Women rejecting vs Men rejecting.

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Sounds like me TGI, as I've recently garnered an interest in these social experiment videos, and preparing myself for my future endeavours of approaching women possibly in the future if it's to get me possible results.

Sweetleaf: I don't mean the way it was done in the video.

Some people become extremely uncomfortable even with people who do it the 'right way'.

I see many women say in real-life and on the internet, when out and about doing their business, they just don't want ANY male to approach for 'those reasons'.

It doesn't matter if they're in a hurry to some important class or meeting, or just casually shopping and doing an activity where they can TAKE THEIR TIME.

If they're up to something, they're up to something and don't want to be bothered.

I agreed the man and woman in the video did it wrong - they didn't start light and casually, they didn't establish any rapport, and quickly made the other person feel uncomfortable.

But I've also genuinely observed people who do it the right way also cop it.

Some have said if a woman's been approached by 10 creeps, she'll may be extremely rude to the 1 'good' guy who would be polite about being rejected and not bother her again. I definitely think this may be true.

And, I don't think anyone could EVER really approach someone sitting down looking like they're going to be waiting a little while, no, I've also observed in my experiences that's not always a good thing either - trying to chat people up at bus stops, for example, is socially a no-go. Even if there bus was an hour away.

I don't know, maybe it's just my current situation.

The place i live had one of the highest crime rates in the state (and one Australian stateis about the size of say 10-15 U.S. states), and extremely rude people in general.

It's been the cause of my agoraphobia. Yeah, you get trouble everywhere, but nearly every other town or city I've visited or lived in, I felt far safer walking the streets.

There was a coastal city, low crime rate I visited a few weeks back, and a friend and I walked through it. He agreed it was very peaceful and also believes my hometown is filled with rude and threatening people everywhere.

Every time I leave the house where I live, doesn't matter with family or friends or solo, I get rude stares, death stares, there's always trouble in parking lots as some Australian shopping centres involve walking through the parking lot just to get to the entrance, etc. Everyone is just out to get you here, at least it feels this way.

A friend and I just went to get some damn pizza and deodorant, about 5 cars in the parking lot used no indicato putting our safety at risk, r when turning, some nieghbors of my friends grandma were having some kind of party, clearly drunk, and I could hear them mocking us under their breaths, a few people gave us some rude looks, etc. All within just 10 minutes.

Anyway, there's almost no clubs or groups here for anyone.

The young adults here only have the bars and nightclub, and no ZD, there really sin't any good ones. The one nightclub is very seedy, as are most of the bars.

They have that, work (if it's appropriate/not against regulations, but it usually is), religion/church (if they are religious) or the streets.

And ZD, a number doesn't necessarily mean she wants to get to know you for the possibility for a relationship. Still entirely possible she only wants a one-night stand, or Fwb, and not an LTR.

Maybe you've been chatting to her to get to know her, yeah, but unless she's told you what she wants it's entirely possible she and the vast majority of bar/clubbers still just want something casual.