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13 Jul 2016, 7:00 am

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Well, you said that saying that women are only good sex, even as a joke, is very offensive.

So joking about men are only good for sperm should be equally offensive.

So offensive joke about women is not ok, while offensive joke about men is ok? You get my point?


I guess because guys were joking about it it made it seem ok. I still feel really betrayed I thought we were getting along :'(. I think I will just leave now this site has made me unhappy



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13 Jul 2016, 7:02 am

I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found



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13 Jul 2016, 7:06 am

^ Plz, don't leave. If you leave I'll leave too. Because my thread made you leave.


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13 Jul 2016, 7:10 am

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Well, you said that saying that women are only good sex, even as a joke, is very offensive.

So joking about men are only good for sperm should be equally offensive.

So offensive joke about women is not ok, while offensive joke about men is ok? You get my point?


I guess because guys were joking about it it made it seem ok. I still feel really betrayed I thought we were getting along :'(. I think I will just leave now this site has made me unhappy


Well, to be fair, all guys joked about it and they were not acting (while I pretended to joke along with them to see who is gonna object to that), as if it's ok to joke about men being in concentration camps - as I said, only Sweetleaf objected to that.

So no, you were not targeted in particular - but I was just trying to expose a symptom of a social disease that most of us have it: being not empathetic toward men, and biased when it comes to Political correctness.



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13 Jul 2016, 7:20 am

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Men are strong hunters and women are the untiring caretakers.

Women tend to be more in tuned emotionally whereas males are more protective.

Both genders are awesome in my opinion. Like ying and yang they compliment each other.

Hey, I'm perfectly good caretaker and I'm sometimes very emotional.
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I understand he is gay but anyone would be hurt by being thought as only good for sex wouldn't they? (Genuine question). And I have gays friends who don't feel the oposite gender is only good for one thing

But you said the same thing. You said that men are only good for hunting and women are only good for protecting.


Um no I didn't. I said that as in that was tgr traditional old school roles. No where did I say that's all they are good for.

Please don't put words in my mouth. To be honest I think the phrash 'all someone's good for' is ridiculous. To whittle down a person and say there is only one positive thing about them isn't nice

You said those words so I thought that you agree with these gender roles. If that post was supposed to be sarcastic then you could've made that clearer. This is a community of aspies after all.

So it's ok to say "women/men are good for sex/sperm" as long as you don't say that it's the only thing they're good for? I don't get your logic. I'm sorry.



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13 Jul 2016, 7:24 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
So no, you were not targeted in particular - but I was just trying to expose a symptom of a social disease that most of us have it: being not empathetic toward men, and biased when it comes to Political correctness.

Men are supposed to be strong hunters and not emotional caretakers.



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13 Jul 2016, 7:25 am

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I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found


No no.....Alliekit, come on, no need to be that sad, this was just for the sake of.... Science!! Image

You're a researcher so you should know, sometimes social science researchers do acting scenarios to see how people react to certain cues.

And I said, in my opinion only all were biased except Sweetleaf, so I wasn't singling you out.

Look, I am sorry for pretending like that, I won't do such experiments here again :P.



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13 Jul 2016, 7:30 am

LOL dude...why did you do that. What did you do. :lol:

( I feel really sorry that I end up making you combat on behalf of myself.)

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13 Jul 2016, 7:33 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found


No no.....Alliekit, come on, no need to be that sad, this was just for the sake of.... Science!! Image

You're a researcher so you should know, sometimes social science researchers do acting scenarios to see how people react to certain cues.

And I said, in my opinion only all were biased except Sweetleaf, so I wasn't singling you out.

Look, I am sorry for pretending like that, I won't do such experiments here again :P.


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13 Jul 2016, 7:38 am

Me too. :mrgreen:


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13 Jul 2016, 7:39 am

314pe wrote:
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Men are strong hunters and women are the untiring caretakers.

Women tend to be more in tuned emotionally whereas males are more protective.

Both genders are awesome in my opinion. Like ying and yang they compliment each other.

Hey, I'm perfectly good caretaker and I'm sometimes very emotional.
Alliekit wrote:
I understand he is gay but anyone would be hurt by being thought as only good for sex wouldn't they? (Genuine question). And I have gays friends who don't feel the oposite gender is only good for one thing

But you said the same thing. You said that men are only good for hunting and women are only good for protecting.


Um no I didn't. I said that as in that was tgr traditional old school roles. No where did I say that's all they are good for.

Please don't put words in my mouth. To be honest I think the phrash 'all someone's good for' is ridiculous. To whittle down a person and say there is only one positive thing about them isn't nice

You said those words so I thought that you agree with these gender roles. If that post was supposed to be sarcastic then you could've made that clearer. This is a community of aspies after all.

So it's ok to say "women/men are good for sex/sperm" as long as you don't say that it's the only thing they're good for? I don't get your logic. I'm sorry.


Because it suggests their intelligent and companionship is not important and meaningless.

My boyfriend is good for sperm and sex but that isn't all he is. He is my partner in crime and the only person I can truly be myself with.

I'm good for sex and eggs too but that's not all I am. Does that make sense?

Biologically women are more emotional this does not mean men are not and I would claim as such. I mean they are the biological gender roles but human have moved on from that



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13 Jul 2016, 7:39 am

Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found


No no.....Alliekit, come on, no need to be that sad, this was just for the sake of.... Science!! Image

You're a researcher so you should know, sometimes social science researchers do acting scenarios to see how people react to certain cues.

And I said, in my opinion only all were biased except Sweetleaf, so I wasn't singling you out.

Look, I am sorry for pretending like that, I won't do such experiments here again :P.


Don't woo me woth fallout I love fallout


Woo you?



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13 Jul 2016, 8:21 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found


No no.....Alliekit, come on, no need to be that sad, this was just for the sake of.... Science!! Image

You're a researcher so you should know, sometimes social science researchers do acting scenarios to see how people react to certain cues.

And I said, in my opinion only all were biased except Sweetleaf, so I wasn't singling you out.

Look, I am sorry for pretending like that, I won't do such experiments here again :P.


Don't woo me woth fallout I love fallout


Woo you?


Convince me.

And remember that you have to consider ethics in experiments. People have to be aware they are part of an experiment in order to be ethical. Even if people don't know what they are big tested on they are still aware it's an experiment



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13 Jul 2016, 8:32 am

Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
I came to this site to meet, support and get support from fellow aspies who understood and to get away from the lies of the NT world. That is not what I found


No no.....Alliekit, come on, no need to be that sad, this was just for the sake of.... Science!! Image

You're a researcher so you should know, sometimes social science researchers do acting scenarios to see how people react to certain cues.

And I said, in my opinion only all were biased except Sweetleaf, so I wasn't singling you out.

Look, I am sorry for pretending like that, I won't do such experiments here again :P.


Don't woo me woth fallout I love fallout


Woo you?


Convince me.

And remember that you have to consider ethics in experiments. People have to be aware they are part of an experiment in order to be ethical. Even if people don't know what they are big tested on they are still aware it's an experiment



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13 Jul 2016, 9:03 am

The crying and claiming victim hood of bullying thing because I called you out...really, AllieKit?

Come on! Look. If it helps I'm not my angry on this side of the computer, and I never meant to upset you, but emotions shouldn't ever trump the reality of things, ok?

You have provided great advice to people here and you're generally quite a nice person. you deserve to be here as much as anyone else so don't go, but don't pretend to cry and leave the site if you get called out for being a hypocrite.

Whatever Boos intentions were I'd gladly laugh if it was a joke about women in the same context. It seems you wouldn't. Why?

@ all:
This thread from where I'm standing looks like it is a satire of a another thread about men, except about women. How do people not see that. Now the Op has to close the thread because his thread is being pushed for censorship. Utterly ridiculous.


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13 Jul 2016, 9:14 am

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The crying and claiming victim hood of bullying thing because I called you out...really, AllieKit?

Come on! Look. If it helps I'm not my angry on this side of the computer, and I never meant to upset you, but emotions shouldn't ever trump the reality of things, ok?

You have provided great advice to people here and you're generally quite a nice person. you deserve to be here as much as anyone else so don't go, but don't pretend to cry and leave the site if you get called out for being a hypocrite.

Whatever Boos intentions were I'd gladly laugh if it was a joke about women in the same context. It seems you wouldn't. Why?

@ all:
This thread from where I'm standing looks like it is a satire of a another thread about men, except about women. How do people not see that. Now the Op has to close the thread because his thread is being pushed for censorship. Utterly ridiculous.


I never claimed being the victim of bullying. I was just upset for being set up. I was genuinely upset why is this not ok?