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15 May 2007, 10:57 am

Aspie males can definitely get girlfriends.

I have had two relationships in the past.

I am single and looking at the moment. But while I can easily find *somebody*, I want to be with someone who I easily connect with, and who I can picture spending the rest of my life with.

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15 May 2007, 11:03 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
Aspie males can definitely get girlfriends.

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15 May 2007, 11:12 am

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Do you talk to people verbally?



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15 May 2007, 11:12 am

aspie girls can get girlfriends too :)

(don't leave them out)



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15 May 2007, 11:14 am

Danielismyname wrote:
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Do you talk to people verbally?

I'm capable of it but I try to avoid it and whenever I do do it, unless it's my mum, I screw it up. :?



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15 May 2007, 11:15 am

Kilroy wrote:
aspie girls can get girlfriends too :)

(don't leave them out)

I need evidence of this. :P



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15 May 2007, 11:25 am

okay...I will search the world
it's impossible that all aspie lesbians are alone...not even close



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15 May 2007, 11:27 am

Sopho wrote:
Danielismyname wrote:
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Do you talk to people verbally?

I'm capable of it but I try to avoid it and whenever I do do it, unless it's my mum, I screw it up. :?


Roger…it sounds like it’d be easier for you to try and associate with people from school or whatever, and get comfortable with just conversing to people in areas of your interest; rather than jumping into the deep end of romance.... Unless this is too hard for you also.... :?



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15 May 2007, 11:29 am

Danielismyname wrote:
Sopho wrote:
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Sopho wrote:
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Do you talk to people verbally?

I'm capable of it but I try to avoid it and whenever I do do it, unless it's my mum, I screw it up. :?


Roger…it sounds like it’d be easier for you to try and associate with people from school or whatever, and get comfortable with just conversing to people in areas of your interest; rather than jumping into the deep end of romance.... Unless this is too hard for you also.... :?

I find that hard too, but at least with university there's a chance of me being able to improve at things like that eventually. I'll try and be brave when I go back to uni, I'll aim to talk to people more.
How come you called me Roger by the way? lol I'm not bothered or anything, I was just wondering. :)



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15 May 2007, 11:35 am

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How come you called me Roger by the way? lol I'm not bothered or anything, I was just wondering. :)


I'm laughing.... Roger as in affirmative. Though I can call you “Roger” if you want me to. :wink: I'm still laughing....



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15 May 2007, 11:35 am

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Oh. Sorry about that.

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15 May 2007, 11:38 am

Danielismyname wrote:
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How come you called me Roger by the way? lol I'm not bothered or anything, I was just wondering. :)


I'm laughing.... Roger as in affirmative. Though I can call you “Roger” if you want me to. :wink: I'm still laughing....


As long as nobody calls me Shirley...

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15 May 2007, 11:39 am

Danielismyname wrote:
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How come you called me Roger by the way? lol I'm not bothered or anything, I was just wondering. :)


I'm laughing.... Roger as in affirmative. Though I can call you “Roger” if you want me to. :wink: I'm still laughing....

Oh right haha I understand now. I guess my new name is Roger then. :lol:



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15 May 2007, 11:40 am

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As long as nobody calls me Shirley...

Tim

Good afternoon, Shirley. :wink:



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15 May 2007, 12:02 pm

We have clearance, Clarence...


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15 May 2007, 12:55 pm

I know I seem to have problems with dating.My personal hygiene is top notch though,I do let my hair go a little too long without the haircut but I'm getting better at keeping it short.I used to date alot in highschool but I haven't had a girlfriend in about 8 years.It seems the more attracted I am to a woman the more I avert eye contact,ignore,and shutdown.Then later when I think about it,there is an overwhelming sadness.Anyone relate?