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auntblabby
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29 Dec 2015, 8:51 pm
don't think about best, but "good enough" instead.
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29 Dec 2015, 9:26 pm
auntblabby
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29 Dec 2015, 9:42 pm
it doesn't matter so much if you're tall or short, so long as you take good care of yourself whatever the height. I see short guys with women [and other men] all the time. they must have some magic social sauce that I lack. 
29 Dec 2015, 10:25 pm
auntblabby
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29 Dec 2015, 10:29 pm
cheep cheep chirp chirp cluck cluck
thank you my good man 
in all seriousness, I am now in the September of my years with no signs of any improvement. oh well, I'm the way god made me 
29 Dec 2015, 10:49 pm
don't think about best, but "good enough" instead.
What?
auntblabby
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29 Dec 2015, 11:11 pm
don't think about best, but "good enough" instead.
What?
very few can be the best at anything, but many can be as good as they can be, that includes you and me.
it involves finding a passion in life and pursuing it. if somebody else comes along so much the better but having a passion is the most important thing to start with.
29 Dec 2015, 11:11 pm
don't think about best, but "good enough" instead.
What?
you don't need to be perfect at something, just adequate.
29 Dec 2015, 11:12 pm
don't think about best, but "good enough" instead.
What?
What he means is that since perfection is impossible, it is better to simply aim to do as well as you possibly can.
30 Dec 2015, 9:02 am
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30 Dec 2015, 11:57 am
Just got rejected by a girl again today.
Same story, "I just don't see you romantically, so can we cancel our date?"
I asked what I had done wrong, and I got the whole spiel about how there is bound to be someone out there for me I should just keep on trying, and how there is nothing wrong with me and I did nothing wrong, but I was just not for her.
Women in real life say I'm not for them, women on online dating sites don't answer my messages and those sites just want more money every time I want to send someone a message, they don't respond to "personals" ads in the paper or on the internet, so I really just don't know anymore.
I can't believe how the world can say that women seek love and affection, a man to love and hold, when this is clearly not the case.
It's all sex with hot guys, fun times and money to spend on expensive presents, nothing more. And seeing as I can't really provide any of those, I'm pretty much screwed.
I've given up.
30 Dec 2015, 1:12 pm
Same story, "I just don't see you romantically, so can we cancel our date?"
I asked what I had done wrong, and I got the whole spiel about how there is bound to be someone out there for me I should just keep on trying, and how there is nothing wrong with me and I did nothing wrong, but I was just not for her.
Women in real life say I'm not for them, women on online dating sites don't answer my messages and those sites just want more money every time I want to send someone a message, they don't respond to "personals" ads in the paper or on the internet, so I really just don't know anymore.
I can't believe how the world can say that women seek love and affection, a man to love and hold, when this is clearly not the case.
It's all sex with hot guys, fun times and money to spend on expensive presents, nothing more. And seeing as I can't really provide any of those, I'm pretty much screwed.
I've given up.
Didn't you say that you used to sleep with many women not long ago?
