I feel like no one wants me to have a girlfriend

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He is not the strongest or fastest male out there, though he is much more athletic than both myself and my older brother, but he has an aura that makes him attractive to women.

God, if He does exist, had plenty of time to do that back when I called myself a Christian. I even tried defending Him when He was mocked and that only lead to me being mocked as well. I would pray to Him for help but I never received an answer.

I refuse to take things with a smile in hopes I will get my "reward" in Heaven ever again. I used to think God was punishing me because I wasn't praising Him enough but my older brother was partying on an almost daily basis, doing what most would say is "hedonistic" or "sinful" but he was getting everything I wished I had. All those years of sitting in my room and waiting for God's "plan" to happen lead me to only to despair.

By aura that makes him attractive to women do you mean self confidence? Natural kindness? Both? Something else? Just being curious here.

I still believe in God, but i don't think he micromanages our lives. I don't think praying for a partner is appropriate. I think we're given enough freedom to find our own path.

I do think he gives us the strength to keep going And the wisdom, if we ask for it, to find ways of living that is best for our circumstances.

Have you tried praying for contentment? Gonna be honest. I haven't and I maybe should.

AND I think he did see what you did and appreciated it.

Look at King David's life. He had to endure being hunted down by paranoid king Saul for years and years. Spend the best years of his life living in exile. Not because of anything he did. That's just life. Even in the bible God didn't do something miraculous unless he absolutely had to to further some greater purpose.

I don't think that you or I having a partner is going to make us useful to any higher purpose. I think Hannah only received a child because Samuel turned out to be a pretty good and wise leader who benefitted a load of people wider than his immediate family.

I know my view of that is unusual.

I'm not sure you or I can do something that important. But we can do a lot with our current circumstances. Maybe we just haven't found our path yet. And it's not a planned path. It something we will make for ourselves given the support and the guidance we ask for, if we actually ask for it.

Whenever I tell others I want a girlfriend and it makes me sad that I am lonely, the response I usually get is "You don't need a girlfriend!" as if I am being told it's a bad thing that I wish I was in a relationship. A lot of the same people who tell me this are in relationships themselves so why is it ok for them but not for me?

Yes, "if".

I actually agree with Marknis's views on hypocritical-Christians.

I want Marknis to know that God loves him and that He has been sharing Marknis's pain this whole time.

It's just that people don't know that God needs their permission to be in their life.

God needs your permission.

He has been waiting to have a relationship with you.

God wants to be revealed to you.

That's why God can't be "proven" through limited fallible-Human-scientific-standards.

And that is also why it is an "if".

Thank you.

My dear, if Evolution were a real thing - you would have a girlfriend.

Evolution right now is essentially a very popular religion.

I read Darwin's Origin Of Species when I was 10, and I loved it.

I espoused and defended Evolution for years amongst my peers - until I started to see the holes in the Theory.

I saw that Darwin espoused a theory in which Human females are genetically-predisposed to be attracted to the fittest of the species. (Strongest, fastest, smartest)

My brother, who is also Autistic, is tall, with muscles and is a First Degree Black-Belt in Shotokan Karate.

He is also the nicest guy you will ever meet.

Despite being tall, muscular and handsome, he can't get a girlfriend, either.

He's kind and gentlemanly, but shy - and he asks girls out, but it never works out.

When I was younger and studying Evolution, I started to notice the reproductive-habits of anatomically-modern Human females.

I noticed them (on a large scale) reproducing with males that were dumb, weak and unhealthy.

These males did drugs, which filled their bodies with toxins, and were abusive to women - to the point where a woman could be potentially killed before or during pregnancy.

Why is this important?

Evolution is predicated on Darwin's theory of Sexual Selection.

Darwin's theory states that generations of Humans survive by passing on superior-genes to future generations.

Survival of the fittest.

Unfortunately - Darwin's theories and Reality, are two different things.

When you peel yourself away from your Evolution-bible.. er.. textbook, you will see a world in which multitudes of women fill Battered-Shelters in every state and every country.

At a level which is epidemic, women frequently choose to reproduce with men who can potentially kill them, before they have the ability to give birth.

This is Counter-Productive to Evolution - since "superior genes" cannot be carried to the next generation - if there is no next generation.

This problem is further complicated by the fact that women largely are not reproducing with the fittest of the species.

They are echewing strong, handsome, nurturing and intelligent males - and instead are reproducing with males who are mentally and or physically weak specimens, who are unhealthy due to the drug usage.

This happens on a largely noticeable scale enough, that many young men such as yourself are dealing with its effects.

There of course, other huge holes in Evolution, such as an incomplete fossil-record and carbon-dating methods that are only accurate up to some many thousands of years.

But the largest, most obvious proof that Evolution is someone's Classroom-Project that was turned into a crypto-Religion, is the reproductive-habits of many women - and how they directly-contradict Evolution.

You yourself Marknis appear to be a handsome, sweet young man and yet you can't get a girlfriend despite this.

You are strong, you are fast, you are smart.

And yet the women around you are reproducing with men whose kidney's are approaching failure due to overconsumption of alcohol.

You are intellectual, and yet all the women around you are choosing to reproduce with closed-minded dullards.

This, is referred to, as a contradiction.

If Evolution were real, you would have a girlfriend, and your brothers might not be married or have children.

The reason you choose to support Evolution is understandable - because you have grown to hate the people who believe (ironically, correctly) that Evolution is false.

You understandably reject Christianity and support Evolution, because of your experience with them.

However - if Evolution was real - then that would validate their opinions of you being a failure, because they have been successful with reproduction and you have not.

If Evolution is real, then you are Genetically-Unfit and all your worst fears about yourself are validated through Darwin's theory.

If God is real, then you have untapped potential and God has been waiting for you to allow Him to show you everything you truly are.

Among scientists who study biology which I am, the factual occurrence of evolution is not up for debate.

Its as well supported as the notion that the Earth goes round the Sun (and that too is a theory that also contradicts what the Bible has to say on the subject).

Even if it were up for debate, we would not, because of the creationist manner of debate, namely the pre determined conclusion that creation has occurred. It is very distressing to us that a significant portion of the worlds population does not believe it because of the mythology of iron age nomads who also thought sea monsters were real and the world was flat.

Sorry angel but you are clearly in the "bigfoot is real but atoms are not" club. Answer me this: do you or do you not have the pre ordained conclusion that creation has occurred, and nothing will shake you from this conclusion? If I presented evidence that evolution were true, would you change your views? If not, and I'm quite sure you would not regardless of what you say, then any debate on the subject would be a waste of time. Creationists are akin to anti vaxers in this--all the science and evidence in the world would not shake their views.

See while we're off topic. Darwinism and Lamarkism are different.

That's ironic - because it never factually occurs.


That's an interesting claim - show me specifically where it says in the Bible that the earth does not revolve around the sun.

Also, do you believe in The Big Bang Theory?

Sorry angel but you are clearly in the "bigfoot is real but atoms are not" club. Answer me this: do you or do you not have the pre ordained conclusion that creation has occurred, and nothing will shake you from this conclusion? If I presented evidence that evolution were true, would you change your views? If not, and I'm quite sure you would not regardless of what you say, then any debate on the subject would be a waste of time. Creationists are akin to anti vaxers in this--all the science and evidence in the world would not shake their views.

lol..

I get it - "your religion is greater than mine".

I dare not question the all-knowing supreme prophet Charles Darwin.

No, but seriously - I have listed too many ways that Reality contradicts Evolution:

When I was younger and studying Evolution, I started to notice the reproductive-habits of anatomically-modern Human females.

I noticed them (on a large scale) reproducing with males that were dumb, weak and unhealthy.

These males did drugs, which filled their bodies with toxins, and were abusive to women - to the point where a woman could be potentially killed before or during pregnancy.

Why is this important?

Evolution is predicated on Darwin's theory of Sexual Selection.

Darwin's theory states that generations of Humans survive by passing on superior-genes to future generations.

Survival of the fittest.

Unfortunately - Darwin's theories and Reality, are two different things.

When you peel yourself away from your Evolution-bible.. er.. textbook, you will see a world in which multitudes of women fill Battered-Shelters in every state and every country.

At a level which is epidemic, women frequently choose to reproduce with men who can potentially kill them, before they have the ability to give birth.

This is Counter-Productive to Evolution - since "superior genes" cannot be carried to the next generation - if there is no next generation.

This problem is further complicated by the fact that women largely are not reproducing with the fittest of the species.

They are echewing strong, handsome, nurturing and intelligent males - and instead are reproducing with males who are mentally and or physically weak specimens, who are unhealthy due to the drug usage.

This happens on a largely noticeable scale enough, that many young men such as yourself are dealing with its effects.

There of course, other huge holes in Evolution, such as an incomplete fossil-record and carbon-dating methods that are only accurate up to some many thousands of years.

But the largest, most obvious proof that Evolution is someone's Classroom-Project that was turned into a crypto-Religion, is the reproductive-habits of many women - and how they directly-contradict Evolution.

I find it distressing that so many people blindly believe a Classroom-Project that was turned into a crypto-religion by a fallible Human.

As I've said, aside from the fact that the fossil-record is too incomplete to show any proof of evolution, and that carbon-dating is only accurate up to 12,000 years or so - there is also the matter of Darwin's theory of Sexual Selection (upon which evolution hinges upon as a theory which is completely contradicted by the reproductive-habits of many modern Human females.

In short, the way reproduction actually occurs means there can be no possibility for evolution.

Logically, Humans haven't even existed much further back than 10,000 years - and certainly not the 40,000 - 200,000 that Science claims.

With the way many modern Human females select their mates - primitive Humans would have died out thousands of years ago, due to predation, and weak-genetics.

Evolution as a religion is beyond reproach.

Evolution cannot be compared to Reality, where it fails miserably.