Can't stop thinking about an Asperger's girl at work...

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Yeah she’s probably using him too he’ll be fine he’s a big boy he’s nearly 40!

Actually if u have time or if you’ve seen pen o friend (he writes so well) around I need some advice myself.

To get over my own situation bizarrely with a “R” I made a let’s call him a pen pal (yes the old school letter writing kind), now my pen pal and I are similar in that we are both massive jumpers in life. So that being so he’s decided he’s coming across the world in October (most ppl I would think knowing someone for 4 hours would travel to the other side of the world but this guy is different.... like a real jumper...) only problem is I... like B want what I can’t have and what I want is a nicely quarantined relationship that I can pick up and drop off and just do a whole lot of crazy s**t with without having to do the day to day stuff... like see the northern lights, build igloos he’s incredibly physical which is nice but you know.... I don’t feel that connection.. the horrible gut wrenching churn.... anyway don’t want to lose him either.. it’s another mess

Ahh I remember being single and doing crazy spontaneous stuff...those were the days...

Ok ok maybe it’s not as bad as I think... everyone I’ve told so far has kinda gulped air... the other problem is he’ll expect to stay with me Jeepers I just wanted someone to go down a river with and potentially see play with a crocodile

So cyberdad tell me ever hitched hiked around a country? Ur old! Must have been socially acceptable back then right?

old!! WTH! yeah not long to go before I press the reset button

I travelled for about three years through Asia and earned money teaching English and stuff...it was quite interesting but I look back and perhaps I wasted three years which I could have developed my career

My dad took an Holden ute around Australia and hitchhiked back in 1970 with a bunch of dudes. Yep in those days it was a right of passage, nowadays with cheap flights young Aussie males go spend a year in UK (we basically run all the bars in London).

old!! WTH! yeah not long to go before I press the reset button

I travelled for about three years through Asia and earned money teaching English and stuff...it was quite interesting but I look back and perhaps I wasted three years which I could have developed my career

My dad took an Holden ute around Australia and hitchhiked back in 1970 with a bunch of dudes. Yep in those days it was a right of passage, nowadays with cheap flights young Aussie males go spend a year in UK (we basically run all the bars in London

Teaching in Asia gee that must have been interesting I’m applying for international job atm gotta hit the reset button in life.

Would recommend Japan or South Korea if your a female. It's really really clean, safe and lots of opportunity for work over there.

I did my three years tour of duty in Malaysia and Singapore.

Lol I doubt it will be Asia but thanks we’ll see. And yes I’m a female.

And this way I won’t have to tell my real life pen pal about my home situation because I won’t be in Australia this is the perfect plan!! !

well wherever or whenever you decide to take a trip wishing you "bon voyage"

Oh thanks but first I have to get the job lol earning in Aussie dollars is the only thing that makes sense.

London then? it's an adventure but you won't be too homesick

After 5 pages I guess it’s time to stop thinking about her.

He has...

I do still have feelings for R but the intensity is thankfully manageable now.
Our relationship is unlike anything else but it's the first time I've been friends with another very autistic person.
Although we've only known each other for a couple of months we seem to have got close very quickly. I don't know if this is just because of the ASD or something else.
It's been interesting anyway...