What Age Does It Start Becoming Weird To Date A 18 Year Old?

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What Age Does It Start Becoming Weird To Date An 18 Year Old Girl?
23 10%  10%  [ 2 ]
24 10%  10%  [ 2 ]
25 10%  10%  [ 2 ]
26 5%  5%  [ 1 ]
27-29 10%  10%  [ 2 ]
In your thirties 29%  29%  [ 6 ]
In your forties or older 14%  14%  [ 3 ]
It's never weird to date an 18 year old. 14%  14%  [ 3 ]
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04 Jul 2020, 2:46 am

cyberdad wrote:
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And, men are not responsible for what evolution has instilled.
They simply have to abide by the social standards of their respective communities.
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Yes and most younger women aren't interested in oldies unless they are very very rich :wink:


Financial stability is important to some women,
And compensates for the age gap. <shrug>

I have never been a "Sugar Daddy",
And don't want to be,
But I don't have a problem with that.
Good luck to both of them. :wink:

Different strokes for different folks. 8)



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04 Jul 2020, 3:25 am

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You have my permission to hunt younger females. :mrgreen:

My family would probably disown me

No risk no fun. :mrgreen: But I totally doubt that. :wink:

They get upset when a 26 old dates a 19 year old
Or when a 21 old they know is dating a 26 old loser

Do you want your family in your bed or a girl that you like? There are countries with more then eight years average (!) age gap https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... ationships So what's your real problem?


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04 Jul 2020, 3:29 am

quite an extreme wrote:
sly279 wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
You have my permission to hunt younger females. :mrgreen:

My family would probably disown me

No risk no fun. :mrgreen: But I totally doubt that. :wink:

They get upset when a 26 old dates a 19 year old
Or when a 21 old they know is dating a 26 old loser

Do you want your family in your bed or a girl that you like? There are countries with more then eight years average (!) age gap https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... ationships So what's your real problem?


I’d rather have a bed then a gf who’d probably dump me after week or so.
I feel most 18-24 olds won’t date me because of my age and 25+ wont date me cause of my income.
Been talking to a woman in Facebook but she wants to exchange numbers and maybe go on a date, so I informed her of my income, job, disability and lack of car. I don’t think I’ll hear From her again, but I’d rather get it over with sooner then later and save my time and feelings.


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04 Jul 2020, 3:46 am

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I’d rather have a bed then a gf who’d probably dump me after week or so.

If she dislikes you she'll dump you either and there is no way to prevent this.
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I feel most 18-24 olds won’t date me because of my age and 25+ wont date me cause of my income.
Been talking to a woman in Facebook but she wants to exchange numbers and maybe go on a date, so I informed her of my income, job, disability and lack of car. I don’t think I’ll hear From her again, but I’d rather get it over with sooner then later and save my time and feelings.

Do you wan't a girlfriend that is into your income and car only? Sounds very strange to me. :roll:


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04 Jul 2020, 3:59 am

I'm not putting a number on it on this site.

For NTs dating NTs, LFA dating LFA or Aspies dating Aspies: 1/2 your age plus 7.

But autism makes your emotional age younger. Turns you naive. Means you're less experienced with social stuff.

I had someone break the 1/2 your age plus 7 with me earlier this week and it felt far more like they were grooming and acting crude towards a 20 yo than a 31 yo.

I still live at home. I've had very few dates. I don't have a wide social circle. I'm not great with social stuff. If things go sour, who exactly can I tell except my parents?

I had sex at 17 (legal here) and at 21 with NTs close to my own age and it feels like I was groomed. I didn't want it but lack of social circle and lack of experience saying no means I agreed to it out of pressure and external gifts.

Personally I'd rather date another aspie who I know is an aspie and is around my age than date a 16-20 yo. Because you don't actually know their neurotype when you start dating them. Or if they have learning difficulties etc which makes it harder for them to give consent. And my ideal is just to stay single.

Practice platonic friendship first, young people on this site.

Also outside of consent issues who cares about weird or not.


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04 Jul 2020, 7:59 am

quite an extreme wrote:
sly279 wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
You have my permission to hunt younger females. :mrgreen:

My family would probably disown me

No risk no fun. :mrgreen: But I totally doubt that. :wink:

They get upset when a 26 old dates a 19 year old
Or when a 21 old they know is dating a 26 old loser

Do you want your family in your bed or a girl that you like? There are countries with more then eight years average (!) age gap https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... ationships So what's your real problem?


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Female preference for older males
Table 1. Regional singulate mean age of marriage (SMAM) difference between males and females[41] Region SMAM difference
Eastern Africa 4.3
Middle Africa 6.0
Northern Africa 4.5
Western Africa 6.6
Eastern Asia 2.4
South-Central Asia 3.7
South-Eastern Asia 2.4
Western Asia 3.5
Eastern Europe 3.1
Northern Europe 2.3
Southern Europe 3.3
Western Europe 2.7
Caribbean 2.9
Central America 2.5
South America 2.9
Northern America 2.3
Australia/New Zealand 2.2

As they are the higher-investing sex, females tend to be slightly more demanding when picking a mate (as predicted by parental investment theory).[31] They also tend to have a more difficult task of evaluating a male's reproductive value accurately based on physical appearance, as age tends to have fewer constraints on a male's reproductive resources.[35] Buss attributed the older age preference to older males displaying characteristics of high providing-capacity[32] such as status and resources. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_dispa ... y_approach
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