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Of course people, especially women, care significantly about your social life even in young adulthood.

If you have no friends, usually when dating someone they may be slightly suspicious as to why.

Also, if you don't come across as having an active social-life, you may be considered by others to be boring or anti-social, when that may not be the case at all.

Maybe I'm just young and inexperienced, maybe it gets better as you reach older adulthood, but I genuinely believe 18-25 year olds aren't that different from teenagers and care significantly about their image and social life just as teens do.

"Focus on women at least as intelligent as you. Most likely, that would already eliminate +98% of the women out there."

Well, thank you. I don't see though how that makes me more intelligent than 98% of women though.

It's just I find most people's idea of a nerd/geek is someone who likes anime, sci-fi, fantasy, comic books and other such things. Most of these things are extremely popular today and being 'nerdy' is actually considered 'cool'.

I'm not compatible with these types though and even though was friends with them in high school struggled to connect with them.

I think my taste is a genuine loser/misfit girl - someone actually awkward who struggles with social interaction or eccentric, someone with genuinely obscure interests.

Sounds like I want an aspie female, but they're unfortunately rare. She doesn't have to be one though.

"Of those that remain, women with a complementary personality type tend to have the greatest long term potential. Shared interests would be nice, but aren't really necessary if you can connect with each other just by having intense discussions on random topics."

Agreed.

most young women who are healthy are good looking, and society elevates them to a status where they put them on a pedestal.
most young women have a sense of subconscious smugness and they are very happy with the fact that society drools over them.
they have a sense of entitlement and some of them are so smug, they simply can not be bothered to say anything sensible.

young woman: i was just ...like...totally..you know? (smiles and pouts and looks around to see who's watching)
me: so you were only "like" totally ? so you were not "totally" totally?
young woman: whatever......
me: i do not know how you were "totally" similar to "i know", or even just "like" totally similar to "i know", but.........
young woman: f**k off dude....
me: done with ease...

^100% true.

BTW, are you also Australian?

Would you agree Australia seems to have this extremely fourth-wave feminism vibe in most places and feminism dictates how most of us live? Would you say Australian men are oppressed from a subtle matriarchy?

Finally, is it in your experiences a fact that a lot of Australian women are less-than-ideal?

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i don't know. i have never studied feminism enough to know what a fourth wave variety of it is.

i know there is a major TV campaign against domestic violence and it seems to indicate that any man could be a culprit, so always be on the alert. there are also brawny footballers who front TV ads with their arms folded and their socks pulled up who are ambassadors chosen by the authorities to decry domestic violence. as if i need to be told by a tough man that it is wrong in order to believe it. the campaign is exaggerated in my opinion.

there is the consideration by the western australian government to commission female only (pink) train carriages in trains so that females can travel safely (as if it is like a trek in the jungle out there for women who move in a world of evil men). and to add to the craziness, gender equality groups have chimed in with complaints that "pink" is stereotyping women and transgender groups wonder whether they will be refused passage on those carriages.....good grief what a sham of emotional affairs the world is caught up in.

it is like young girls are a naked invitation to predators in the form of average men, and there is much overzealousness in wrapping them in kevlar.

quota's for the filling of vacancies in the highest offices in parliament must now include a certain number of women, and if insufficient women with suitable qualifications are to be found, then admission to the roles discounts qualifications in preference for the filling of the quota.

i think it is the political correctness dilemma that is the root of all these crazy outcomes.




that is a very vague question. does "a lot" mean "many" or "the majority"? do you mean the stereotypical anglo-saxon australian bred girls or any naturalized australian girls regardless of the ethnic origin?

if you mean the majority of white stereotypical australian women, then i still consider it impossible to generalize given the fact i have not sampled enough of them to know.

there are australian girls who i find coarse and brash and they like the smell of "their man's BO" and are impressed by mainly brawn, and they can look like alabaster cherubic angels, and there are gap toothed scruffy lower economic status girls who see past all the trivial stuff and think in a true and present way...and visa versa

i have met 3 girls in my history who have been my friends for a long time and they are different from each other but we "click" in a comfortable way, and they were just faces in the long queue of life who drew my attention and who i automatically liked, and that is all within the borders of australia.

i am sorry i am not politically inclined so i can not answer in the way that you seem to want.

Only the second and third girl I find very attractive and feminine. The first has nice red hair, but a very mediocre and plain face.

Actually, none of them is below average looking.

It would depend, my uncle who passed was upper middle class and he didn't give a sh*t about his social structure, he cared about his businesses. My other uncle and aunt are perfectly content with having a small group of friends. They invite people over for small parters, but they're neighbors. I find the mindset of, oh I want to be popular odd; at least outside the realm of celebrity.

As the French say : "des goûts et des couleurs, on ne discute pas"... or "one should never discuss taste and color". It's just too personal & subjective.

Still, are you seriously saying that Kirsten Dunst has a very mediocre and plain face?!?!













I also find it odd and rather narrowminded... but it's far more common than you think.

So Outrider is the new Einstein?

Einstein is overrated... and so is Edison!

Now, Tesla truly was a genius worthy of admiration.

No, that's fine!

You sound neutral and balanced, unlike me who has a bit of a bias attitude.

I have asked the question to every Aussie male I come across though, just to see if it's popular opinion here as well or not. Because other Australian men would have the best idea of what life's like here over Americans.

Of course I try to always have a positive mindset of Australian women, but consistent negative experiences among myself, my friends, family and constantly seeing men also having negative views of Australian women, especially Australian white women, can't help but re-inforce it.

I think a lot of men in western nations today may hold a negative view of the women in their own country, and so a lot of Australian males might see the women here as similar to American women (i.e. holding them in a negative light).

"there are australian girls who i find coarse and brash and they like the smell of "their man's BO" and are impressed by mainly brawn"

At least you admit these type of women exist here!

Perhaps they do everywhere, but maybe in other countries women don't openly admit such things publicly.

For instance in many countries where women are oppressed such as India and Muslim nations, the women who do think these things are probably silenced.

I do find these Australian women though to be extremely rough-mannered and unattractive.

But, then again, I guess it's a good thing they are out and open about it instead of finding out later in a relationship with them.

Still, I have been friends or acquaintances with more than three females, and met plenty of others as well and spoken to them beyond random stranger, and it really feels to me the white women are either extreme feminist's, or 'brash and wanting mainly brawn'.

And with that said, I find a reasonable amount of Australian men to be unlikable people as well.

It's all to do with the culture - our drinking culture and such, as it tends to encourage bad behaviors here.

"i don't know. i have never studied feminism enough to know what a fourth wave variety of it is."

Just my exaggeration of third-wave feminism, as it's lasted a few decades now and been very effective in changing western societies.

"i think it is the political correctness dilemma that is the root of all these crazy outcomes."

Yes and it is unjustified in my views as it is not like women don't have equal opportunity here. Queen Elizabeth II, a woman, is still the technical sovereign authoritarian over Australia, Gina Rinehart is the richest person in the nation, and Julia Gillard is our former PM. The three most powerful women in the nation were all in power at the same time at one point.

The breast cancer and anti-domestic violence campaigns are aggressively pushed onto the public everywhere while other issues (including men issues) are ignored.

Ever seen these (Australian made) videos?!

^That's basically Australia right now in a nutshell.

Say anything even mildly politically incorrect against Feminism, and be the source of a full-fledged classroom of heavy debate.

Yes, this actually did happen in my English class.

We were one to debate politics, philosophy, ideologies and history all the time, and it was the general consensus Feminism is right and good, and men should choose to be Feminist's.

One dude who did believe it's not about equality (he wasn't aggressive about it, simply calmly stating he didn't believe Feminism was about equality) started a heavy civil debate as the Feminist's and white knights ganged up on him.

It was all peaceful and polite, but the Feminist's were still quite...ahem, forceful in letting him realize Feminism 'isn't' just about women's rights but is about equality.

Male teacher argued "I can't see how you as a male wouldn't NOT want to be a feminist in Australia considering X, Y, Z women's issues.

The most controversial thing I managed to say, being politically incorrect, was bluntly "There is no good and evil" when asked if I was arguing the Nazi's were 'the good guys' and Britain were 'the bad guys'.

The video certainly exaggerated things, but the typical Australian classroom IS like that.

Most debates regarding gender equality, politics, sociology, etc. deny political incorrectness and push some sort of Socialist agenda of cultural Marxism where everyone must agree with things.

In all honesty though, I am a political socialist and want equality between people, but not equality for the sake of forcing it onto others or forcing your agenda (e.g. Feminist's forcing feminism onto everyone and forcing them to be feminist's as well).

That's not equality, as that means every opinion, including politically incorrect or contrary views, cannot be heard.

^Let's switch places then, I'll be a full fledged feminist citizen, I vow it.

i watched them and i do not consider them to be very good.
sorry about that. i did not see any surprises in them.
the girl was a poor actor and the script was not comprehensively thought out in my opinion.
but there one goes huh?

the way the increase in sensitivity to the pain of perceived insult is going, it will soon be a viable terrorist act to run through the street yelling what you really think about society and thereby reducing large portions of the witnesses/audience to jabbering blobs of bewildered and retortless ("gobsmacked" perhaps) victims of bigotry.

"breaking news.....15 people have been taken to hospital suffering severe nervous trauma following a verbal assault by a man who ran through a shopping mall in south sydney who fired a volley of unacceptable opinions at passers by in transit.
the man is described as having a "bigoted and prejudiced" face, and has an outdated gait, and anyone who may recognize this man is urged to report him to whoever cares"

I thought they were hilarious because it perfectly captured the batshit crazy Orwellian mindset of the neurotic Left.

Also, AFAIK, Neel Kolhatkar is the only professional comedian/actor/entertainer involved in making those vids. Considering that, I thought the production values were pretty high.



In several European countries, you already can be sentenced for terrorism if only your beliefs are controversial enough.



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