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04 Nov 2007, 4:52 am

That's depressing.



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04 Nov 2007, 3:45 pm

May I ask what it is you find depressing?



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04 Nov 2007, 8:03 pm

pixie-bell wrote:
I dated a social zealot at 16, and all I got out of it was him saying to everyone that I was frigid and a 'cold fish' (didn't understand what this was until I asked my Grandmother several years later)...and the guy was right! I am proud to be so...sex, emotions etc. are seriously overrated!


sex is overrated. love is not overrated if and only if you can actually get into successful relationships.



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04 Nov 2007, 8:15 pm

pixie-bell wrote:
May I ask what it is you find depressing?
Saying that emotions and sex are overrated... honestly, if I gave up on those things now, I might as well just die. It's like as though there's something better? Saying they're overrated just sounds like an excuse to me...



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05 Nov 2007, 3:06 pm

Didn't mean to offend anyone...as an individual I am very phlegmatic in nature but do believe that if you find love with someone then, yes, it is worth it. However, I personally would and do prefer to do something unrelated to sex, (i.e. read a particular interest of mine) as I can't tolerate touch in anyway and so sex I find to be more uncomfortable than pleasurable.

That was merely what I was trying to get across!