Are autistic guys attracted to autistic girls?

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Artistic girls are typically boring. Just saying.

If that guy with the hat would just trim the beard a bit (or shave it off), and make sure he takes frequent showers and washes his clothes, he'd be okay, actually. He's not a bad-looking guy at all

What do you girls think?

The man's Jonah Hill, and is actually a pretty funny actor and nice guy who usually keeps his face clean shaven. Pretty sure he is unmarried.

"Artistic girls are typically boring. Just saying."

I wouldn't know how. Certainly not as boring as people with absolutely NO hobbies, interests, or talents.

I mean people who essentially spend all their free time socializing on their phone, or looking at funny memes on facebook, or watching Friends or other such tv, and when they're not doing these things they're spending excessive amount of time on their appearance to look like models, or just working. They don't study any subject at university or anything, just work till they die and look good in their free-time. The most they do is go drinking at bars/clubbing with their girlfriend's on Friday nights.

What a catch...

Meanwhile, the artistic gals I was friends with in school: One would study hard, play hard. When not spending excessive time studying, she still found the time for amateur filmmaking, writing, reading, sci-fi movies, visual art and acting. Another one juggled hardwork with acting, writing, music, visual art, and film/vlogging. And another visual art, music, writing, acting and dance.

The Arts are usually one of the best and easiest ways to add a sense of meaning to your life, though there are other ways.

I think the guy in the photo has a nice face. Nice eyes, nice mouth. I'd at least trim but preferably lose the beard, lose a few pounds. If his locks as are as thick and luscious as their creeping out from under the fedora suggest, I'd lose the hat. He's not wearing it. It's wearing him, and it looks unhappy to be doing so.

Personally, as a hat wearer myself (Homburg), I think such a hat should be the finishing touch to an already (aiming for) classy outfit, not something thrown on in a bid to add class to one's otherwise slovenly appearance. I am against hats being worn without (at minimum) a proper shirt, preferably a tie, and some smart trousers (not jeans or, heaven help us, sweats).



C'mon, my behatted brethren! We don't have to go full Cary (even assuming we could), but we could at least try.

Agreed. I pulled out the white fedora on senior formal night, went well with my black dress suit.

The fedora and trilby hats aren't ugly, it's just the internet dislikes people who wear them simply because most of them use them poorly, wearing them with mismatched outfits.

Also, some nerdy or awkward males may use the hat to appear confident and more attractive, but it doesn't work that way.

A hat doesn't change anything.

The men who look good with the hat, would look good without it as well (as in, they take care of their appearance well anyway, and they already dress snazzy without the hat).

It takes a special kind of guy with AS for me to be attracted to him. I'm not into the geeky ones who dress like a 30 year old business man. My kind of guy enjoys the this I enjoy like rock and rap music and taking walks outside.Likes PlayStation and Nintendo like I do, wears nice cologne and just a cool and interesting person.

I don't know if I can find someone like that. I don't think autistic guys have an a alarm system when they see a girl who has AS to be attracted to her.

I don't think I've met an autistic girl in person before, I do tend to like the ones I meet online though. I think it's partly because there would be more of a mutual understanding for being a little bit different from normal. Also I think that people on the spectrum can be pretty cool often times, looking at the world differently, being creative and smart, etc.

...there are some annoying people on the spectrum too, but there are plenty of annoying NT girls too.

There was an autistic girl I used to know who I liked and she liked me to but she no longer cares about me anymore