Why do women do this?

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I think the best bet is just to smile and look happy. Sort of glance around at no one in particular. Be positive, don't slouch, and walk at a calm pace. Look at things other than people. I always stop and look at the shopfronts and the gardens.

It's why I do my best to never even look at women.
Lots to see on the ground.

I can relate to Jamesy.

I understand and most definitely believe staring or constant looking is just very rude and very wrong.

However, sometimes even a quick little glance some react with a 'How dare you even THINK you have a chance with ME?' death-stare that I'm sure me, Jamesy and Sly have all gotten plenty of times before.

And to those that say 'maybe you're looking at someone in a way that people find uncomfortable' well just how are you supposed to look at someone (a quick glance) without making them uncomfortable?

Neutral expressions come across as cold, creepy and sociopathic, smiling comes across as creepy unless it's mutual, a räpey smile is the worst possible face obviously.

Body language also doesn't really influence it that much, I don't think. Slouching and having your chin down makes you look creepy, having your chin up and chest out a bit confidently just might make her more afraid and think of you as one of those 'dominant' males.

And to be honest getting looks also flatters me. Even if her face is neutral and gloomy and not particularly happy looking. Even if she looks a little too long.

Also, this has made me think of a curious question.

If I were to look at a female the way I am in my profile picture quickly, how do you think they'd react? Women here, if you were my age, or if I was your age and someone did this, how would you react? Let's say I am wearing the exact same clothes. Is it 'creepy'?

That's good then because that's how I come across in public, e.g. when out shopping. A slight smile, calm and relaxed walk. I'll admit I do alternate between slouching and a confident posture though.

I believe girls when they are in there teens are the most attracted to boys at this stage. When they get near to 20 they become much more bisexual and less interested in males.

I believe girls when they are in there teens are the most attracted to boys at this stage. When they get near to 20 they become much more bisexual and less interested in males.

However, sometimes even a quick little glance some react with a 'How dare you even THINK you have a chance with ME?' death-stare that I'm sure me, Jamesy and Sly have all gotten plenty of times before.

It might be a good idea to be careful when you look down too. I don't always like looking at peoples faces and I would look at their shoes to recognize them that way instead. Sometimes when I did that though they would give me strange looks and probably got the wrong idea so I try to be careful not to do that.

That's what I get basically every single time, too, and I intentionally avoid looking in anyone else's direction any longer than I need to be aware of my surroundings. I wonder what exactly counts as "staring". In my experience, if your eyes accidentally meet those of a woman for the split second you take to reäct, you're already screwed and they need to remind you with their gaze that you're unworthy of as much as enjoying a distant glimpse of them.

Because looks can kill. Um, not.

It's also possible that what you think is a quick, civilized glance is actually a creepy look-up-and-down-undress-her-with-your-eyes leer. If your "accidental" eye meeting with girls almost always results in a death stare, you probably are creepily leering.

I am destined to life of single lonliness

Why is society so freaking rough on then men

when you look glance at a girl they immediately think "he will kill me and rape me in my sleep"

And another WTF where did this come from?

stare well. it also depends on where exactly u r staring at, maybe u were staring at places they're insecure about. most women like when they get compliments on their (ya know) , u can look there all day it works like charm.

again, the way you look at women has to be sexy itself the way itself sexy





edit: hope this helps and sorry about my bad english

And like I was saying, how do you prevent a creepy look?

Just because you don't look them up and down or have a watering mouth doesn't make it non-creepy in the eyes of a female.

A neutral expression is sociopathic and creepy to most people, though funny enough a smile is as well. An angry or sad face is outright threatening.

There is almost no expression that can't come across as creepy.

Also, body language is an indicator as well. Having your head down a little and slouching makes you look like one of those weaselly creeps, but standing tall, confident with your head up and chest out a little makes you look like some alpha d-bag that has no regards for her feelings.

Do you think if I was at a party and I saw an attractive female my age, was dressed the way I am in my profile picture, and slightly turned in her direction, relaxed my posture but remained confident, and smiled lightly like I do, do you think she'd become uncomfortable? Surprisingly it's very likely to happen.