03 Jul 2020, 9:23 pm
03 Jul 2020, 10:05 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Some scammers on the internet can pretend to be a female, but are male.
OT: I don't know if I can say much useful, since I just discovered your age.
I personally don't see dating sites as a good way to meet someone.
If you have some female friends, they could give you a hand maybe? Like going out sometimes. But I have no clue how it is for you as someone with AS, since many of us don't like going to places with too many noises/people for example..
But sure is that it's better to meet new people in real life, especially if you plan to have a long-term relationship.
OT: I don't know if I can say much useful, since I just discovered your age.
I personally don't see dating sites as a good way to meet someone.
If you have some female friends, they could give you a hand maybe? Like going out sometimes. But I have no clue how it is for you as someone with AS, since many of us don't like going to places with too many noises/people for example..
But sure is that it's better to meet new people in real life, especially if you plan to have a long-term relationship.
There’s always a reason why some single people end up on using dating sites - it’s often the last resort after many years of failed attempts to find someone in all stages of life (school, college, work...etc); not all of us are .... genetically gifted in health, looks and social charms in order to naturally attract people via “real life” means. Even my last ex have told me that I wouldn’t have even gotten her attention if she first met me in real life.
Kitty is no exception in that struggle.
Boo Boo is right, I tried to meet men in my town, I had no luck, there was one guy I met at a hangout club (it’s gone now, it had pool tables, karaoke, dancing, food & alcohol too) this guy I didn’t want, he tried to pick me up. I cannot go out anyway, I have a very bad leg problem & I cannot walk too long. Even when I had crushes on men, it didn’t turn out good. I had a secret admirer years ago, I always ate lunch at this restaurant, this guy was my secret admirer, he kept buying me lunch
04 Jul 2020, 12:50 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Yup, that's 1:0 for me 
I will be as submissive as you want me to be.
<Pepe rolls on back waiting for a tummy rub>
04 Jul 2020, 12:54 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
I’m close with one woman, but she in Australia.
Read my lips!
I am not a woman!
04 Jul 2020, 3:25 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
04 Jul 2020, 7:41 am
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
Pepe wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
HirkEukvic wrote:
I met my second (current) wife on OkCupid. It worked out well because we took our time getting to know each other and we had both answered a ton of their multiple choice questions which meant it matched us more accurately.
I have found that online dating was the only thing that worked for me because I can't read real-life cues at all.
I have found that online dating was the only thing that worked for me because I can't read real-life cues at all.
I am also bad at reading real life cues, and I'm horrible at determining a man's age just by looking at him. It's so much easier to just read a number on the screen
Those were my primary reasons for online dating. I think it has its place for sure. But I can respect the choice of those who choose not to go that path.Forum or email communication is much better initially, for those on the spectrum.
I could go into detail,
But I don't think it necessary.
Isn't my statement self-evident?
I agree, starting out with messaging is great. Online dating involves messaging back and forth, much like email. Usually to begin with, using the website's messaging system, so as to avoid harassment to your personal email if things happen to take a bad turn.
A lot of people create a temporary email address, initially.
You can even customise it to the person you are communicating with.
E.G.
Pepe_your_so-fine_you_blow _my [email protected]
Substitute "Pepe" for "Mickey" in the video.
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe,
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe,
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe,
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe,
Hey Pepe!
You've been around all night and that's a little long
You think you've got the right but I think you've got it wrong
Why can't you say goodnight so you can take me home, Pepe
'Cause when you say you will, it always means you won't
You're givin' me the chills, baby, please baby don't
Every night you still leave me all alone, Pepe
Oh Pepe, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
Oh, what you do Pepe, do Pepe
Don't break my heart, Pepe
Hey Pepe!
Now when you take me by the hooves everyone's gonna know
Every time you move I let a little more show
There's somethin' we can use, so don't say no, Pepe
So come on and give it to me any way you can
Any way you wanna do it, I'll treat you like a man
Oh please, baby, please, don't leave me in a jam, Pepe
Oh Pepe, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
Oh, what you do Pepe, do Pepe
Don't break my heart, Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe
Hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, you're so fine
You're so fine you blow my mind, hey Pepe
Oh Pepe, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
Oh, what you do Pepe, do Pepe
Don't break my heart, Pepe
Oh Pepe, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
Oh, what you do Pepe, do Pepe
Don't break my heart, Pepe
Oh Mickey, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
Oh, what you do Pepe, do Pepe
Don't break my heart, Pepe
Oh Pepe, what a pity you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Pepe, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you Pepe
04 Jul 2020, 7:45 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
Yup.
I'm bloody good face-to-face.
But I'm damned irresistible legend as a keyboard champion.
04 Jul 2020, 10:14 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
04 Jul 2020, 10:25 am
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Yup, that's 1:0 for me
I will be as submissive as you want me to be.
<Pepe rolls on back waiting for a tummy rub>
seems like you already start to get to know my preferences.
good boy.
04 Jul 2020, 12:50 pm
05 Jul 2020, 2:01 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
Are you talking to me?
05 Jul 2020, 3:58 am
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Yup, that's 1:0 for me
I will be as submissive as you want me to be.
<Pepe rolls on back waiting for a tummy rub>
seems like you already start to get to know my preferences.
good boy.
Woof!
<thinks: what website doesn't have a dog emoji? Or a skunk one?>
05 Jul 2020, 4:01 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
Are you talking to me?
I believe she was, yes.
Was it an invitation?
I don't know.
Ask her.
05 Jul 2020, 12:01 pm
Pepe wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
Are you talking to me?
I believe she was, yes.
Was it an invitation?
I don't know.
Ask her.
There's always a first time having some lesbian experiences.
We need to keep our options open, my friend But yes Kitty, I asked you that question. (And it's not an invitation)
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The_Face_of_Boo
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Gender: Non-binary
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Location: Beirut, Lebanon.
05 Jul 2020, 12:12 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
Are you talking to me?
I believe she was, yes.
Was it an invitation?
I don't know.
Ask her.
There's always a first time in having some lesbian experiences.
We need to keep our options open, my friend But yes Kitty, I asked you that question. (And it's not an invitation)
I have a female version of me, you know.
05 Jul 2020, 6:27 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Oh you misunderstood; my ex told me so in a lovely way (while in bed lol), she was complimenting me but saying how she would have never found out my good traits if there was no online communication in prior - you know, honest conversations.
Oh excuse me. I get it.
I love the internet for that. It helpled me going through my teens.
I actually still like having conversations without being face-to-face. Sometimes I even prefer it.
I didn’t get the internet until 1999, I was 29. I like having conversations without being face to face too, in person you have to think fast, the right words don’t always come out of my mouth.
But don't you crave physical touch and intimacy?
Are you talking to me?
I believe she was, yes.
Was it an invitation?
I don't know.
Ask her.
There's always a first time in having some lesbian experiences.
We need to keep our options open, my friend But yes Kitty, I asked you that question. (And it's not an invitation)
I have a female version of me, you know.
Down boy,
Err, girl,
Err, whatever.
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