that is so.
personally I want a nt woman.


In that case you need to learn to play along with typical dating. And even if you get one, you would probably end up being one of those asperger's types that NT women complain about. But that is your decision. I have no interest at all in NT women. They are simply boring.


most aspies don't end up with other aspies, they end up with nts and most are happy together. nt women aren't all the same.



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10 Mar 2015, 7:31 pm

rdos wrote:
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Most girls dont like aspies thats reality and I don't blame them they don't want emotional baggage or quirks but a perfect guy or gal that is it! Perfection however is a myth so its their loss they will be in many more failed relationships than us so consider ourselves lucky!


Most girls are NTs, so that's natural.
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11 Mar 2015, 2:47 am

sly279 wrote:
most aspies don't end up with other aspies, they end up with nts and most are happy together. nt women aren't all the same.


Not true either. Last I researched this, it was an even split, and since NTs are much more common it means there is a bias. Personally, I've never had a relationship with an NT. My approach tends to scare NTs away, which I think is super-useful.



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11 Mar 2015, 3:18 am

rdos wrote:
sly279 wrote:
most aspies don't end up with other aspies, they end up with nts and most are happy together. nt women aren't all the same.


Not true either. Last I researched this, it was an even split, and since NTs are much more common it means there is a bias. Personally, I've never had a relationship with an NT. My approach tends to scare NTs away, which I think is super-useful.


only ever met one aspie girl in my areaand she was rude :(



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29 Jun 2015, 8:52 am

I approve