Why is it girls have an easier time getting dates than guys?

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Interesting wonder how much a high sex drive is then lol. We need a drug that removes emotions.

There are many drugs that do that but I wouldn't recommend any of them.

I don't know if there's an equal number of males and females....but I would say a part of this is social rules ingrained in society. Basically its been the 'norm' for males to ask out women and take the lead in initiating. Basically people being taught 'that's the way it is' I think its probably now a lot more common for females to initiate than in the past but people still haven't got the 'traditional way' out of their heads. Of course I do not think there is anything wrong with girls asking guys out...but I don't create the social norms.

Even then though this doesn't mean every female has an easier time getting a date than every male, but generally speaking I would say that particular social norm plays into this issue quite a lot.

And I have seen some people acting like a girl is doing a guy a favor by going out with them...but I don't think that and don't really know a lot of people with that mentality. I certainly don't view my current relationship as 'doing the guy a favor' it would seem we are both quite into each other.

Even katy with her vile personality could get a boyfriend, a live proof how easier girls have it :p.

And who the hell is katy? someone I should care about?

I don't mind the asking. I don't mind there's a chance they'll say no. I just don't like it sometimes when they overreact. It's like they equate asking with demanding.

Don't they know if no one ever asks anyone out it would lead to human extinction Yeah, I can't stand it when people think that.

She is the troll woman who attacks guys here 24/7, especially sly.

And who keeps saying stuff to guys like "If 3.5 billions of women won't date you, then you are genetic failure...etc" (as if every guy gets evaluated by 3.5 billions women) and things like that.

She is a sorry soul who likes to push some lonely guys here to the edge of suicide.

Yes, this one got a bf recently, believe it or not.

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Why?

Oh that thing...I wouldn't even dignify it with a name, pitiful creature it is.

But how do you know its not lying?

Drugs might temporarily ease your emotional pain but before long they would make your life much worse. They'll suck up your motivation, destroy your body and no girl will want to date a drug addict.

I don't really think it's easier for girls to get a date than a guy. In most cases, girls wait around for a guy to ask them out. And a lot of times it's someone she doesn't even want to go out with. A guy can simply stick to only asking out girls he's interested in and a percentage of them will agree to a date so the possibilities here are sort of limitless depending on the amount of effort exerted by the guy.

Due to lacking a well paying job, car, and own place(things many girls don't have themselves) I'm deems as not a man so girls don't want to date me anyways. Also lots of drug addicts have gfs o.O

Personally, I've always suspected Katy's "boyfriend" requires batteries.

Or an inflation pump.

Boyfriend's a real person, a quant, actually.

I'll admit, I like having the ability to choose instead of waiting around. It's kind of an advantage for guys. It's kind of unfortunate when I hear about a girl who's never been on a date because no guy has ever asked her out. I guess it would be possible for her to ask a girl out but I wouldn't want to be a guy waiting for that. I wouldn't want to give that advantage exclusively to girls.

I just started this thread because I was mad at some girls angry rejection of me. I didn't like her acting like it was a great honour to even talk to her. I don't like it when a person tries to set themselves up above all others. I guess a percentage of girls will go out with me but nowadays it's harder to tell if a girl is single compared with a hundred years ago (the age of short courtships).

Anyway, I know that not all girls are like her. I used to fear rejection because I used to think I'd get into trouble for asking out a girl if she didn't say yes. I used to think all girls were just waiting to have a go at me for having the audacity to ask them out. Well one girl was but most girls are more understanding. For most of the girls I’ve asked, if the answer is no they try to say no in a way that doesn't cause offence. Most girls try to let a guy down gently.

This can be problematic because it means they say no indirectly in a way we may not understand. I don't always get that "I'm busy that night" means "I'm totally free that night but I never want to date you" so I ask if she's free another night.

This is an extension of another confusing problem perpetuated by both girls and guys (I'm guilty of this one) which is trying to ask someone out in a way that you can maintain plausible deniability that you were asking them out on a date.

In other words, at the beginning of a courtship, guys and girls might act like it's a platonic get together. E.g. I might ask a girl to go to a cafe with me, in a platonic way. This may confuse the girl. One time I asked an aspie girl out to a cafe. She said yes and I thought I had a date. I think she thought I wanted to meet platonically.

Then when she figured it out, she cancelled because she was "busy" then I misunderstood and thought she wanted to reschedule. Like most girls, she was reasonable about it. She didn't guilt me or hold a grudge or try to make me feel uncomfortable. Most girls are very forgiving and won't fly off the handle about a small misunderstanding.