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07 Jul 2016, 5:50 am

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Well if we're keeping within the context of this thread, I don't ask out random guys I've just met. I'm more cautious. I tend to stick to people I've got a sense of by knowing them through activities or mutual friends.

Personally, I like meeting new people. Even if you don't get along well, you get new perspectives on things. And I'm not talking about dates only but in general. For example, it always surprises me how on various events people always tend to stay with with their group rather than mingle.

I would be way to frightened to approach people I don't know. If I'm put I will stick to my friends and like hide behind them.

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08 Jul 2016, 4:40 am

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Another thread made me think of this idea.

For women: If a man found you attractive, and wanted to approach you (a total stranger) what sorts of things would a man say or do that would make you feel interested and not creeped out? I'm sure there are all sorts of answers, and it's an interesting topic to me. I think alot of guys would like to know.

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08 Jul 2016, 4:46 am

Ladies, if a guy asks you about something or some info, whether it is something in grocery or gym or whatever, it doesn't necessarily mean he's interested in you.

Maybe he really, god forbids, wanting to know about this something.

A really interested guy would try to ask you for a contact info.

Also guys should boycott cold approaching women, all world wide - for peace of mind.

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08 Jul 2016, 4:59 am

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08 Jul 2016, 5:27 am

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You're joining the boycotting movement?

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08 Jul 2016, 5:14 pm

^ Dude, I'm gay therefore I don't approach girls lol.

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08 Jul 2016, 5:19 pm

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^ Dude, I'm gay therefore I don't approach girls lol.

You...

....you're lucky.

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08 Jul 2016, 5:21 pm

You can practice, if you want. :lol:

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08 Jul 2016, 5:25 pm

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You can practice, if you want. :lol:

Your seduction techniques won't work on me. :shameonyou:

But seriously, the reason why I think you're lucky because I do generally find men more interesting as individuals (but not sexually) - much easier to relate with them, much easier to find common interests among them...things like that.

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08 Jul 2016, 5:33 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

ShesGone wrote:

You can practice, if you want. :lol:

Your seduction techniques won't work on me. :shameonyou:

Damn straight species, I can't attract them!!

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08 Jul 2016, 6:07 pm

It bothers me when gay men approach me. Fortunately, this hasn't happened in a while.

But I understand WHY the gay man approached me.

Sometimes, gay men like to approach straight men because it's a "challenge."

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08 Jul 2016, 6:21 pm

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You wear a wedding ring?

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08 Jul 2016, 6:26 pm

I don't wear any sort of ring. I never have.

I haven't been approached by a gay man for over 30 years.

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08 Jul 2016, 7:34 pm

Why are people here so against cold approaching?

Statistically, most people find love through meeting mutual friends, but unfortunately not everyone here HAS mutual friends to meet.

Aside from scattered friendships (I.e. I've got 4 friends but no longer live near any of them, and aside from some younger (13 and 15) cousins have no one anywhere close to my age in my life to spend time with.

My friends are all males who don't know many girls themselves, and the one female friend I have knows no one here but only girls in my old hometown, 4 hours + away.

Don't advise me to just focus on Making friends first, I already am along with seeking a relationship as simultaneously. Why can't one do both?

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08 Jul 2016, 7:44 pm

Tbh many of the women who replied to this thread haven't said they would hate to be approached so I don't understand why we are on the topic of people not liking being approached

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08 Jul 2016, 8:31 pm

I was waiting on line to get a bagel. I saw a woman who I thought looked elegant. I told her, "You look elegant today." She said thank you and smiled.

I think it depends upon the woman....and the mood of the woman. Obviously, if a woman has headphones on, it means "DO NOT APPROACH."

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