We Should Celebrate When NTs Breakup!

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30 Jun 2015, 7:41 am

PlasticManGNB wrote:
When my sister lost her BF once to another woman, my mum was crying and i found ti quite annoying and stupid. She kept telling me to have a heart and i said "So what?! She's normal, she will get another in a matter of hours, and she always will. Us Apsies will have to face what she is facing right now for our whole lives. Why shouldn't she have a taste of what I have to face my whole life?!"

Does anybody agree with me?


I doln't think we should celebrate when anyone breaks up, but I see your point. She will have another bf really soon, so why act upset? I don't understand the logic. IMO if you can move easily from one person to another, that previous bf didn't matter much to you.



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30 Jun 2015, 8:57 am

WantToHaveALife wrote:
although George Sodini got to experience having a girlfriend, he admitted that he never got to experience spending a weekend with a girl, he never vacationed or traveled with one, never lived with one, which it seems most people get to experience the spending a weekend part or traveling, vacationing with one while in their 20's.

These can be obtained through escorts who offer what's called "travel services". She travels with you on vacation, and you're responsible for her meals and sleep accommodations (shared with you ;)), plus fees for her time. The feeling of the whole experience is just like with a girlfriend, and for the most part, you'll see all sights you want to see. After all, it's your time. The total cost numbers in thousands of dollars. Perhaps this George Sodini person can try this service.

While you can't continue the relationship past the vacation, given the nature of the service, the credibility you'll build in the escorting (stress on the E) community is priceless. That means other escorts she knows will be more willing to see you.



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01 Jul 2015, 2:33 am

NT and highly functional Asperger person here.

Relationships are never going to happen for me. I know too much, or I think I do. Maybe I need to learn more. Yes that is the answer. Muahahaha... I will transcend.



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01 Jul 2015, 9:45 am

PlasticManGNB wrote:
When my sister lost her BF once to another woman, my mum was crying and i found ti quite annoying and stupid. She kept telling me to have a heart and i said "So what?! She's normal, she will get another in a matter of hours, and she always will. Us Apsies will have to face what she is facing right now for our whole lives. Why shouldn't she have a taste of what I have to face my whole life?!"

Does anybody agree with me?


Why relish in another person's pain. Everyone gets hurt and NTs are no exception. Have a heart!! ! Because what goes around comes around.



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01 Jul 2015, 12:28 pm

I've noticed, too, that people who are usually in relationships tend to be seen as more worthy of sympathy and help when they undergo a breakup than those of us who spend all our time alone. I suppose the right conclusion is that, in our case, our loneliness and misery are signs of how little we are worth as people.


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