The super confusing “date”...

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I imagined her as eager to go on expensive dates but perhaps she really isn't a player.

Sounds like she might be a bit mentally unstable though. At the very least, she sounds depressed.
Well, who knows why she acts like that, but one thing I do know. People who don't show their feelings and keep them on the inside have an interpersonal dynamic that can be very exhausing to be around. The negative emotions can leak as passive-aggressiveness, sudden emotional outbursts (it's not pretty), but also with weird unexplained behavior like when she asked you to call her, then didn't pick up the phone. I have a weird feeling about it, like it's a test for her to see how much she can bs you, but I'm aware that that is an extreme thought.
Maybe she has an avoidant attachment style.
But she sounds so incredibly apathic, especially when you mentioned how she just sat there in the disco, or how dry the date went.

Anyway I have two prospects, one of them I will see on this weekend.

This time it's not through a dating app! Yoohoo! Hallelujah! Something different at last!

But through a friend (more of an online chatmate actually) who mentioned a new coworker who thinks she's a good match for me (I dunno why), so I chatted her on facebook and it went well.

We will see.

Ferris, kindly rename the thread from "date" to consecutive "dates" or some other funny title.

And Oh....always feel free to abuse my posts with funny pics.

Update: Got a new relationship, in FWB terms. But with a totally newer person, not mentioned earlier in this thread.
Not yet a bf/gf relationship, still to get know each other better for that, but it is an already exclusive sexual relationship.

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