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hurtloam
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14 Nov 2015, 2:24 am

mpe wrote:
A guy trying to hint, to women, that he's interested in them might be assumed to be gay.


I don't think you know what being gay means?!?!? Ain't no danger of anyone thinking you're gay if you subtly hint to a woman that you find her attractive.



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14 Nov 2015, 5:04 am

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Its easy to say us aspie males are entitled misogynist when you can just shake your ass and get laid by anyone you want.


this is an example of exactly what misogynism is lol. is this a joke??



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14 Nov 2015, 7:33 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
well you hardly ever hear of women being 25+ or 30+ years of age and never had a boyfriend, still a virgin, meanwhile it's not uncommon to hear of it the other way around


Actually it is kind of uncommon for both to reach those ages having remained single and still a virgin. I think it is probably more common with people on the spectrum especially since our disorder makes it more difficult to interact with people. But over-all not necessarily.

I didn't have sex till I was 19...and it sucked the first time, and I have heard many people say the same or at least that it was akward. So not sure why people think so many people are focused on if someone's lost their virginity or not. Not to mention no one is going to know if you are a virgin or not unless you tell them...and if you get far enough with a women to have sex she's probably not going to throw you out because you haven't had sex with other women.

I mean IRL I never hear any talk of virginity, I hear plenty of talk about sex...but it would seem most people don't seem to care about that.

I agree its uncommon for both people, but what i'm saying is that most people who reach that age-bracket still being single and never had a relationship before, it seems to be more common among men than among women, like I've heard and seen more men vocally express it, maybe women are more silent about it, that's just my guess.



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14 Nov 2015, 8:52 am

Why are you aiming for the "pretty" girl? They tend to have lots of options. Competition is high. They are more likely to get taken by confident neurotypical men. Why not aim for a plain, socially awkward girl? Someone more similar to yourself? There are lots of plain, good hearted girls that have never been chosen. People tend to marry and date those similar to themselves.



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14 Nov 2015, 3:50 pm

Because. No one wants to date someone they find unattractive.



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14 Nov 2015, 4:08 pm

so ya, maybe there are more female FA's than it seems there, women are probably less vocal about it than men are, but that's just a guess of mine