Aspie women why do you defend all women?

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So are you trying to say you know all the single women in your town, you know why they rejected you and you’ve been on dates with them all?

I’m not calling you a liar, I’m saying I don’t believe you.

Sounds like you know why 4 women rejected you and made up the rest. If someone on a dating site doesn’t reply to you, you have no idea why they rejected you. Why are you saying they reject you because of your job or being overweight? You don’t know why.

Been rejected by over 1500 women over the time I’ve been on dating sites. That’s 3 Times the min for s left leaning poll and to call it a study lol but that’s slot of rejection:(

Because they are quite clear about it. Even you said well off women date well off men.
Is it really hard to believe single women left are the ones with high standards few men can meet. They wouldn’t be single if not. But they post it very clearly. Via have your life together, Be s real man, or listing out the car, job, home.

Not to say I haven’t been rejected for my looks or political beliefs also, but mostly cause my job. I had an aspie lady push me into chatting on cam only to immediately stop and ghost me after she asked my job and I told her. So no not even aspie women are immune to caring about guys status in life. Also some aspie women can be push and manipulative. That’s what I found out from that.

Studies show women have a stronger own group preference than men.

Because you guys constantly portray all women as shallow b*****s who care most about money and wealth. There are women like that, but women who aren't like that get pissed at constantly being told they are, and that if they deny that they are like that they are 'lying' or being deceitful in some way. Its like you guys want affection but if any womenn gives it to you, you'd probably call them a whore if they aren't quite what you find hott. Not meaning like you specifically...but that is what women deal with. You can be nice and agreeable and accused of being a slut, or you can be a total mean b***h and be accused of being a slut.

I mean guys talk about sex like it such a huge accomplishment, yet they will call the girl they had sex with a 'slut' because they were 'easy'....so its an accomplishment if guys have sex with multiple girls, but a girl is a slut if she's had sex with various men.

I don't even get on so well with other women, but yeah I am sorry if I cannot see them all as evil demons, a lot are just trying to confront 'traditional' values their family has placed upon them while not feeling in line with said 'traditional values' you guys all want self adjusted women who fit into the middle class wife stereotype...a lot of you aren't going to get those kind of women, so be more open minded for f***s sake. Maybe a girl with a little bit of dreaded chubbiness falls in love with you and you reject her cause its not a hot chickTM@ then continue to b***h about no girls ever being interested.

Like I don't like the sterotypical woman mindset, but I still see women as people with differences...a lot of women probably would not get on to well with me being a metalhead, but I don't think they should be f****d over or killed.

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The slut thing is easy to answer, it's a poor comparison.

Getting sex for most girls is incredibly easy and requires nothing besides looks. Getting sex as a guy is alot more difficult, requires looks, good career, social status, well developed personality ect.

Also keep in mind it's usually women who call other women sluts. It's also women who call guys studs aswell.

Yeah but some of us weren't after sex. There is a huge difference from getting sex and getting a relationship. I can't speak for everyone but I always wanted a boyfriend not a glorified one night stand that went on for months. Sure I got 'sex' out of my first boyfriend in college but no actual affection or relationship stuff...just 'hey come meet me for sex, make sure you get wet first in the shower' well f**k you at that time I didn't even know what 'get your self wet in the shower meant' apparently I was supposed to masturbate myself to give him more pleasure. I mean yeah once I figured out his only concern was 'hot sex' and not a relationship I stopped talking to him. But for the longest time I stupidly thought he actually liked me.

Well, that's different then. I think for alot of guys it's actually easier getting into relationships, compared to getting one night stands. I know that's the case for me. So guys use relationships just to get sex, because one night stands are so difficult to execute.

No no no no. It’s not just over picky and broken women who are single. Wrong. Immature and unintelligent comment.

Some may have just come out of a relationship, some might not actually be looking, some are content on their own.

People don’t date someone in their 20s, then it’s crusing for the rest of their life. A lot of relationships end in tatters at all ages. 20s, 30s, 40s etc.

If you have been on 1500 dates and you haven’t met anyone who is completely fair and not rude, that isn’t normal.

I believe a lot of women and men at least want an equal intelligence wise, and someone who wants to achieve something in life. It’s not unreasonable. But there are a lot of women who date unemployed and poor people. Like I said, it’s not just good looking people getting married and breeding.

What do you actually do? I mean people aren’t normally repulsed when someone tells them their job. That isn’t normal.

For reference, what does that aspie woman do?

But don't forget that easy is relative. There's guys (and women) on WP.net who have never been on a date.

But that is the problem, sure a girl can 'get sex' but what the f**k does that matter if you can't get a relationship? I got sex from plenty of guys before meeting my boyfreind and 'just sex' but no relationship was something I was never interested in yet that is what guys led me into. Until I met someone who actually cares about me as a fellow peron instead of just something to have sex with and remain friends with benefits after they ghost me for two weeks.

Perhaps but why does anyone want a one night stand....I just don't get it, like you probably wont see them again...and I myself find it rather useless to have any intimate relationships with people you plan to remove from your life. Like why befriend someone you don't want around especially on a sexual level.

Actually Sweetleaf, you are one of the female users who quickly defended any woman in any relationship/crush story mentioned on WP.

That's why I call you: The Venus Warrior!

You earned this title well.

Because honestly, one night stands make me feel more valued as a man than relationships.

I am pretty sure I have criticized more than one.....but either way; I am not here to judge people on this site so I allow for the margin of people who don't fit in mainstream society. Because that is where I am at I don't even get it half the time I just like to interact with people who are a bit on the same page of not getting mainstream society. I mean it is like people here assume women even if they have aspergers have all these social skills. I can't talk to people I don't know unless they start the conversation, I can't even call my employer to ask why they are giving me no hours and if I can get some....because I am too nervous, even though I should f*****g confront them. Like half the time I am in the dark as to what to do socially, and its horrifying...its not just guys with aspergers who deal with these things.

Except AS guys, who are in your same previous financial situation, in addition to the struggles you too have, are also by far less likely to find someone who's willing to cover their living costs for a lengthy period or time, and their love/sex life would be most probably...zero.

Anyway, you're the Venus Warrior, what do I know.

Most women here seem to break up and be in another relationship in a week. They consider 3 weeks out of a relationship a really long time lol they have no idea what a long time is.

I didn’t say Anything about broken women. Why do you consider some broken? I wouldn’t believe someone’s broken.

I said I been rejected that many times. I’ve only had maybe 5 dates in my life. Rejection is being refused a date with someone.

But as I’ve said I’ve been rejected by unemployed women living off their parents after failing to get a job after college. Why did thy reject me? I don’t habe my life together. More together then theirs is but that doesn’t matter. I only imagine unemployed women are seeking a man to save them from their being poor.


She asked what my job was within about 10 mins of the chat. I said I work seasonally at the local college. She then needed th video chat and blocked me.

Well most aspie women are not usually manipulative or pushy like aspie guys we all don’t usually have the social understandings to do that and tend be more quiet and timid. Not all though. So i dont know if she suffered from anxiety like most aspies if she did she wasn’t very understanding of another aspies anxiety. She kept threatening that if I didn’t video chat with her right then she’d stop talking to me despite me expressing it makes me extremely anxious to video chat. I don’t video chat with anyone. It takes me weeks or months to voice chat people. She showed me not all aspies are the same. This was before I joined wrong planet. So she was the first other aspie and first female aspie I ever meet.

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